Lik

既然人工高同時間啱，而你亦係因為呢兩樣野而留響到，咁我覺得你就唔好怨喇。話晒食得鹹魚就要抵得渴呀嘛？當你覺得果份高啲嘅人工同時間上嘅安排唔值得你日日俾人玩針對嘅時候，咁就應該要走啦～

而大C姐話要當住其他人面前對佢好。時間過左﹐如果佢都係處處針對你﹐其他人會有眼見﹐都會覺得佢無理取鬧呢吓我都覺得可行，但就要小心啲唔好俾人覺得你想擦佢鞋咁囉。

-力

rockypath

回復 10# vilium

I would choose to do my job even better and accept her刁難 as a challenge to improve my work skills and experiences.

People will know the kind of person I am and my work ethic. I don’t have to do anything to defence myself. At the meantime, I am strengthen my skills (maybe my EQ and the time and stress management skills would be improved the most) which could be very beneficial to my future success.

One of my friends had been through a similar situation and that was what he chose to do. He received a lot of respects and positive comments from his co-workers and later the upper management who is the boss of the boss of his boss. Now, his boss does not 刁難 him any more and he continues to do his best on every task that is assigned to him.

Lik

People will know the kind of person I am and my work ethic. I don’t have to do anything to defence myself. At the meantime, I am strengthen my skills (maybe my EQ and the time and stress management skills would be improved the most) which could be very beneficial to my future success.
rockypath 發表於 2010-7-26 09:57

唔好意思，笑咗～

-力

chess

回復 12# rockypath


100% agree! I have the same situation as your friend. I was hired when my manger was on her sick leave for one year. When she's back, she challeged me for every work I done! But she can't find any error, and I even done all the work much better than before. Finally, all the co-worker sense out her 無理取閙, I got all the respect from my co-workers and of course, my boss! Actually, I don't feel I still have a manger on top of me now, because I reported every work directly to my boss!

rockypath

唔好意思，笑咗～

-力
Lik 發表於 2010-7-26 10:21

I believe no one would expect you to be the person like my friend.

In the eyes of some people like you, my friend can be very 蠢. However, I respect how my friend handled the situation and I will choose to do the same if I am in a similar situation.

What will you do if you are in a similar situation, Lik?

rockypath

回復  rockypath

Actually, I don't feel I still have a manger on top of me now, because I reported every work directly to my boss!
chess 發表於 2010-7-26 10:30

Good for you! That is why I choose to follow the footstep of my friend (and you) if I am in a similar situation.

daimo

IMO you should start to write a diary (task worked on and completed, issues) everyday.  it doesn't have to be long.  but you need it to show her you have proofs that you are busy.

if her attitude gets worse, log the conversations.

worst case, go to HR.