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chunsh

唔知你哋身邊有無咁嘅朋友。好多嘢都係覺得隔離飯香，自己嘅就永遠好似無咁好。係要呻吓先安樂。我明，人哋 ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-8 02:27

how about u? what do u think about your wedding (if u have married already)

pkphilip

I find this very illogical, and simply find trouble for him/herself: I assume most of us here have been to/helped out in weddings, I think we all have expectations of what we are going to get for X amount of money. Obviously, the more funding you have, the more grand the wedding is (regarding if it will look pretty).

If we already know what we want by looking at others, why envy others when we are in control?

Similar to myself, I don't want my wedding to be similar to others, therefore I find something different to do: taking pre-wedding photos in TW, planning a destination wedding, choosing only to involve people in arms-length etc. I have total control. I won't envy others because I know mine is unique and to my friends, it's memorable.

I do envy the other wedding photos shown on the catalog from my photography company. What will I do about it? I will go there and spend more $$ to do it the 2nd time! I know the tricks, and I plan ahead to ensure my fiance and I are ready for this!

Philip

fibbi

其實我聽到佢對結婚相的"不滿"，我自己都有啲唔開心，畢竟攝影師是我介紹的。當時我結婚我真的覺得我的photographer ok喎。相片未必是一流，但態度、價錢都ok，我家人都很滿意。不過可能到今時今日個photographer 做得多，overbook 以至比較耐才有相睇，朋友對此有點不滿。我自己也很無奈。自此我對"介紹"都會小心點。我只能分享當時的情況，至於今時今日的情況是怎樣，麻煩各朋友自己deal with 嗰個business. 但每一次她提到對結婚相、video 的不滿，或者是提到別人的比自己的好上多少倍時，我老是覺得她是在埋怨我似的。也許她沒有這樣的意思，也許是我想多了。

我又唔覺得朋友會哦佢老公，所以咪同啲朋友呻囉。

fibbi

回復 12# chunsh


    I feel blessed. 我好滿意我wedding 嘅安排。亦好感謝朋友的幇忙令當天的程序進行得很順利。當然，我嫁嗰個唔係李家誠，無世紀婚禮。不過我會容易滿足啲：沒有hotel的banquet不過都有afternoon cocktail.我已覺得好滿意。

yuusaku

how many married couple have taken out their wedding day photo/video and view more than 20 times for themselves(not for guest) since they got married...

fibbi

回復 16# yuusaku


    Video 真係好少睇，相都會間唔中睇下，睇下嗰時有幾瘦⋯

chunsh

回復  chunsh


    I feel blessed. 我好滿意我wedding 嘅安排。亦好感謝朋友的幇忙令當天的程序進行得很 ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-9 23:25

well, thats good for u. the thing is, even in this modern days, most chinese couples would just married once, and hence would just have one or two wedding parties (western and Chinese traditional)

What does that implie?
that means helding such a mostly-once-in-a-life wedding party would easily go wrong for many couples because they are totally inexperienced. In most occasions, it would just make the newly married couples a little scar in their married lives; in some extreme occasions, some of those couples even break-up before their wedding day.

I am quite surprised that you got married but you dont know how much conflicts between the couples themselves, their families have to be mashed together gracefully so that the couple can have a happy weddings and you sounds like your friends shouldn't complain.

One explanation is, all of yours and your husband's relatives (closed ones, distanced uncles/aunties dont cound) treat both of you so good that they let u guys do whatever u want in your wedding......which is good for u, seriously.

fibbi

回復 18# chunsh


    I don't mean my friend should not complain about her wedding vendors. My point is that she whinnied about that her wedding is not as grand/extravagant as her other friends to begin with. To me, that is getting a bit annoyed because, I guess myself will never complain about something that I can't afford. If I were to complain, I should have blamed myself not picking a rich husband instead.

As for the photographer, I actually feel bad because it sounds like I have caused my friend's not so good wedding memory. I can't do much about it at this point perhaps I can just be more careful about referral in future.

chunsh

回復  chunsh


    I don't mean my friend should not complain about her wedding vendors. My point i ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-10 00:58

oh, I see your point now