Exactly the same concern....(plus my parents and all my relatives are not staying in vancouver) it's really tiring to take care 2 kids at the same time...try to imagine. the cost of day care, preschool.....if you have another kids when your first kid is around 2 yrs old...do you think you can handle it? While the older child is running around, and you still have to take care the 2nd one. Personally, i don't think i can do it. However, i always want to have 2 kids, so they can take care each other when they are older...sigh.....probably wait until my son is 3 yrs old....
And I always joke with my friends, unless i have a secret formula and make sure i am having a baby girl next time, or else i don't think i have the courage to go thru the whole process again....
I really want to have my own kid too .. 作者: kaimui22 時間: 2008-3-1 10:17
ha..right after i had my son, the first reaction was : NO WAY. giving birth is one is painful enough"
but after awhile, I was like "aww..babies are so cute." and my husband was like "wah..babies are so ma fan"
and now, I'm like "I want more at least 3 kids!"..and my husband is saying "You're crazy!"
haha...so yeah, I want to chase for another one...but it's not that easy. My last birth experience was quite bad and the doctors did quite a bad job and my hormones are still all over the place..so..we're trying but can't force it.
