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作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-8 10:43     標題: 有冇人從來未試過自己一個人住？

突然間好想知有幾多人冇自己住過，因爲好多身邊嘅人呢幾年結婚組織家庭，但係回想返佢哋由讀書到結婚都係好似冇自己同自己相處過。
我想問如果冇自己住過，會唔會好miss自己一個人嘅私人空間？

同埋好要define咩叫＂自己一個人住＂。你中學阿爸阿媽返咗香港自己喺呢度住大屋自己住幾個禮拜呢啲唔算係自己住過。
但係大學住宿舎同出去同陌生人夾租地方住可以撥入＂其它＂，因爲我本人就唔覺得呢啲算自己住，但係你哋可以拗吓。


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- 大C姐
作者: bubblesalt    時間: 2012-11-9 09:47

I have never lived alone (from parents house to husband now ex's house), until 2 years ago.  

Living alone has it's pros and cons.

Pros:  You don't have to answer to anyone (eat, don't, when you home, sleep laaaaaa).

Cons:  It gets really really lonely really fast, there is no one to talk to, and if you hear a sound at night, you have to check it out yourself. If anything breaks, you have to fix it yourself....
作者: 吳孟達    時間: 2012-11-9 10:00

Living by myself for 5 years....
I missed those days....
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-9 11:02

我見到B2L2揀＂其它＂，可唔可以解釋吓？
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-9 11:08

I have never lived alone (from parents house to husband now ex's house), until 2 years ago.  

Livin ...
bubblesalt 發表於 2012-11-9 09:47



    男女係有少少分別，我覺得大部份女仔都係鍾意熱鬧，鍾意有人喺屋企聽佢哋講嘢，有個人壯膽，有個人幫手做家務。

我就真係一名烈女，浪女，我超愛自己一個人住。可能有好多時自己都好忙，想返到屋企好靜，自己做番啲自己嘢（敷mask，等等）。有其它人喺度我就會＂上身＂，好想去entertain對方。其實我好鍾意請朋友上去我屋企，但係走咗之後我又有返我嘅私人空閒。

同埋屋企嘅佈置方面，我嘅品味係好奄尖，我唔多鍾意我朋友嘅屋企，所以如果我要同其他人住，我忍唔到其他人嘅taste同埋衞生standards。

作者: B2L2    時間: 2012-11-9 11:40

我見到B2L2揀＂其它＂，可唔可以解釋吓？
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-9 11:02


Lived 3 years with 4 friends (rented a mini dorm) during HKU period.  Lived 2 years at dorm (1 person room, nice) during the HKUST period.  During the same period of time, there were many months my whole family was not in HK (they moved to Canada already).

After I moved over here, I lived with my family again until I got married.  Now live with my wife and our dog.
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-9 11:50

Lived 3 years with 4 friends (rented a mini dorm) during HKU period.  Lived 2 years at dorm (1 per ...
B2L2 發表於 2012-11-9 11:40



    呢個我覺得唔算自己住。

可能你係同朋友一齊租啦，如果你係做一個房但係其他住客你係唔識嘅，咁我會覺得係自己住囉。

不過anyway，我冇試過同朋友住過，其實會唔會鬧交呢？
作者: B2L2    時間: 2012-11-9 12:02

I don't feel like I'm living by myself during those days either.  Because it was so much fun around the house.    5 young men living together in an apartment just had too many stories.

To start off the rental, I only know the other 2.  The other 2 were friend of friend.  And our roommates changed hands a few things during that 3 years.  鬧交, I don't remember any major one happened.  Maybe men were easier to deal with.
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-9 12:28

I don't feel like I'm living by myself during those days either.  Because it was so much fun around  ...
B2L2 發表於 2012-11-9 12:02



    好多時都係有一兩個人帶女返去訓又唔同其他人講，又或者啲女直頭喺嗰度住埋又夾租。

我聽唔少呢啲古仔。
作者: 布小熊    時間: 2012-11-9 14:13

I don't really mind when my place was "empty" and I usually turned my TV/radio/music on to have some white noise at home.
Really enjoy with lot more freedom and less restriction of serving meals vs making something simple.
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-9 15:07

MJJ, ACC-HE點解從來冇諗過自己住？

我覺得人生係要有一段時間留俾自己囉，大部份人讀書讀到廿幾先出嚟做嘢有錢去搬出嚟住。之後可能３０－３５歳結婚又有自己家庭，其實可以同自己相處嘅時間係得好短。先唔好講話自己住好free唔洗理人自己鍾意點就點，淨係講拍拖，有自己嘅竇已經方便好多啦！

如果一直同屋企人住，除非你係顯赫嘅大家族，有幾棟別墅，如果唔係都好尷尬。
作者: Catpiano    時間: 2012-11-9 15:18

M J J  is in HK ar ...
how oftern (in %) we know people move out .. and live by themself ... lots of time .. even after married ..
In HK ..  study till 2x .. then work .. may be 30-35 .. marry as you said ..  and it is not 尷尬 to live with family (parents)

Well .. only chance .. if someone live by himself/herself in HK ...  DIVORCE ...

I think it is a part of life experience ..  when I was 1x yr old, came to Canada in early 90's to study .. live in Dorm ... with Dormates .. (well, own room, but share kitchen etc .. ) then move out .. with roommates etc ..

When I was in college, then I lived by myself for few yrs ... but many friends live in the same appartment ..
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-9 15:31

M J J  is in HK ar ...
how oftern (in %) we know people move out .. and live by themself ... lots o ...
Catpiano 發表於 2012-11-9 15:18



    以前香港多啲人會自己出嚟住，依家有都要同朋友夾租，因爲實在太貴。

我屋企嘅教育係一定要識自己照顧自己，就算以前屋企有helper都唔可以咩都叫人做。同埋我屋企長輩最憎就係一啲喺屋企大大聲做小惡霸，但係出度去變死狗嘅人，我哋稱之為門口狗。你唔去自己面對日常一齊雜務你都唔呢個世界點運作。呢個世界咁多高分低能嘅人就係冇常識，常識就係靠自己喺街度學，自己喺屋企鑽研嘅＂武功＂。
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-9 15:59

淨係講加拿大, 要自己出黎住唔太難. 只要有份工同唔介意地區既話就好易搵到自己個竇
如果一直同屋企人住, 請朋友返黎玩真係好唔方便
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-9 18:15

淨係講加拿大, 要自己出黎住唔太難. 只要有份工同唔介意地區既話就好易搵到自己個竇
如果一直同屋企人住,  ...
reyes 發表於 2012-11-9 15:59



    我識唔少中女喺香港同屋企人住真係有啲影響姻緣，反而自己住嘅女仔朋友個個都有拖拍！
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-9 18:48

我識唔少中女喺香港同屋企人住真係有啲影響姻緣，反而自己住嘅女仔朋友個個都有拖拍！ ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-9 18:15

我諗男女同屋企人住都會有少少影響, 兩個想玩下煮飯仔都唔得
作者: 真人    時間: 2012-11-9 21:47

下,幾神奇 wor.. "我識唔少中女喺香港同屋企人住真係有啲影響姻緣，反而自己住嘅女仔朋友個個都有拖拍！

人係群居動物,都係有的親人一齊住好的..長期一個人住對住四幅牆,加埋個電腦,時間長了,會愈來愈唔識交際,見光死嫁.
作者: zuesel    時間: 2012-11-9 23:23

I lived with housemates before in dorms. Some were eating my foods, using my personal items and even slept in my room! ~_~
i really enjoyed living alone. more freedom and privacy.
作者: bubblesalt    時間: 2012-11-10 00:19

男女係有少少分別，我覺得大部份女仔都係鍾意熱鬧，鍾意有人喺屋企聽佢哋講嘢，有個人壯膽，有個人 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-9 11:08



I do miss someone to talk to, but really don't want to move back home (parents really question why I don't just move back home, you do save a lot of money).  But I don't want to deal with "what's for dinner, can you do this this this for me".  Plus I do want the peace and quiet.    But like I said, it does get really lonely.....
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-10 00:53

下,幾神奇 wor.. "我識唔少中女喺香港同屋企人住真係有啲影響姻緣，反而自己住嘅女仔朋友個個都有拖拍！

...
真人 發表於 2012-11-9 21:47



    傻啦，我敢講９成嘅宅男都係同屋企人住！

同埋自己住唔代表自閉，反而可以夜夜笙歌。群體動物都可以有自己privacy嘅，睇你要啲咩啦，如果你要好needy咁日日見住先叫好感情咁或者你比較適合同其他人住。
作者: mcjohnjohn    時間: 2012-11-10 08:37

M J J  is in HK ar ...
how oftern (in %) we know people move out .. and live by themself ... lots of time .. even after married ..
In HK ..  study till 2x .. then work .. may be 30-35 .. marry as you said ..  and it is not 尷尬 to live with family (parents)

Well .. only chance .. if someone live by himself/herself in HK ...  DIVORCE ...
Catpiano 發表於 2012-11-10 07:18

所言甚是... 不過除了離婚, 喪偶也會是形成有機會獨居的情況.
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-11 12:32

所言甚是... 不過除了離婚, 喪偶也會是形成有機會獨居的情況.
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2012-11-10 08:37



    唔會有窒息嘅感覺㗎咩？

你幾鍾意都好都會想＂放假＂行開吓。有時又未必係有咩唔開心，但係就好情緒化好想獨處唔同人講嘢，咁一日２４小時都對住人其實都幾辛苦。
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-11 13:04

   "I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person."

Oscar Wild
作者: jiujiujiu    時間: 2012-11-11 13:49

回復 23# 大C姐


我都覺得每個人都應該有一點點"me time", 因為每個人身邊都會有好多人好多事發生, 而俾其他人其他事影響到. 所以, 真係需要間唔中都需要一點點"me time", 等自己個腦有片刻寧靜, 去整理自己, 如果唔係, 真係好容易發癲架!
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-11 14:04

回復 22# 大C姐
咁瞓個幾個鐘就唔會對住人

我都覺得耐唔耐自己行開/隔世一吓都唔錯
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-11 17:40

回復  大C姐
咁瞓個幾個鐘就唔會對住人

我都覺得耐唔耐自己行開/隔世一吓都唔錯 ...
reyes 發表於 2012-11-11 14:04



    我反而想自己住但係瞓覺對住人喎
作者: mcjohnjohn    時間: 2012-11-11 17:57

唔會有窒息嘅感覺㗎咩？

你幾鍾意都好都會想＂放假＂行開吓。有時又未必係有咩唔開心，但係就好情 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-12 04:32

完全唔會有窒息的感覺.
家庭絕於小弟來講就是氧氣, 分分鐘都需要他.

小弟返工既時候已經行開左好耐, 足夠有餘. 至於情緒化既時候, 我唔會想獨處, 反而"想"有人比我任打唔嬲, 哈哈~ 24 小時對住人就一定唔會, 因為我要睡覺的. 其實, 我份工一半半時間要對人, 唔駛對人既時間, 好多時都只係自己做野, 完全滿足了獨處的需要(若然有的話).
作者: mcjohnjohn    時間: 2012-11-11 18:03

"I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defi ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-12 05:04

我想這是先進地方既人既想法吧~
小弟出自草根, 草根是沒有話個條件. 想當年老豆老媽子天天勤勞工作, 小弟六七歲便開始在家中工作, 基本上是一做完功課就開工, 由細到大都沒有私人時間呢一個概念, 已經習慣左o係呢一個模式生活.
當然, 而家託賴叫做唔駛憂柴憂米, 但個概念已經根深蒂固. 仲要有兩隻小魔怪跟身, 更加唔駛諗私人時間. 哈哈~
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-11 18:29

我想這是先進地方既人既想法吧~
小弟出自草根, 草根是沒有話個條件. 想當年老豆老媽子天天勤勞工作, 小弟 ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2012-11-11 18:03



    都唔關草根事嘅，好多人都係草根出身但係都可以好先進嘅。

不過我覺得呢啲係性格使然，都唔係一件壞事，不過，當你結咗婚生埋仔想再找私人空間就好困難。好難講一朝起身５０歳發現原來冇做過真真正正嘅自己，只係做緊人哋心目中嘅自己，做緊人哋個仔，做緊人哋嘅老公，做緊人哋個老竇。所以我好奇怪點解唔結婚前俾多啲私人時間自己呢？
作者: mcjohnjohn    時間: 2012-11-11 18:56

都唔關草根事嘅，好多人都係草根出身但係都可以好先進嘅。

不過我覺得呢啲係性格使然，都唔係一件 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-12 10:29

小弟既生活模式是 - 為人民服務...
小弟一向不算自我中心, 自己都不太在乎自己的感覺. 或者咁講, 我自己都唔會有乜野感覺, 簡稱 - 對自己冷血. 老婆常常說做人咁大壓力仲乜? 咁我冇計, 性格就係咁, 我會諗家人多過諗自己. 或者都同宗教信仰有少少關係既.
作者: Ovaltine    時間: 2012-11-12 00:26

回復 26# 大C姐


    This, I want to share body, but not the mind. I think most in our generation are more like that, we strive for self-sustainability. Marriage and family seem to be absurd and brings lots of trouble. Big C, which nights are you off?
作者: fibbi    時間: 2012-11-12 01:05

回復 31# Ovaltine


Well...without family/marriage...a person could be very lonely... I think everyone needs some sort of companion ... to "communicate" , to talk...
yes there's friend but friend eventually have their own other half... (or most likely)...
作者: peter236    時間: 2012-11-12 02:00

小弟既生活模式是 - 為人民服務...

mcjohnjohn 發表於 2012-11-11 18:56

Thank you for working so hard building our HK.
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-12 12:42

回復  大C姐


    This, I want to share body, but not the mind. I think most in our generation are  ...
Ovaltine 發表於 2012-11-12 00:26



    我當然唔係鼓吹任何人濫交啦，但係後生要做返啲後生做嘅嘢，人不風流枉少年，痛痛快快咁談戀愛，同人交往都係老咗之後留俾自己嘅美好回憶。
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-12 12:45

回復 32# fibbi
而家都有好多人鐘意單身, 只係過時過節時會慘D
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-12 12:45

回復  Ovaltine


Well...without family/marriage...a person could be very lonely... I think everyone ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-11-12 01:05



    我唔排除單身嘅日子可以沒完沒了，但係有咗family就冇得返轉頭，再冇一個人生活嘅機會（起碼正常情況唔會）。

我眼見就係，啲朋友都嫁得幾好，都好似幾開心。但係難保有一日後悔冇俾幾年私人時間去燃燒青春。
作者: Ovaltine    時間: 2012-11-12 15:48

回復 34# 大C姐


    I wonder what girls think of sex buddies..it seems prevalent in Western societies, but not many Asian girls like that, I guess they are not as sexually liberating as Western women.
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-12 16:47

我當然唔係鼓吹任何人濫交啦，但係後生要做返啲後生做嘅嘢，人不風流枉少年，痛痛快快咁談戀愛，同 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-12 12:42


後生要做返啲後生做嘅嘢係唔係想發癲時就發癲?
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-12 16:58

回復  大C姐


    I wonder what girls think of sex buddies..it seems prevalent in Western societies ...
Ovaltine 發表於 2012-11-12 15:48



    其實都有一小撮女士係享受有性冇愛嘅關係，不過絕大部份都係唔知自己做咗人哋嘅sex buddies。
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-12 16:59

後生要做返啲後生做嘅嘢係唔係想發癲時就發癲?
reyes 發表於 2012-11-12 16:47



    喂，冇所謂㗎！

只要唔犯法又唔影響到人，我覺得做人可以crazy啲。點解要咁reserved？
作者: Ovaltine    時間: 2012-11-12 17:54

回復 40# 大C姐


    Right, don't stick with conformity because if you are not crazy, you are just a drone for the whole damn machine! Create your own roadshow.
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-12 19:11

喂，冇所謂㗎！

只要唔犯法又唔影響到人，我覺得做人可以crazy啲。點解要咁reserved？ ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-12 16:59



    咁都幾睇個人性格既, 有啲人就算自己一個都好難去到crazy 級別
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-12 20:12

咁都幾睇個人性格既, 有啲人就算自己一個都好難去到crazy 級別
reyes 發表於 2012-11-12 19:11



    咁如果自己一個人都唔可以放鬆解放自己，同屋企人住就更加唔可以１００％做自己。

我覺得人前人後一定有兩個樣。你喺唔同人面前都會呈現唔同嘅性格表達。
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-12 23:42

咁如果自己一個人都唔可以放鬆解放自己，同屋企人住就更加唔可以１００％做自己。

我覺得人前人後 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-12 20:12


人前人後一定會唔同, 同屋企人住都可以做返自己(等佢地唔係屋企個時)
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-13 14:52

嗰啲覺得自己住會好孤獨嘅人，感情生活一定好平淡同唔多姿多采。

如果你禽七打八，你當然想自己有個竇啦，就算你已有一個固定拖友，你都想有個地方可以sweet吓，假如你咩都冇感情一片空虛，你更加需要一個地方令事情可以隨意發生！
作者: BiscottiGelato    時間: 2012-11-13 15:14

Agree with Big C Sister.... and in fact have just fully bought in and putting this into action.... Hopefully it's for the better than for the worse...
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-13 16:07

回復 45# 大C姐

睇到你咁講我都想有個竇令事情可以隨意發生
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-14 11:15

本帖最後由 大C姐 於 2012-11-14 11:30 編輯
Agree with Big C Sister.... and in fact have just fully bought in and putting this into action.... H ...
BiscottiGelato 發表於 2012-11-13 15:14



剛剛搬出嚟住？

分享吓經歷呀，例如第一次租樓／買屋，搵location，交通考慮，裝修，買家俬，屋企人嘅意見，第一次招呼朋友上自己屋企之類。
作者: BiscottiGelato    時間: 2012-11-14 13:07

本帖最後由 BiscottiGelato 於 2012-11-14 13:08 編輯
剛剛搬出嚟住？

分享吓經歷呀，例如第一次租樓／買屋，搵location，交通考慮，裝修，買家俬，屋企人嘅 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-14 11:15


See your other thread. Looking for rental right now. I work Burnaby (near Production Way). Definately want to live West of that for proximity to downtown and Richmond. Thinking Brentwood. Lemme know if you got better suggestions~
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-14 14:42

See your other thread. Looking for rental right now. I work Burnaby (near Production Way). Definat ...
BiscottiGelato 發表於 2012-11-14 13:07



    Brentwood真係幾好住，交通又方便，又近你返工，又近highway，不過睇吓你覺得啲租點啦，因爲新區新樓多，好難搵到舊少少平少少嘅＂筍盤＂。

但係如果你根本唔會考慮舊樓，冇洗衣機冇gym冇facility嘅apartment or basement suite的話，咁Brentwood算係你最好選擇。
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-14 16:07

回復 49# BiscottiGelato


    Brentwood is a nice place. You can commute to work by skytrain, save a lot on fuel. But I heard the Brentwood mall is going to renovate and build more apartments. Is it true?
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-14 16:28

回復  BiscottiGelato


    Brentwood is a nice place. You can commute to work by skytrain, save a l ...
reyes 發表於 2012-11-14 16:07



    係真嘅，我老友喺該個地產發展商嘅高層，不過都要幾長時間，因爲佢哋會加地舗，從新發展成個地區，再加apartment喺上蓋。
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-14 16:38

回復 52# 大C姐


    南有metrotown, 北有brentwood mall. 好多選擇啦, 只係我唔太鐘意apartment 樓下係地舖
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-14 17:06

回復  大C姐


    南有metrotown, 北有brentwood mall. 好多選擇啦, 只係我唔太鐘意apartment 樓下係地舖 ...
reyes 發表於 2012-11-14 16:38



    我睇嗰啲動態影像係有個平台嘅，不過我都唔會鍾意低層，有冇地舗都唔係咁好。
作者: B2L2    時間: 2012-11-14 17:10

From Holdom to Gilmore, there are so many choices.  There are few more low-rise around Canadian Way near Boundary too, a bit off from SkyTrain but it is cheaper also.

We looked around this area about 4-5 years ago when we were looking for our first apartment.  However, we ruled out this area pretty quick (although it is just mins away from my office).  I personally don't like the traffic around this section, always busy and skytrain is pretty noisy for apartment facing that direction.  Flooding was an issue along the HomeDepot area back then but they improved the road work in the last few years already.  Geographically it is located in a valley, which is another thing I don't like when compare to Metrotown or Highgate.  After all, the major factor was price.  Most apartments available at that time were new development and were overprice.
作者: BiscottiGelato    時間: 2012-11-14 17:44

From Holdom to Gilmore, there are so many choices.  There are few more low-rise around Canadian Way  ...
B2L2 發表於 2012-11-14 17:10


So I guess key thing to look out for is to face away from skytrain?
作者: B2L2    時間: 2012-11-14 18:12

Yes, facing away from Skytrain.  Then depends on whether you need to take Skytrain daily, you could exclude those that are too far away from the station.  I personally will stay as far away from Willington intersection as possible.  Too much traffic, plus the coming Brentwood reconstruction there.
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-15 09:51

Yes, facing away from Skytrain.  Then depends on whether you need to take Skytrain daily, you could  ...
B2L2 發表於 2012-11-14 18:12



    其實只要唔係對住skytrain，其實都唔係好聽到。我so far去過咁多朋友屋企，我就算見到個skytrain喺出面，如果係高層（有十幾樓距離）都唔係好嘈。
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-15 10:16

From Holdom to Gilmore, there are so many choices.  There are few more low-rise around Canadian Way  ...
B2L2 發表於 2012-11-14 17:10



    如果租我會揀近Renfrew/ Rupert station嗰度住（冇乜錢的話），交通放便又近大型grocery chains，不過買的話就比較少新樓，condo唔多而且舊樓升值能力比較差同埋配套冇咁完善。可能近排有新development plans我唔知啦。
作者: B2L2    時間: 2012-11-15 10:17

when there are choices, why settle with something that's not the best.  

Would I able to sit in a balcony 10 floors away from SkyTrain to enjoy a quiet afternoon coffee?  Probably not.

My friend lives in an apartment at Joyce and her place is exactly at 10/F 45 degree facing the Skytrain track.  Yes, it isn't super noisy but it is there.
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-15 10:21

when there are choices, why settle with something that's not the best.  

Would I able to sit in a ...
B2L2 發表於 2012-11-15 10:17



    真係睇吓應唔應聲囉，如果買pre-sale就當然唔好搏啦，梗係面向另一面隔２０層樓啦。

但係你要住旺區其實好多balcony都好細／冇乜privacy，你都未必會好enjoy。
作者: B2L2    時間: 2012-11-15 10:33

如果租我會揀近Renfrew/ Rupert station嗰度住（冇乜錢的話），交通放便又近大型grocery chains，不 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-15 10:16


Renfrew / Rupert station??  There isn't any highrise or condo around these two stations bor.  Unless you're suggestion to rent a basement of a house.
作者: B2L2    時間: 2012-11-15 10:44

真係睇吓應唔應聲囉，如果買pre-sale就當然唔好搏啦，梗係面向另一面隔２０層樓啦。

但係你要住旺 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-15 10:21


If you're interested, go to the new highrise next to Holdom station and have a look.  Their balconies are big enough to hose 3 MJ tables with excellent privacy.  That's what my wife said she will play MJ at the balcony if we purchase that place.  LOL.

I'm just stating my personal preference and I'm not trying to convince anyone to follow that.  Each of us have preference of their own anyhow.
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-15 10:54

Renfrew / Rupert station??  There isn't any highrise or condo around these two stations bor.  Unle ...
B2L2 發表於 2012-11-15 10:33



    冇㗎，但係我識人租屋住囉。

我等緊嗰區re-develop...
作者: BiscottiGelato    時間: 2012-11-15 12:37

A highrise beside the skytrain, but on the side facing away from the skytrain should be okay? would that still be bad from skytrain noise + lougheed noise?

Actually, might also need to consider if hwy 1 is any close if it's Holdom you are talking about.

Otherwise I see a few for the 3/4 stories high apartment just directly east of Brentwood. Asking for about $1300+/mo. Those looks pretty new and looks pretty nice. Walking distance (< 5 min?) to Brentwood and Skytrain, not that i'll skytrain to work, as commute time would be more than double compared to driving (driving probably 10 min, walk + wait for skytrain + skytrain + bus/walk up Production would be like 30 min?). Gas cost is limited when driving distance is that short anyways. Not like I'll sell my car so will still be driving. Skytrain is more for DT drinking and taxi back.
作者: B2L2    時間: 2012-11-15 13:56

You mean the Varley (East of Brentwood along Lougheed)?  I have a friend lives there.
作者: BiscottiGelato    時間: 2012-11-15 14:32

I think it's Varley. not 100% sure tho. Just briefly looking. Not planning to start renting till early 2013.

What's ur friend's comment on that place?
作者: Ovaltine    時間: 2012-11-15 14:49

lots of redevelopment nearing Hastings, i kinda like the new houses on Strathcona, very trendy.
作者: B2L2    時間: 2012-11-15 14:59

Wood structure.  If you're a quiet person, better stay on the top floor.  Visitor parking sucks, I could tell u.  And that Beta Ave is steep.  Lots of Chinese.  My friend and her husband (non-Chinese) love that place.  If I remember, their rent was $1200, that was ~4 (or maybe 5) years ago when the building just finished.

From what I saw, the layout was just like any apartment finished in the last 5 years.  Getting smaller and smaller in everything.  They are on a 2-bedrooms, but the 2nd bedroom wasn't big at all.

Those facing Lougheed are pretty close and at the same level to the skytrain track.
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-15 15:04

lots of redevelopment nearing Hastings, i kinda like the new houses on Strathcona, very trendy.
Ovaltine 發表於 2012-11-15 14:49



    Hastings都唔差㗎，不過返downtown就好囉，可以搭巴士，如果唔係就冇skytrain。不過都好多嘢食，而且開多好多新嘢，係交通差啲！

我會買嚟租俾人，自己住就唔太方便啦。
作者: BiscottiGelato    時間: 2012-11-15 22:24

Wood structure.  If you're a quiet person, better stay on the top floor.  Visitor parking sucks, I c ...
B2L2 發表於 2012-11-15 14:59



Not really a quiet person. so Wood structure is no good. Visitor parking sucks is also a downer. Lots of Chinese is fine w/ me. Small is fine too, as long as it's high in usability and nicely furnished.

That said, sounds like a place to avoid.
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-16 10:13

Not really a quiet person. so Wood structure is no good. Visitor parking sucks is also a downer.  ...
BiscottiGelato 發表於 2012-11-15 22:24



    Noise complaints係全世界最口買口陪嘅投訴。

你唔好以爲你好靜，有啲人係野蠻到你用電話同人講嘢都太大聲，又或者你夜晚沖涼啲水聲嘈得滞，再唔係你想追大太監差唔多係要帶headphone聽先得。

好多人好seafood鬼，就算唔係夜晚都會投訴你嘈，有百般理由！
作者: B2L2    時間: 2012-11-16 10:37

When I ask whether you're a quiet person, I mean whether you could live with noise coming from your surrounding apartments.  For wood structure, it could easily be the first complaint.  Even in concrete building, you could still easily hear your neighbors, especially from above.

That's why I said if you prefer quiet, you may want to live at the top floor.

If yourself isn't a quiet person, then expect your neighbors to hear you.  I used to in my  Stratra and I heard enough stories of people complaints.
作者: Nam    時間: 2012-11-16 10:47

When I ask whether you're a quiet person, I mean whether you could live with noise coming from your  ...
B2L2 發表於 2012-11-16 10:37



    I agreed.... that's why when I purchase my unit, for $10K different. I rather give up on extra parking stall and bought the top floor unit. I don't want to keep hearing noise complaint from strata ....
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-16 10:51

I agreed.... that's why when I purchase my unit, for $10K different. I rather give up on extr ...
Nam 發表於 2012-11-16 10:47



    但係top floor有個唔好處係好熱！
作者: Nam    時間: 2012-11-16 10:56

但係top floor有個唔好處係好熱！
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-16 10:51



    There are AC ar ma plus I wasn't planning to move in...
It's really hard to control tenant to be quiet because I wasn't there to witness...

Talk about rental... any experienced landlord can share their experiences on requesting quick inspection.  I've just passed one year term with my tenant, and I got a minor complaint from property management saying my tenants has been putting bag of empty cans at their parking stall...

that got me worried a bit... for the entire year, I never request an inspection as every time I go to my unit to fix things or pick up cheques from them. their living room and kitchen looks pretty clean...

so how do you guys request inspection without hurting their feeling? I have to pick up 6 months cheques from them next month... want to use that excuse
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-16 11:25

本帖最後由 大C姐 於 2012-11-16 11:26 編輯
There are AC ar ma plus I wasn't planning to move in...
It's really hard to control tenant t ...
Nam 發表於 2012-11-16 10:56



    唔係棟棟大廈都有AC噃。

咪明刀明槍講囉，話明如果strata要fine你就佢俾囉！

其實你去睇都冇用啦，你問得佢唔通佢會俾你見到大堆垃圾咩。
作者: Nam    時間: 2012-11-16 11:34

回復 77# 大C姐

Well, she said she will ask the bf to remove it but just thought if I tell her I want an annual inspection... that would give her an idea that it's not like I do not monitor them?

No, what I mean is portable AC.  But talking about AC, I noticed that a lot new developments come with built in AC.
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-16 11:43

本帖最後由 大C姐 於 2012-11-16 11:45 編輯
回復  大C姐

Well, she said she will ask the bf to remove it but just thought if I tell her I want  ...
Nam 發表於 2012-11-16 11:34



你直接講囉，你有權㗎嘛！趁收cheques同過年時間去＂探＂佢哋囉！
   


我依家屋企有central AC，超正！

Portable好煩同好唔靚，你要封一隻窗又煩，唔通間間房都要整個窗咩，咁肉酸！
作者: BiscottiGelato    時間: 2012-11-16 12:14

I'm more worried that i'm the noisy one vs otherwise. haha.
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-16 13:34

回復  大C姐

Well, she said she will ask the bf to remove it but just thought if I tell her I want  ...
Nam 發表於 2012-11-16 11:34



    built in AC is an option when you buy the apartment, you can opt out if u don't want to pay more. I personally think we don't need AC in Van cuz how many days in Van are actually really hot
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-16 14:31

built in AC is an option when you buy the apartment, you can opt out if u don't want to pay m ...
reyes 發表於 2012-11-16 13:34



    黐線啦，熱起上嚟真係唔係人咁品！！

唔好忘記住apartment冇basement俾你避熱，啲窗又開唔大，撞正西斜的話，又或者對面大廈反光，都真係好熱，連夜晚都散唔到熱㗎！
作者: 布小熊    時間: 2012-11-16 16:10

黐線啦，熱起上嚟真係唔係人咁品！！

唔好忘記住apartment冇basement俾你避熱，啲窗又開唔大，撞正 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-16 02:31 PM

that's why my tiny apartment is north facing. I rather turn on the heat when it's cold.
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-16 16:25

黐線啦，熱起上嚟真係唔係人咁品！！

唔好忘記住apartment冇basement俾你避熱，啲窗又開唔大，撞正 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-16 14:31



    其實夏天一早一晚都唔太熱, 有時仲有D涼添. 最熱都係中午到下午, 個時好多人都返緊工, 假日個段時間又可能唔係屋企. 如果買既好多人都唔會買西鈄屋

可能我鐘意熱, 太凍好似而家咁我唔掂
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-16 16:26

that's why my tiny apartment is north facing. I rather turn on the heat when it's cold.
布小熊 發表於 2012-11-16 16:10



    之前我住過唔同方向嘅apartment我覺得好多apartment根本唔通風。其實就算唔係直接晒入屋，啲牆都係發熱。我當時幾想有個鐵閘，夜晚可以開咗度門訓！
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-18 20:35

其實夏天一早一晚都唔太熱, 有時仲有D涼添. 最熱都係中午到下午, 個時好多人都返緊工, 假日個段時間 ...
reyes 發表於 2012-11-16 16:25



    有啲人（尤其外國人），好鍾意買西斜，鍾意有咁多陽光得咁多陽光。我覺得好辛苦，因爲屋企咩電視電腦都睇唔到。而且啲家俬俾日光晒住好唔襟！好易變色或老化。

我都係比較鍾意陰涼啲嘅地方，保存期會耐啲！
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-18 22:04

有啲人（尤其外國人），好鍾意買西斜，鍾意有咁多陽光得咁多陽光。我覺得好辛苦，因爲屋企咩電視電 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-18 20:35



    外國人有陽光就鐘意啦, 佢地連住係墓園附近都冇問題. 呢到冬天雨多陽光少D傢俬冇退色得咁快

唐人只要唔向西就冇咩問題
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-19 09:48

外國人有陽光就鐘意啦, 佢地連住係墓園附近都冇問題. 呢到冬天雨多陽光少D傢俬冇退色得咁快

唐人只 ...
reyes 發表於 2012-11-18 22:04


咁我老豆係西人，佢最鍾意西斜嘅屋。
   
作者: fongparker    時間: 2012-11-20 18:37

I'm older generation so I love living alone without the kids after ALL THOSE YEARS....
But as I'm getting older it's a bit scary to live alone.
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-21 10:05

I'm older generation so I love living alone without the kids after ALL THOSE YEARS....
But as I'm ge ...
fongparker 發表於 2012-11-20 18:37



    人就總會有軟弱嘅時候，但係就算同另一半一齊住，好多人都會覺得寂寞，而呢種寂寞先係最可怕...
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-22 13:54

人就總會有軟弱嘅時候，但係就算同另一半一齊住，好多人都會覺得寂寞，而呢種寂寞先係最可怕... ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-21 10:05



    用另一半都覺得寂寞既話, 咁婚姻就出現問題
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-22 14:56

用另一半都覺得寂寞既話, 咁婚姻就出現問題
reyes 發表於 2012-11-22 13:54



    好多婚姻關係都係處於雞肋狀態，食之無味棄之可惜。
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-22 15:26

好多婚姻關係都係處於雞肋狀態，食之無味棄之可惜。
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-22 14:56



    咁好多人都係咁喎, 只係佢地唔想衰俾人睇唔離婚
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-22 16:59

咁好多人都係咁喎, 只係佢地唔想衰俾人睇唔離婚
reyes 發表於 2012-11-22 15:26



    有啲為小朋友啦，有啲覺得耐咗就係咁㗎啦，有啲根本就係出面冇貨，如果有其他interests就一早離婚啦。
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-22 18:33

有啲為小朋友啦，有啲覺得耐咗就係咁㗎啦，有啲根本就係出面冇貨，如果有其他interests就一早離婚啦 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-22 16:59



    有哟見得耐就冇感覺.

有冇貸D家野好睇人啵, 好多唔理三七廿一都搵到件
作者: mcjohnjohn    時間: 2012-11-22 18:40

好多婚姻關係都係處於雞肋狀態，食之無味棄之可惜。
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-23 06:56

可能我仲算後生(仲可以選傑青), 身邊朋友都同另一半如膠似漆的. 如膠的原因, 我想或許是大家都比較膠吧! 哈哈~
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-22 22:42

可能我仲算後生(仲可以選傑青), 身邊朋友都同另一半如膠似漆的. 如膠的原因, 我想或許是大家都比較膠吧!  ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2012-11-22 18:40



    當然有成功例子啦，我係講緊有啲couples啫。不過自己住對一對couple嚟講我覺得有好有唔好。如果行咗好耐而唔同居，好多生活習慣都可能唔知，但係又可以有多啲自己空間唔會咁易嗌交，心情唔好最多唔見面啫。但係有問題發生又唔可以閂埋門搞掂，自己返自己屋企可能會拖長咗時間。
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-22 22:59

當然有成功例子啦，我係講緊有啲couples啫。不過自己住對一對couple嚟講我覺得有好有唔好。如果行咗 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-22 22:42



    結婚有辣有唔辣. 結左婚頭幾年都可以如膠似漆既, 真係有幾多都左7老80都日日拖住手行街
作者: 大C姐    時間: 2012-11-23 12:20

有哟見得耐就冇感覺.

有冇貸D家野好睇人啵, 好多唔理三七廿一都搵到件 ...
reyes 發表於 2012-11-22 18:33



    都唔係㗎，有啲人冇貨喺上嚟就冇㗎啦。同埋有啲人好懶，根本就唔願交朋結友。亦有好多人結咗婚就唔keep，賤肉橫生，面色枯黃。就算有心都冇能力去搵第二春啦。
作者: reyes    時間: 2012-11-23 12:40

都唔係㗎，有啲人冇貨喺上嚟就冇㗎啦。同埋有啲人好懶，根本就唔願交朋結友。亦有好多人結咗婚就唔k ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-11-23 12:20



    結左婚好多人都唔願交朋友, 因為冇時間出黎玩怕另一半唔鐘意. 有心就有力, 有D 7/80歲都可以搵到件, 當然你有錢就算幾多歲, 點既樣都有人自動搵你



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