reyes

chunsh 發表於 2013-1-13 23:09

你呢個係講夫妻相處, 唔係定嫂同家公相處之道

reyes

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    again, if the in-law family did something "bad" to me, I do expect husband to ki ...
fibbi 發表於 2013-1-14 14:31

i don't recommend avoid family gathering completely. it will them have more excuse to talk about u, just like jiujiujiu mentioned

fibbi

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    but do you really care what they said? Coz in the end, whatever you do, they may criticize.

reyes

做人做到咁大壓力仲乜鬼丫...
皮笑肉不笑? 同親人食飯都好似搞辦公室政治咁, 太辛苦, 唔適合小弟既STYL ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2013-1-13 21:21

帶面具一齊食飯我都有實戰經驗
有D飯局你係唔可以避免同一D唔係咁岩既親人/親戚食

chunsh

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    but do you really care what they said? Coz in the end, whatever you do, they may  ...
fibbi 發表於 2013-1-14 14:37

face the truth, unless u attend to ANY gathering which has more than or equal to 2 of those relatives, otherwise, they always find chance to talk behind your back. this not only apply to your in-law relatives, but also your own relatives (aunts, uncles, grandpa, grandme, cousins, your bro/sis's another half, etc)

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    but do you really care what they said? Coz in the end, whatever you do, they may  ...
fibbi 發表於 2013-1-14 14:37

if i were her, i will just smile and act like nothing happen before through out the meal to give my partner some "face"
i dont really care how they think cuz 我地有教養

mcjohnjohn

帶面具一齊食飯我都有實戰經驗
有D飯局你係唔可以避免同一D唔係咁岩既親人/親戚食 ...
reyes 發表於 2013-1-15 06:39

可能小弟親戚少, 所以關係不會惡劣, so far 都叫做未試過帶面具一齊食飯.

jiujiujiu

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yay~ I m not alone!

jiujiujiu

回復 106# reyes

回復 107# mcjohnjohn


老實講, 帶面具食飯真係背脊骨落食之無味架! 但好多野根本唔到自己揀, 如果令自己老公難做, 唔單止影響2公婆關係, 仲會令個老公難做人, 何必呢..... 若然我老公難做人, 有氣要受, 到頭來, 咁咪又即係搵我自己笨! 所以, 侷住要食呢D飯, 咪當食少餐減肥囉~
我教佢阿媽响佢老豆發癲個陣閃開, 佢老豆就自然收聲, 大家有啖安樂茶飯食下唔好咩....
佢老豆確實對我唔好, 但誰是上把誰是下把, 邊個高攀邊個(我唔係話我自己屋企好有米呀, 我屋企好普通架咋~ 但有比較就自然有高低囉), 佢比我更清楚, 佢絕對唔敢搵粗口問候我....

jiujiujiu

回復 105# chunsh


有人自然有是非架啦! 唔會淨係老公個邊D親戚架, 自己個D都會有啦! 呢D我又唔覺得有咩問題, 因為, 我真係見到慣晒, 總之, 我底線就係: don't make my life complicated, or else, I will bite!
總之, 如果嘗試去測試我底線而越踩越過, 我一定會俾佢知道搞到我嘅後果.... 人不犯我, 我不犯人, 大家井水不犯河水, 佢有你個世界, 我有我個天地, 就是如此這般簡單!