Nam

yeah... it's not as easy as it sound.  Me for example, my mom already told me ahead of time that we don't have much family/relative here, so instead of only holding wedding baquet here in Canada, it's a must to have another one in Asia to entertain her family.....

and my bf has a huge family himself in Canada... so it's all $$$$

大C姐

回復  大C姐


    我嫲嫲生咗12個。。。
我有啲唐家姐啲仔女都大過我。。 ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-8-28 10:25

    全部都喺呢度？

咁你係異數啦，我唔識人有咁多親戚喺呢邊。就算曾經有，都回流晒啦。

大C姐

yeah... it's not as easy as it sound.  Me for example, my mom already told me ahead of time that we  ...
Nam 發表於 2012-8-28 10:37

    你咁講完令我諗起一個小故事。

話說喺香港識得一對uncle/auntie，有兩個仔女。幾年前個女已經結咗婚嫁咗去新加坡，就係exactly因為啲親戚一半喺香港一半喺新加坡所以冇擺酒，淨係註冊。個女同個老公都幾好㗎，一年都會去香港幾次探老豆老母。

OK，早排輪到個細佬喺香港結婚擺酒，我uncle/auntie當然想請對親家去香港飲啦。寄帖果陣發現唔知親家住址係咩，呢個唔出奇呀，話晒都係新加坡。但係原來個女嫁咗幾年都唔知對親家個全名係乜。

Nam

咁我都算係個幾孝順，既然父母嘅心願，無理由唔做，咁但係男友排第8，齋請佢屋企都金，咁我哋亦好想請啲好朋友，唉，條數加加埋埋，所以完全無結婚嘅衝動，佢同我都係慳自己，唔想對唔住朋友同屋企人，真係做唔出做到好cheap 咁，話哂大家嘅朋友都有返咁上吓年齡，尤其是佢啲朋友有啲真係做到我老豆老母嘅年紀。。。

fibbi

回復 32# 大C姐


    Of course not everyone is here...
but 5 or 6 families...already made a few tables...
plus family friends
the list goes on..

good thing I don't need to have banquet in HK.

fibbi

回復 34# Nam


    I think for Chinese banquet, the cost is not as bad....probably can't break even but not that far...provided that don't have expensive wedding favour ...etc..

i heard that people can bring in their own wine again? that would be good in terms of cost.

fibbi

講開盛女，睇身邊嘅朋友，盛女喺香港嘅真係多過喺呢邊嘅。可能香港男仕多啲選擇（北上）？

jiujiujiu

你咁講完令我諗起一個小故事。

話說喺香港識得一對uncle/auntie，有兩個仔女。幾年前個女已經結咗 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-8-28 10:51

唔出奇架! 我同我老公拍拖拍咗5年幾, 然後到E家都結咗婚3年幾喇, 但我parents 都係見過我老公個parents 一次咁大把, 佢哋全部都係响溫哥華架啵~

lo_pak

回復 38# jiujiujiu

唔係嘛,咁都得...

jiujiujiu

回復 39# lo_pak


係架!
nothing in common, 見面又無話題, 價值觀又南轅北轍, 見嚟做乜?

況且, 我阿娘就至"驟"忌人哋食飯唔用公筷, 但我老公個parents 就唔單止唔用公筷, 仲要"抄"云全碟送兼且"損"埋筷子嗰隻... 真係頂唔順架! 我初初見佢parents, 我真係走咗去廁所嘔呀~ 我就話侷住頂啫, 我parents 一定頂唔順! 我平時食送唔食飯, 餐餐都係食兩匙飯架咋~ 但我陪親我老公返屋企食飯, 我都係夾未俾人liu 過嘅送, 到佢老豆一liu 送, 我就齋隊白飯架咋~ 我係大送子民嚟架~ 唔係大眾飯人呀!