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作者: chocobun 時間: 2009-10-31 03:33 標題: Career vs Love

If you have to pick between your dream job and your love of a life time, which would you pick? why?

i know a lot of people will say it's not mandatory to pick between the two, but in some cases what if you really have to? e.g. if you have a job that gives u weird hour and you have a bf/gf that cannot tolerate your weird work hours... but that's your dream job and also the love of your life... how would u pick??

作者: ricrick 時間: 2009-10-31 08:28

通常career可以帶來love，除非你的career係不實際的career啦
love就吾可以帶來career，除非你的另一半身家豐厚

愛情飲水飽？小學生就可以

作者: ricrick 時間: 2009-10-31 08:29

chocobun應該搵到好路數吧

作者: tiffiant 時間: 2009-10-31 11:32

i pick rick as my career

作者: chocobun 時間: 2009-10-31 12:07

chocobun應該搵到好路數吧
ricrick 發表於 2009-10-31 09:29

hahah I WISH
it's just a random thought

作者: tiffiant 時間: 2009-10-31 12:21

chocobun, help me out

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2009-10-31 14:49

錢重要過男人

作者: MSN04 時間: 2009-10-31 15:58

有錢自然有女人

作者: rockypath 時間: 2009-10-31 17:21

I don't have to worry about my career; Thereofre, I pick girl/love over career.

作者: tofu 時間: 2009-10-31 17:39

dream job & dream lover -> i will pick dream lover, because hard to find/not sure is it exit
dream job & a relationship -> dream job la. a relationship can/may end no matter you get your dream job or not.

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-10-31 23:31

Whether i have a successful career or not, I hope there is someone who will be there with me.

作者: CWong 時間: 2009-10-31 23:41

先工後女輕輕鬆鬆做人老公
先女後工捱生捱死好無陰功

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-11-2 11:15

先工後女輕輕鬆鬆做人老公
先女後工捱生捱死好無陰功
CWong 發表於 2009-11-1 00:41

你作的﹖好野窩﹐哈哈哈。。。
不過先工後女的﹐就像好多香港男人﹐可能要 40-50歲先結到婚﹐到時同仔女好大代溝窩。。。

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-11-2 11:17

看今期明周(定星期六﹖是但一本) 麥基的訪問﹐則是剛剛相反﹐他說娶了老婆反而不用擔心經濟﹐哈哈。。識揀掛

﹐都要人地肯至得囉。。。

作者: raima 時間: 2009-11-5 17:58

本帖最後由 raima 於 2009-11-5 19:00 編輯

dream job & dream lover -> i will pick dream lover, because hard to find/not sure is it exit
dream job & a relationship -> dream job la. a relationship can/may end no matter you get your dream job or ...
tofu 發表於 2009-10-31 18:39

i agree with you.

but i guess it also depends what field you're in too. of course, if your background is very good (ie. highly educated, excellent work experience, good work ethics, easy-going etc etc), it'll be much much easier to find a dream job

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-11-6 13:35

人生最大成就不是傑出工作，而是家庭生活幸福快樂

I agree with this...

作者: 車人 時間: 2009-11-9 08:29

after all these years, i have come to realize that guys actually care about the girl's career.
so i'd choose career first..
i think a girl is putting herself in a vulnerable position if she doesn't have her own career.
most guys are very practical! - so bay~

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-11-10 12:18

I do not really care my wife's career.  I like her to have some kind of jobs for two reasons:

1.  She can help out family
2.  She has something to do so she does not have time to think too much.

as long as my wife is happy with job, I am fine with it.

作者: 車人 時間: 2009-11-10 20:31

your wife is so lucky~! you are one of the 2% population!
a lot of ppl expect their wife to contribute a substantial amount of $$ to the family..
the math is simple:
let income from husband be h, and income from wife be w,
family income = h + w.

to guys, h is pretty much fixed (assume they'll try their best),
the way to get a higher family income would be to get a greater W!

i really hope that i am wrong..

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-12-1 18:19

傻仔，你吾係以為找到知心友？笑死人
ricrickk 發表於 2009-12-2 08:44

你呢個ricrickk, 仲乜假扮ricrick? 有乜野陰謀?!?!

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-12-1 21:40

你呢個ricrickk, 仲乜假扮ricrick? 有乜野陰謀?!?!
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-12-1 19:19

who else would it be.... do not really care... just ban him la...

I hate people pretend to be another id...

作者: starbug 時間: 2010-2-20 17:42

i pick rick as my career
tiffiant 發表於 2009-10-31 12:32

食屎喇你.

作者: auyatyat 時間: 2010-2-20 22:54

點解無得揀both?

作者: myversa 時間: 2010-2-22 12:40

點解無得揀both?
auyatyat 發表於 2010-2-20 23:54

I think it's one way or the other too. Of course you could have both but when the time comes to you have to pick one of them, that's the question is about.

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