maldini

原帖由 akshea 於 2008-9-30 13:48 發表
I know a couple of his gfs... he has tons of gfs la..

How did you know Edison's gf?

Sakura

How did u know him..
Omgosh I am even more confused now..

mui122

so sakura ure saying u dated EDISON for 6 years???
cuz Akshea was saying she knew a couple of EDISON's gfs....prob not a couple of ur ex' gfs
unless ur ex is in fact edison

angeldevil

i'm confused...
so sakura was Edison's ex?????????????????
or just that the case sounds like Edison...
akshea & sakura just happen to know each other & akshea knows abt the incident???

btw, back to the topic!
sakura, I believe 8 out of 10 girls happened to have similar experience~
but the most important part of this is not to let it affect your faith in others...
I know this is super hard but it's something that can be worked out!!!
trust me. i used to doubt everything but now i'm cured.
=)
+ oil!!!
& if that ex of urs tries to contact again, just leave him hanging!!
u definitely have the right & prevlliage to do this.

Sakura

原帖由 mui122 於 2008/10/1 12:55 AM 發表
so sakura ure saying u dated EDISON for 6 years???
cuz Akshea was saying she knew a couple of EDISON's gfs....prob not a couple of ur ex' gfs
unless ur ex is in fact edison

Ooh...see? I am so out of it now~ lol~
EDISON's gfs....that I dun care~ lol~

I do try to trust people more but for some reason I find it very hard...
Even if I control myself and not ask my bf about stuff..
I would still not feel very good inside...and I will just bottle it up..
Then when something happens, that's the 1st thing I will question him about...
I do want to trust him...and other ppl...but I dun even know if it's possible anymore..

news

hmmm...how come axxholes can have many gfs???

Sakura

原帖由 news 於 2008/10/1 12:04 PM 發表
hmmm...how come axxholes can have many gfs???

I have no idea..lol~
Maybe they cover themselves up pretty well..
Or all their gfs were so stupid like me..~

mui122

assholes have their ways
they can talk themselves into or out of anything

I understand the trust issue thing
Ive struggled with it (and probably still struggling with it)
but thats something ure gonna hhave to work around
the important thing is communication tho
dont be afraid to tell him how you feel
it would be both  better for you and for him that way
if hes worthy of your trust
eventually you'll realize it feels right
you wont need the facts to back things up
anyways
dont think too much
hope things work out for you

Sakura

原帖由 mui122 於 2008/10/1 09:06 PM 發表
assholes have their ways
they can talk themselves into or out of anything

I understand the trust issue thing
Ive struggled with it (and probably still struggling with it)
but thats something ure gonn ...

Well, my bf knows me for 6 years already and liked me in those 5 years~
So he knew what was going on and I also told him about it..
I told him I can't trust him right now..even if I wanted to..
And I really try hard but at this point I just can't trust people..
He seems to be very understanding~ He said he will try his best to gain my trust back~
So I am grateful~

kabuki

Well I’ve just started a relationship.... i often wonder does he have another girl, is he lying etc etc since there are a lot of things that he do does not make sense to me. Maybe it’s coz he is lying, or maybe it’s simply coz we are from two different world and we need time to adjust to each other.

I mean, at the end of the day, you can either chose to trust a person or not. If you can’t trust that person, you might as well leave; or you can keep the relationship open/ always leave a certain amount of wakefulness in you… trust your partner, but always be skeptical of things unusual…

Relationship is a lot of work… my problem on the other hand is to be devoted to him and also see him as the one and only since the relationship is still young.... I don’t want to miss out on other good man if in case he is really lying to me… or coz we might not be compatible for each other.