fibbi

回復 10# satil


    不過我覺得呢度政府對有特殊需要嘅小朋友有好多照顧（比起香港）。亦有好多subsidize，父母會無咁辛苦。


而且教育子女，又唔可以一部通書睇到老，個個小朋友嘅性格都唔同，真係要慢慢探索。總之就大學問啦。

satil

回復 11# fibbi

最可惜，政府唔認同我地嗰類特殊需要，曾多次找教育局，幫到好少。

大C姐

回復  大C姐


    我有問過family doctor，佢又無話有咩special嘅婦科檢查for pregnancy喎，總之有做開平 ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-19 10:54

    因爲好多人會先做產前檢查睇吓身體有冇缺乏啲咩，有冇隱性遺傳病等等。

你咁講好似好輕鬆唔洗點儲錢添喎。諗住生幾多個？

大C姐

reproduction is retarded in the overpopulated the world, of course some may accuse me of bigotry.
Ovaltine 發表於 2012-10-18 15:39

    我覺得戰後出生率飈升所以有baby boomer。而呢十幾年成日話人口爆棚，唔夠資源，呢啲大環境嘅影響都會令我哋呢啲哩民唔想生BB。

大C姐

回復  大C姐

講真吖，邊個父母真係完全準備好，從來都無“教育子女”課程。從來都沒有任何標準，個個都係 ...
satil 發表於 2012-10-19 10:58

    當然啦，頂硬上係一個＂方法＂但係又唔可以排除呢個世界有好多unfit parents。

尤其呢一代普遍生得少，屋企老豆老母都仲要搵食又未必幫到手，兄弟姉妹又少，家庭support比較上可能少啲。除非有多少錢請人幫手，唔係都幾＂哩hea＂。


咁你有咩難忘經驗？會唔會有啲時候背人垂淚？

fibbi

回復 13# 大C姐


    $ is only one issue....
WORKLOAD is another issue...

it just takes too much work to take care of BABY....
Basically...no more personal time.

I guess it's better in hK....can hire "bun bun" to help out with housework...
yes the mat leave is a year but imagine doing all housework + take care of baby ALONE (most part of the day)....it's not easy.

大C姐

回復  大C姐


    $ is only one issue....
WORKLOAD is another issue...

it just takes too much work ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-19 14:24

有冇眼紅身邊啲朋友身型又好fit仲成日去旅行去wet？

同埋一個人留喺屋企會唔會好自閉好抑鬱？

satil

回復 15# 大C姐

咁，學前，我兩公婆都有工作，兩個細都係番全英文daycare，兩個收費接近一份人工，但明顯好處是小朋友早就可以學習團體生活，有規有矩，仲全程英文對答，唔驚要esl。現在睇番，這筆錢值得！

老人家幫手睇普遍都問題多多，太惜太放太縱，很多都會令小朋友學會玩弄大人的決定及規矩。我都提意朋友，可以的話，勿行這步。

fibbi

回復 17# 大C姐


    even with baby, many of my friends are very fit..
and during mat leave I won't stay at home all the time la...will go to park and both of us get some fresh air...
when the weather is nice...even take skytrain/bus to granville island!

大C姐

回復  大C姐

咁，學前，我兩公婆都有工作，兩個細都係番全英文daycare，兩個收費接近一份人工，但明顯好 ...
satil 發表於 2012-10-19 15:19

    喺呢度出世點會讀ESL 呀，我喺香港讀英文學校都夠用有餘啦。

我同意群體生活，好多時小朋友得到太多attention會反叛。不過你有兩個會好少少。