kabuki

原帖由 mcjohnjohn 於 2008-12-17 20:05 發表


They should not have sex in the first time. Sex is a basic human needs, but you need to achieve something in order to have this gift from nature. YOU NEED TO KNOW THAT YOU WILL HAVE CHANCE TO GET A  ...

well first of all that was not the question...
second of all there is always an option of abortion...
and finally, are you saying that if a woman hate kids, she should not have sex at all even if they are married?

kabuki

原帖由 Ultraman 於 2008-12-17 20:19 發表

That's the key killing part! Even the young couple (and even their families) are rich, have all the "essential elements/factors" mentioned, "the gal hates kids"....!
The fact is, even the parents ar ...

Haha we all know how it is impossible for a person to change… don’t know why some woman keeps trying

mcjohnjohn

原帖由 kabuki 於 2008-12-18 11:25 發表
well first of all that was not the question...
second of all there is always an option of abortion...
and finally, are you saying that if a woman hate kids, she should not have sex at all even if they are married?

if a woman hate kids, she should use some better contraception methods, e.g. 結紮.
if her man doesn't want kids too, he should also go to 結紮.

the risk of having a BB should be very low with the above conditions.

Hyde

i think my girl is on pills....

mcjohnjohn

they have higher curiosity in sex and thus very easy and normal to taste the forbidden fruit. (doesn't mean "all" kids will do)

that's the problem of those kids. ppl should think first before act.

Haha.. do you mean you're brought up from a family that lacks of money, good personality, correct and positive value of life, knowledge, ....etc, but you and your brother still grew up nicely? Even so, how can you be sure if your family got everything, you and your brother could be a lot better than now?

hahahaha, how can you be sure if my family got everything, my and my brother could be a lot better than now? well, would I be Obama?

(You may say you and your brother think you two are good enough and are pretty satisfied with the current stage. However, this is only from your pov, the society might be longing for a better person.)

yes, it is my point of view only. were you talking with Obama's pov? you are so great~

mcjohnjohn

原帖由 Hyde 於 2008-12-18 11:33 發表
i think my girl is on pills....

pills are better than condom, however, your girl should take the pills regularly to make it effective.

shutterbug

Ultraman, I think you and me value things very differently.  I'm against abortion.  So what's high quality and low quality family?  I'm afraid that most families in this world are low to mediocre quality families....so they all shouldn't have babies?  If that's the case, then I would NOT be in this world now...LOL

(You may say you and your brother think you two are good enough and are pretty satisfied with the current stage. However, this is only from your pov, the society might be longing for a better person.)

I guess his friends, relatives, parents, siblings, employer, teachers, etc can all confirm if he/she is a good person right?  I guess if one's happy about him/herself, then at least he/she should not be suffering right?  So growing up for a poor family not necessarily mean sufferings right?

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shutterbug

原帖由 mcjohnjohn 於 2008-12-17 20:37 發表


pills are better than condom, however, your girl should take the pills regularly to make it effective.

oh wait...but pills won't stop spreading your STD??? LOL

mcjohnjohn

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-18 11:45 發表

oh wait...but pills won't stop spreading your STD??? LOL

I think that Hyde should be as clean as a piece of paper...

shutterbug

OK go back to the mother-to-be hates kids...

So because the mom hates kids, then she should have an abortion?  That's garbage!  To escape from the responsibility of a mistake, the mom yet makes another mistake...   Btw, I rarely see a mom that hates her kids from the heart.  How do you know she won't change after giving birth?  Also, there's always the dad, grand-parents, etc....

It makes me sick when people think that abortion is the smarter or the more responsible way.  Who knows who will suffer at the end?  How can you take away the privilege of being born and live?