fibbi

回復 170# 大C姐


    如果真係大攪就搵wedding planner啦。
咁我都唔係咁西化。都無攪到你講嗰啲reheral dinner/engagement dinner etc..
But even that...that's the job of MOH? I'd rather be the organizer myself...

大C姐

回復  大C姐


    如果真係大攪就搵wedding planner啦。
咁我都唔係咁西化。都無攪到你講嗰啲reheral din ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-22 15:11

    都係果句啦，睇Bridesmaids就知㗎啦。當然，電影係誇張啲，但係都唔差得遠，事實上好多bridezilla係好demanding，亦聽好多人講搞婚禮係分手嘅原因，朋友決裂嘅兇手。

香港未必有MOH呢個position但係做姊妹都有時要做跑腿，幫手格價，call場地佈置花卉司儀production company，安排小禮物幫手請化妝梳頭攝影...... 真係睇吓個bride想搞幾大。當然我又唔排除好多（自己嫁唔出嘅）女子好enjoy幫人搞婚禮嘅。

fibbi

回復 172# 大C姐


    你講嗰啲格價跑腿工作，我真係無諗過俾另外一個人去做，因為始終決定（用邊間vender）嗰個都係我，如果我唔想做就會俾planner去做。不過可能香港啲情況唔同啦。

MOH/bridesmaid will probably go wedding gown hunting with me...but that's all in terms of the preparation work...

就算婚禮嗰日，因為個MOH要跟身去影相，都唔可以做聯絡different vendor，要交落俾另外一個朋友去handle。(e.g. I'll ask one of my friends to be responsible for the wedding cake, if the cake hasn't arrived in the restaurant by THIS time, he/she should give the bakery a call).

大C姐

回復  大C姐


    你講嗰啲格價跑腿工作，我真係無諗過俾另外一個人去做，因為始終決定（用邊間vender） ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-23 11:31

    有啲新娘好卑鄙，又冇時間格價，又要make final decision，就不停左度右度。同埋好多女人好鍾意問人意見，但係其實心裏有數，想人哋去講中自己心水。

若然你同姊妹去wedding gown shopping，個個人都會有自己意見。首先，你啲姊妹可能係諗自己鍾意果啲款，唔係諗你著得靚唔靚。而你自己又可能好主觀，其實你望到嘅嘢同其他人見到嘅角度又係兩回事。所以點解影相同照鏡有分別就係咁解。

fibbi

回復 174# 大C姐


    咁我都係揀定咗兩件先會問second opinion. 都費事要朋友陪我行哂溫哥華咁多鋪頭啦。

大C姐

咁不如講吓，喺Vancouver同香港搞婚禮嘅budget大概要幾錢？

搞過婚禮嘅講吓有咩開支係計漏？有咩地方可以慳啲？有冇人結婚可以break-even，甚至有錢賺？

fibbi

回復 176# 大C姐


都幾難break even喎，就算酒席break even到，酒水呢？回禮小禮物呢？都唔好講場地佈置（中式嘅話）。
結婚其他洗費包括：photography (pre wedding/engagement + actual day photography), video, wedding gown/tuxdeo, makeup, 過大禮 stuff, honeymoon(?), wedding ceremony venue + commissioner, invitation
Of course, you can save a lot by having friends doing the photography + video, get 2nd hand or discounted wedding gown, or rental, DIY invitation (or get from HK)

fibbi

回復 177# fibbi


    also..missing the cost of "flower bouquet"...

大C姐

回復  大C姐


都幾難break even喎，就算酒席break even到，酒水呢？回禮小禮物呢？都唔好講場地佈置（中 ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-24 09:57

真係有啲人唔係好洗出錢㗎。

首先中式婚禮就易啲＂圍皮＂，因爲個個都俾cash禮金，而且喺酒樓擺又唔洗佈置又唔洗小禮物（都係餅卡啫），租禮服，攝影搵朋友（友情價），化妝好多都係搵朋友／自己化。咁你喺酒樓擺得都唔會好大production搞photo album, vidoes，都係家庭照同可能啲賓客有啲home video。喜帖越嚟越平，如果唔係３D突字加lace花其實唔係好貴。

渡蜜月就另計啦，可能有朋友sponsor或者用points換近近哋嘅機票。

fibbi

I haven't been to wedding banquet without wedding favour though...(a couple specify that the wedding favour $ goes to donation).