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作者: randommike 時間: 2010-9-28 21:49 標題: 好奇想知，你們( 特別是80後) 有給“家用" 嗎？

As topic，你們( 特別是80後) 有給“家用" 嗎？

我自己有給不過唔係好多。

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-9-28 22:01

As topic，你們( 特別是80後) 有給“家用" 嗎？

我自己有給不過唔係好多。 ...
randommike 發表於 2010-9-28 21:49

脆脆哋
俾番五舊
三餐一宿
樣樣跟足
月底洗突
攞老豆張卡去碌

作者: Nam 時間: 2010-9-28 22:36

父母唔缺錢，所以家用會變成得閒請食飯同埋用家用份錢請咗個鐘點工人俾佢哋！

作者: auyatyat 時間: 2010-9-28 23:43

老豆退o左休,每月大約比$700, 夠比屋企雜費(地稅,管理費,水電,維修),平時同佢o地出去食o野同埋去超市都係我負責.
其實老豆以前o係香港做政府工,退o左休都有長糧,不過如果自己出去租屋都要交稅同埋雜費啦,所以比返佢都好合理.

作者: auyatyat 時間: 2010-9-28 23:44

回復 3# Nam

你都好乖呀~ 請埋工人比佢o地用
家務我自己o黎..

作者: myversa 時間: 2010-9-29 06:07

I only gave to my wife's parents because they are more in need than my parents.

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2010-9-29 07:10

Not us ... and both my wife and I are just old cake 70後 ....

We want to give some money to my in law ga, but they refused to receive .. we tried to give them a car, but they still paid us back .. but we only let them paid 2/3 ..

That is .. and my in law also always pay for eating out .. so I am now ng ho yee ci to eat with them tim ...

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2010-9-29 07:12

回復 7# Catpiano [/

You call yourself old cake?
I was born in 54

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2010-9-29 07:15

回復 Catpiano [/

You call yourself old cake?
I was born in 54
somewhereintime 發表於 2010-9-29 07:12

Aiya .. you always say that .. are you serious?? 56 yr old?? triple to average LYK age wor ..

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2010-9-29 07:19

Yes, just call me uncle.
I started teaching in 1975

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-9-29 07:19

回復 Catpiano [/

You call yourself old cake?
I was born in 54
somewhereintime 發表於 2010-9-29 07:12

you are super old cake

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2010-9-29 07:22

回復 11# sheep

I think I'm one of the oldest, except uncle Tat

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-9-29 07:28

回復 sheep

I think I'm one of the oldest, except uncle Tat
somewhereintime 發表於 2010-9-29 07:22

we have to respect seniors

作者: mukmuk2 時間: 2010-9-29 07:30

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作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2010-9-29 07:37

回復 14# mukmuk2

So call me uncle then

作者: Arlui 時間: 2010-9-29 09:00

both my husband and I do...we are post 80s...
but we might have to stop once we have the baby and I go on mat leave (not enough $$$ to pay for mortgage!)

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2010-9-29 09:30

I think most of the LYK are post 80's

作者: myversa 時間: 2010-9-29 09:42

I am pre 80's.

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-9-29 09:45

No...

I think 家用 is a bit old school. I don't live with my parents (not even in the same country most of the time) what am I suppose to do? Auto-pay? pay annually?

I just pay some of their bills (have their insurance bills send to me for example) and pay for their vacations, etc... i think it's less awkward than money. I think "sum yee" is always better when it's not CASH - it's like giving people cash for birthday... it's a bit too impersonal. After all, my parents don't need my money, they're richer than me....

-- 80後Miss C

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2010-9-29 10:14

本帖最後由 Purpleheart 於 2010-9-29 10:34 編輯

we have to respect seniors
sheep 發表於 2010-9-29 07:28

老公~ 聽日30號喇wor .......記得俾家用啊...只收cash or cheque (not postdated cheque)

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2010-9-29 10:20

回復 20# Purpleheart

For September???

作者: fibbi 時間: 2010-9-29 11:12

I used to pay half of my salary to parents, until I got married.

作者: samsung 時間: 2010-9-29 11:31

yes, I give them half of my salary to show my love to them, they are way richer than me apparently, but so what?

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2010-9-29 11:59

回復 23# samsung

Good boy

作者: 快樂牛郎 時間: 2010-9-29 12:13

zero now

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-9-29 12:40

回復 20# Purpleheart

有商量
有雙糧

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-9-29 12:44

yes, I give them half of my salary to show my love to them, they are way richer than me apparently, ...
samsung 發表於 2010-9-29 11:31

orrr........ i don't use money to show my love to anyone........... esp my family!

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2010-9-29 12:47

回復 25# 快樂牛郎

I thought you are rich

作者: 快樂牛郎 時間: 2010-9-29 12:53

回復快樂牛郎

I thought you are rich
somewhereintime 發表於 2010/9/29 12:47

I am definitely not "rich".
Yes, I can give some, but what's the point? It's just transferring money back and forth. Waste of time. And, I can probably manage the money better than they do.

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-9-29 13:31

orrr........ i don't use money to show my love to anyone........... esp my family!
大C姐發表於 2010-9-29 12:44

I show my love to my family by receiving moneyfrom them.
The more they give me, the more I love them

作者: samsung 時間: 2010-9-29 14:18

回復 samsung

Good boy
somewhereintime 發表於 2010-9-29 11:59

thanks... you're right... I'm still fake "fai chai"

fai chai probably likes me to fake him, right?

作者: samsung 時間: 2010-9-29 14:21

orrr........ i don't use money to show my love to anyone........... esp my family!
大C姐發表於 2010-9-29 12:44

you're right, you're just like my friend

... one of my friends also uses this as an excuse not to pay a PENNY to his parents

(he said "I love them, but I never use money to show my love to my parents, I hug them daily and eat them sleep them since they are richer than me..." so now he can afford to buy a $500k condo at downtown without borrowing a penny from the bank)

no wonder they were called "80後", I think it describes a mentality, not the year of birth

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2010-9-29 14:23

you're right, you're just like my friend ... one of my friends also uses this as an ...
samsung 發表於 2010-9-29 14:21

So you and her are both post 80's ??

作者: samsung 時間: 2010-9-29 14:31

So you and her are both post 80's ??
somewhereintime 發表於 2010-9-29 14:23

no I am talking about dai c jeh

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-9-29 14:36

本帖最後由大C姐於 2010-9-29 14:37 編輯

you're right, you're just like my friend ... one of my friends also uses this as an ...
samsung 發表於 2010-9-29 14:21

if your friend's parents rather have hugs than money, why not? who are you or anyone to judge???

i'm sorry but not every asian parent is as materialistic as you think (or as yours). i suddenly feel very sorry for you and feel very fortunate to have parents who do not see money as a sign of love. Thanks for making my day!

-- big hug from Ms. C

作者: samsung 時間: 2010-9-29 14:39

本帖最後由 samsung 於 2010-9-29 14:41 編輯

if your friend's parents rather have hugs than money, why not? who are you or anyone to judge ...
大C姐發表於 2010-9-29 14:36

I am happy that someone second my friend's idea so that he can save enough for his new house

I got to tell him right away so that he won't feel bad any more

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-9-29 14:52

I am happy that someone second my friend's idea so that he can save enough for his new house
...
samsung 發表於 2010-9-29 14:39

FOR SURE!

Honestly, unless your parents actually need financial support (which is not the case for me or perhaps your friend), parents are more happy to see their kids, talk to their kids and hug their kids than to receive cash every month.... what's the point of having all these money if your kids don't even want to hug you?

作者: samsung 時間: 2010-9-29 14:55

本帖最後由 samsung 於 2010-9-29 14:57 編輯

FOR SURE!

Honestly, unless your parents actually need financial support (which is not the ...
大C姐發表於 2010-9-29 14:52

my parents has a lot of money but I still give them money every month, it's nothing to do with FINANCIAL SUPPORT, don't twist ppl's word... they feel they were respected and loved in this way, we Chinese family don't hug each other too much but we know we love each other from the bottom of our heart...

actually you don't need to feel bad as you found out other ppl is giving money to their parents, it's only a matter of choice, everybody is different

just trust in yourself, believe what you do is right!!!

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-9-29 15:27

my parents has a lot of money but I still give them money every month, it's nothing to do with FIN ...
samsung 發表於 2010-9-29 14:55

Yes ar, so if your parents love money more than hugs, you should give them money!!!

I am just saying your friend doesn't have to use it as an "excuse" because most parents want to see more of their kids when they get older and older, rather than counting "0's" in their bank accounts.

作者: 匿名 時間: 2010-9-29 16:37

Yes ar, so if your parents love money more than hugs, you should give them money!!!

I am ju ...
大C姐發表於 2010-9-29 15:27

真係唔緊要窩﹐大C姐﹐你父母唔介意咪得囉﹐唔使理其他人點諗格

作者: MSN04 時間: 2010-9-29 16:51

挑... cheap 精就認啦. 扮乜q 親情大過錢0者?
老豆老母需唔需要都好, 俾家用, 俾錢屋企一路都係傳統上既一種美德. 亦係代表仔女對老豆老母既一份心意.
(註: 我唔係想話俾錢就唔做其他野, 一樣可以陪佢地飲茶食飯... etc.)
同新年老豆老母俾利士d仔女一樣, 都係一份心意, 一個傳統.

作者: 快樂牛郎 時間: 2010-9-29 17:32

俾錢屋企一路都係傳統上既一種美德.MSN04 發表於 2010/9/29 16:51

Are we still in Tang dynasty? Do people still believe in confucius shxt?

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-9-29 17:33

After all, my parents don't need my money, they're richer than me....
大C姐發表於 2010-9-30 01:45

呢個絕對係唔駛比家用既point!
可惜, 我父母係零收入, 基本上係靠我兩兄弟照佢地啦~
當然, 咁都好應份, 因為佢地都照左我地廿年有多喇!

爸爸媽媽, I love you~

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-9-29 17:39

挑... cheap 精就認啦. 扮乜q 親情大過錢0者?
老豆老母需唔需要都好, 俾家用, 俾錢屋企一路都係傳統上既一 ...
MSN04 發表於 2010-9-30 08:51

其實, 我覺得如果父母有錢過自己, 仲乜鬼比家用丫...
得閒出下街食下飯, 去下旅行咪算law.
一家人, 邊個出錢都冇所謂啦, 反正都係一家人既錢之麻.

作者: randommike 時間: 2010-9-29 19:16

Good to know that I am not the only one who 俾家用

作者: 匿名 時間: 2010-9-29 19:34

挑... cheap 精就認啦. 扮乜q 親情大過錢0者?
老豆老母需唔需要都好, 俾家用, 俾錢屋企一路都係傳統上既一 ...
MSN04 發表於 2010-9-29 16:51

比個位人落台都好的。。日行一善嘛

我撐你架﹐C 姑

作者: fibbi 時間: 2010-9-29 21:42

My parents are better off than me, but I do give them $ as "sum yee'. Not that they need the $, but they still happy as if the children "cares" about them. Yeah, my family is rather traditional. Or look at it the other way, since I live with parents, so those $ actually help out the utility bill etc...

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-9-29 22:43

挑... cheap 精就認啦. 扮乜q 親情大過錢0者?
老豆老母需唔需要都好, 俾家用, 俾錢屋企一路都係傳統上既一 ...
MSN04 發表於 2010-9-29 16:51

我好多年我都無同C父C母過農曆年﹐無收過佢哋封利是﹐但係我唔會覺得佢哋係cheap精囉。我諗都無諗過同屋企人講錢...

有呢種思想嘅人最cheap。

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-9-29 22:47

我好多年我都無同C父C母過農曆年﹐無收過佢哋封利是﹐但係我唔會覺得佢哋係cheap精囉。我諗都無諗過 ...
大C姐發表於 2010-9-30 14:43

點解唔返去同佢地過年呀? 農曆年幾開心丫, 一齊剝下瓜子同開心果都幾過癮的~

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-9-29 22:52

點解唔返去同佢地過年呀? 農曆年幾開心丫, 一齊剝下瓜子同開心果都幾過癮的~ ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2010-9-29 22:47

2月好忙行唔開呀~

好多年都係咁﹐去左第二度做嘢。不過都無所謂﹐節興呢D嘢我哋唔多在意。有心真係咩日子都可以celebrate。

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-9-29 23:11

2月好忙行唔開呀~

好多年都係咁﹐去左第二度做嘢。不過都無所謂﹐節興呢D嘢我哋唔多在意。有心真係 ...
大C姐發表於 2010-9-30 14:52

我都明既, 工作忙起上黎真係行唔開, 你同家人仲要係分隔異地果隻. 不過, 如果你願意返去同佢地過年, 佢地應該都會幾高興的, 尤其佢地知道大C姐你係百忙之中抽空陪佢地丫麻!

其實我諗你一定覺得我MJJ 多口同好管閒事, 不過, 我真心視大C 姐為朋友, 先至咁多野講.

-- 成日衰口多, 搞到犯眾憎既 MJJ

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-9-30 08:37

本帖最後由 sheep 於 2010-9-30 08:39 編輯

2月好忙行唔開呀~

好多年都係咁﹐去左第二度做嘢。不過都無所謂﹐節興呢D嘢我哋唔多在意。有心真係 ...
大C姐發表於 2010-9-29 22:52

做到今時今日嘅POST
乜都要自己跟
唔知係自己太叻定係啲靚冇用
又定係唔識知人善用
又係唔係自己忌才
乜都攬著唔放
真係唔知呀
我真係唔知呀

我好多年我都無同C父C母過農曆年﹐無收過佢哋封利是﹐但係我唔會覺得佢哋係cheap精囉。我諗都無諗過同屋企人講錢...
大C姐發表於 2010-9-29 22:43

咁多年來冇俾錢屋企
又冇時間去攬攬佢哋
連晚黑都忙到瞓覺都無時間
徨論夢中相見相擁

作者: 匿名 時間: 2010-9-30 08:44

咁多年來冇俾錢屋企
又冇時間去攬攬佢哋
連晚黑都忙到瞓覺都無時間
徨論夢中相見相擁乜 ...
sheep 發表於 2010-9-30 08:37

點止。。。
實係d細無乜用﹐搞到忙到死﹐一日都黑飛黎飛去﹐連見阿爸阿媽的時間都無﹐又唔會比錢他們﹐但他們明白的﹐因為大C姐不嬲話自己孝順。

作者: MSN04 時間: 2010-9-30 09:03

Are we still in Tang dynasty? Do people still believe in confucius shxt?
快樂牛郎發表於 2010-9-29 17:32

Since when giving money to parents is some confucius shxt?
Not allowing people to be gay would be one for sure. Get ur definition straight.

作者: MSN04 時間: 2010-9-30 09:11

我好多年我都無同C父C母過農曆年﹐無收過佢哋封利是﹐但係我唔會覺得佢哋係cheap精囉。我諗都無諗過 ...
大C姐發表於 2010-9-29 22:43

俾錢屋企 = 同屋企人講錢???
好似唔俾錢屋企既人會同屋企講錢既機會大d? 越來越唔明你既 logic....

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-9-30 09:15

點止。。。
實係d細無乜用﹐搞到忙到死﹐一日都黑飛黎飛去﹐連見阿爸阿媽的時間都無﹐又唔會比錢他們﹐但 ...
匿名發表於 2010-9-30 08:44

.........i said i'm busy around February usually........ not all year around............ you guys have too much imagination to "fill in the blanks" and take words out of context.

so if i am indeed that busy, let's say i really don't see my parents, do you think giving my parents money will make them any happier??

don't be so naive....

作者: 快樂牛郎 時間: 2010-9-30 10:35

Since when giving money to parents is some confucius shxt?
Not allowing people to be gay would be ...
MSN04 發表於 2010/9/30 09:03

you only see two things that frequently happen in chinese families

1) kids stay home when they are 30 and don't pay a single penny. Parents do all the housework.

2) kids who give money to their parents every month even if they don't live with them

作者: 匿名 時間: 2010-9-30 10:44

you only see two things that frequently happen in chinese families

1) kids stay home when they ar ...
快樂牛郎發表於 2010-9-30 10:35

你好似話緊你偶像大C姐窩

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-9-30 11:41

.........i said i'm busy around February usually........ not all year around............ you ...so if i am indeed that busy
大C姐發表於 2010-9-30 09:15

咁即係點嗟
你係真忙定係扮忙？

作者: 匿名 時間: 2010-9-30 11:45

咁即係點嗟
你係真忙定係扮忙？
sheep 發表於 2010-9-30 11:41

只係二月份忙

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-9-30 11:50

只係二月份忙
匿名發表於 2010-9-30 11:45

好搵唔搵
咁啱搵全年最短嗰個月先來忙？
重要係四年一次先多一日

作者: 匿名 時間: 2010-9-30 11:55

好搵唔搵
咁啱搵全年最短嗰個月先來忙？
重要係四年一次先多一日 ...
sheep 發表於 2010-9-30 11:50

凡事總有原因﹐善哉善哉~

正如我而家肚子打鼓﹐亦有其原因

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-9-30 12:01

凡事總有原因﹐善哉善哉~

正如我而家肚子打鼓﹐亦有其原因
匿名發表於 2010-9-30 11:55

唔係肚餓
係齊天大聖響肚裡頭

作者: myversa 時間: 2010-9-30 19:55

just want to say both my parents have stable income from rental so they do not need me to give them money.

Of course I would take care of them when they get older.

作者: auyatyat 時間: 2010-10-1 18:34

回復 19# 大C姐

old 唔 old school 都係心意o者
我老豆都成日o係香港. 佢返o黎果陣我一比比半年

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