閒聊另一大事之生BB血淚史 都, 在家, 小朋友

大C姐

既然大家都想講生小朋友不如開過另一個題啦。因爲生BB呢個欄目太大，齋講坐月都有排講。尤其近年咁多人生小朋友，可以趁機會學習吓。


先講點解要生B。我覺得生兒育女係全宇宙最偉大嘅事，因為做人父母所需要嘅時間心機今錢犠牲實在太多太大太長。

還想起以前細個小朋友好多時間都係自己一個冇皇管小學一二年級自己返學放學，但係依家獨留兒童在家係犯法！真係每一刻都要照顧個小朋友直到起碼十幾歳。先唔好講頭一兩年喂奶換片呢啲咁time consuming又貴嘅支出，識行識走更加驚會跌親整親，真係大便都冇時間。

到入學啦，呢度都叫做係冇咩壓力，但係依家啲細佬要學咁多嘢，作爲家長點知個細佬有咩興趣才能？我自問好怕怪獣家長，我覺得有時做人要行啲＂冤枉路＂先識成長。但係依家搵食真係要十八般武藝，以前識中英文，識打字，就做到文職，肯跟師父學嘢就有一門手藝。但係依家＂智識型經濟＂要識嘅嘢真係沒完沒了。

我出嚟行走漿糊咁耐，都未知有咩才能，都唔肯定自己發揮到自己才能未。但係我又好明父母好驚自己做得唔夠，希望盡量俾最好嘅嘢啲仔女，第日起碼唔會埋怨點解唔供自己入名校，出國讀書，etc。


講到尾，有冇人考慮緊生小朋友，considering factor係咩？有小朋友嘅又講吓當初點計畫生BB，有咩準備？已經做咗人爸爸媽媽又分享你哋啲血淚史呀。



- 小C姐

fibbi

Why considering having Baby...because that's what complete a "family"...
It's another step of life.

準備? to get pregnant? or during pregnancy?
I know many people take Chinese herbal medicine to 調理身體...I didn't. I only took multi-vitamin (i.e. Materna) during pregnancy. Many people take extra folic acid etc...
During pregnancy, get all the baby stuff ready before baby arrive. e.g. crib, crib mattress, stroller, carseat, a few baby clothes, bath tub, diaper, change table, bottle, pump, bottle steamer.
Also, attend class, and for me, not to eat: sashimi (basically anything not cooked including salad), mouuse cake (becaue contains raw egg), ice cream, cold water, coffee, deli meat, honey, banana and papaya (my mom said it's "cold" food in nature), cheese except processed cheese, less tea. (some people don't drink tea I found drinking a bit is ok). And try to have more balance diet. Eat beef, spinach, fish, drink 2 cups of milk a day, and drink more water...etc.

Catpiano

生兒育女係全宇宙最偉大嘅事，因為做人父母所需要嘅時間心機今錢犠牲實在太多太大太長大C姐 發表於 2012-10-18 09:44

    OK .. finally .. something ...  make sense ..  ^_^

To me? that is how God designed us .. so ..  just follow the flow! ^_^

ricrick

傳宗接代!! (雖然人類就快滅亡)

生仔是天職/本能，現代人不想生，米又係享樂主義及不想負責任，傳宗接代的意識都沒有了

生左出黎，條命就係子女的，你就用盡方法令他可以傳宗接代下去

satil

做爸媽當然血淚一籮籮，點講得咁多吖。
同輩親朋有好多都選擇唔生，搵錢兩個人使，隨時放假又真係好逍遙。

做父母就顧慮多多，日忙夜忙，放假就更係麻煩多多，又就學假又就喜好。
如果子女有特別需求，有病痛，就更需心血處理安排。
責任好似永遠不完。

現在子女都大了，可自行照顧自己，作為父母可以恢復大部份的自由。

計落，要生就早生，仔女出身，自己還有健康去玩。

依家得閒就攞姨甥，姪仔嚟玩，發現新的一代（現時幾歲），真的特別醒，特別難教。

Ovaltine

reproduction is retarded in the overpopulated the world, of course some may accuse me of bigotry.

大C姐

Why considering having Baby...because that's what complete a "family"...
It's another step of life.
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fibbi 發表於 2012-10-18 11:01

    好多人結婚前已經做定婦科檢查，同埋真係想懷孕之前又會食定好多supplements同埋好多預防某啲疾病嘅藥。

當然好現實嘅問題就係經濟上同埋住屋上有冇一結婚已經搬去大啲嘅地方住，要唔要儲定幾多錢先生。同埋究竟呢到生小朋友要唔要４００萬？

大C姐

做爸媽當然血淚一籮籮，點講得咁多吖。
同輩親朋有好多都選擇唔生，搵錢兩個人使，隨時放假又真係好逍遙。
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satil 發表於 2012-10-18 14:27

    但係講就易囉，莫講話後生仔女好多未夠成熟去教細佬，就算知識同心裡上ready，好多真係financially未搞得掂。依家養細佬仔真係好貴！你喂人奶健康啲平啲，但係唔係個個應付到，亦可能返唔到工。食奶粉都唔係好貴，但係又有啲BB受唔到要食concentrate或ready to feed...

fibbi

回復 7# 大C姐


    我有問過family doctor，佢又無話有咩special嘅婦科檢查for pregnancy喎，總之有做開平時嘅婦科檢查就得。
我自己好唔鍾意食suppliment，我覺得自己均衡飲食就得。

講真，喺香港間樓都係幾百尺（實用面積仲無咁多添），咪又係一家四口，有咩話要大屋先生得仔喎。呢邊一般apartment都有七百靚尺啦。住多一個細路又點會話唔得。

講到開支，bb嘅formula（ready to feed比起奶粉已經係貴嗰隻）大約＄4／day，平過自己食用好多啦。diaper＄0.2一條，一日換12條都係＄3唔洗。＄210一個月基本開支，政府有＄100牛奶金，都唔係好貴啦。當然買衫褲鞋襪唔好計。
反而day care貴。至於學校，讀public就唔洗＄。但係課外班就係＄囉。一個班＄400，兩個八百。當然你可以乜都唔去。說到底養兒育女都係豐儉由人。

satil

回復 8# 大C姐

講真吖，邊個父母真係完全準備好，從來都無“教育子女”課程。從來都沒有任何標準，個個都係殺到嚟，勇字上，邊做邊學，又睇吓其他朋友，見到唔好，就自己避免，見到好，咪學吓。又可以同啲有大幾年小朋友啲家長，傾吓，取經。我當年咪一樣。避都避唔到，中咗咪頂硬上，點知四年後，歷史又重複一次，又整多件。

食就唔係用好多錢，醫療更加有政府，玩具衣著可以好平簡單，教育有公校。你沒有大要求的話，可以好省錢。我有好多朋友都以這低標準來養子女。但一講到有要求的一班朋友，要教乜學物，私校，課外團體活動．．．就不得了。

我嗰兩件，當年要去特殊學校，交通及學費已成萬一年，兩件，稅後２皮嘢！未計課餘學乜學物

不過捱吓捱吓，慶幸，從未有任何大風波，十幾廿年好快過，總算雨過天清。