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作者: lo_pak 時間: 2013-1-6 19:25 標題: 費青當道
費青當道
上星期五早上坐車聽到電台新聞話咩「家長幫啲仔女攞表格…」，我心想不知又是那家幼稚園或小學的招生情況。原來搞錯曬，當日系5千白表名額免補地價購買居屋計畫正式派表及接受申請，而排隊嘅不乏家長，之後當然就系俾曬錢送埋個仔上車。由讀書找樂搵工結婚置業養仔（孫），都一手包辦，無微不至，港產家長堪稱當代父母的典範。晚上睇番新聞片，見訪問其中一位滿頭白髮嬤級女士，她徐徐回答： 「（子女）冇能力買私人樓嘛。所以咪幫佢攞表。」冇能力買私樓，我尚能理解，但連「排隊攞表」都要勞煩個老母，「自顧」能力真沒話說。
港產家長子女 認真唔話得
記起早前友人轉來的電郵，雖不明言是否親身經歷，卻擔保出處。重溫事件，再對照眼下「費青（費事親為的青年）」當道，其來有因。以下案發經過：
噚日喺九龍分區郵局見到一個中學生，拎住袋嘢企喺我前面，以身高估算應該系高中生，睇住佢走埋去問郵局職員。
中學生：「我想寄呢袋嘢。」
郵局職員：「你包好佢，填左份form再過嚟。」
中學生（疑惑）：「要包好佢？我袋起咗啦噃。」
郵局職員：「用紙袋裝起，我哋系唔收架。」
中學生：「點樣包？」
郵局職員：「你可以用個紙盒pack好佢。」
中學生（緊張）：「要我執紙盒？」
郵局職員：「我哋有得賣紙盒。」
中學生（困擾）：「咁要裝起呢袋嘢要用邊隻紙盒？」
郵局職員：「你試下呢個啦，X蚊啫。」
中學生：「要而家俾錢架？」
郵局職員：「咁你而家買就而家俾囉，你想轉頭買就轉頭俾。」學生不大情願地付款。
郵局職員：「要填埋份form，你寄去邊？」
中學生：「要寄去香港仔，我要空郵。」
郵局職員：「空郵？」
中學生（認真）：「系呀，最快系空郵嘛？」
郵局職員（稍呆）：「唔好意思，寄去邊到話？」
中學生：「都話香港仔囉。」
郵局職員：「小朋友，寄本港系唔使空郵架。」
呢個時候我同排隔離隊嘅幾個都已忍唔住，嘰咗聲笑咗出嚟。
中學生（受屈）：「仲乜叫我做小朋友啫？我覺得你咁講，系好唔尊重我囉！我都系來寄嘢啫，唔系嚟俾你笑架。」
跟住氣衝衝拎埋袋「空郵包裹」走人...
故事講完，如果今時今日嘅「港產」家長同啲仔女，有乜共同點，我會覺得兩者都真系「唔話得」囉。
作者: satil 時間: 2013-1-6 21:00
有一次, 借咗部power wash比隔鄰洗地,
幫佢裝好, 來水喉, 校好汽油, 拉着, 示範點用......
鄰居叫佢個28歲, 做緊律師的兒子幫手, ...
我發現冇咗engine聲, 就知道洗完,
諗住, 可以攞番部機, 點知....
發現.... 這位律師在研究... 除水喉.. 是向邊一邊扭, 因為他第一吓錯了, 上得更死了, 所以反又不是! 正又不是!
我一正在看.. 心諗, 你不是每天都開水洗面嗎? 扭左, 扭右都搞唔通?!?! 扭罐蓋的方向由細到大冇變過, 好自然姐...
這是現今的青年!!
作者: ricrick 時間: 2013-1-6 23:15
本帖最後由 ricrick 於 2013-1-6 23:17 編輯
不要說青年不青年，說到人類的層面，人類早以失去在大自然中生存的本能。隨著科技發展，人類只會變得更加廢
作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2013-1-6 23:36
不要說青年不青年，說到人類的層面，人類早以失去在大自然中生存的本能。隨著科技發展，人類只會變得更加廢 ...
ricrick 發表於 2013-1-7 15:15 
這是文明社會的代價.
作者: ricrick 時間: 2013-1-6 23:43
做廢人其實是發展的目的及結果
我其實想做廢人好耐，最好有幾條美女服侍
作者: BiscottiGelato 時間: 2013-1-7 17:48
本帖最後由 BiscottiGelato 於 2013-1-7 17:49 編輯
做廢人其實是發展的目的及結果
我其實想做廢人好耐，最好有幾條美女服侍 ...
ricrick 發表於 2013-1-6 23:43
Or rather say, the skill set required to succeed in the current society cannot be gauged by metrics that was considered important decades ago. Not able to use a power-wash is fine, and can still lead a successful life, iff he makes plenty from a skill-set that is relevant to today's society. Similarly on mailing a parcel, given that most on-coming generation probably lacks snail mail experiences, and thus inability to post a parcel.
Instead, we should be more worried that the skill set that we were once proud of might no longer give us the edge as the next wave of change in our society is to hit us. Only if we keep our experiences relevant to the ever changing outside world, would we not become obsolete by the next generation. Or if some of you might recall how our parent's generation used to despises ours, but some quickly instead become obsolete and irrelevant in the competitive landscape. We definately don't want to end up in the same fate as the ones who refuses to recognize the next generation and become obsolete ourselves.
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-7 17:54
E家D年輕人真係好搞鬼, 我老公個妹, 响SFU讀電腦wor~
但上網online check in 都唔識囉~ 呢D係咪我有問題呢? 定佢有問題呢?
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-7 17:54
早排新聞都有講大學生D家長都陪返學陪坐啦, 不如叫埋D家長考試拎個degree啦
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-7 18:01
E家D年輕人真係好搞鬼, 我老公個妹, 响SFU讀電腦wor~
但上網online check in 都唔識囉~ 呢D係咪我有問題呢? ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-7 17:54
佢可能識寫program 唔識check-in
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-7 18:36
回復 9# reyes
寫佢條命咩~ 讀5年都畢唔到業~
做part time 就嫌辛苦, 暑假一定要返HK, 唔返唔得, 好似要拿左佢條命咁....
作者: randommike 時間: 2013-1-7 19:07
E家D年輕人真係好搞鬼, 我老公個妹, 响SFU讀電腦wor~
但上網online check in 都唔識囉~ 呢D係咪我有問題呢? ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-7 17:54
she must be hot to have guys do homework for her? hahaha
作者: BiscottiGelato 時間: 2013-1-7 19:58
回復 10# jiujiujiu
individual problem ba. haha.
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-7 20:10
回復 11# randommike
oops~ nope~ she's not hot at all~
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-7 20:11
回復 12# BiscottiGelato
咁又係呀~ 又唔係我個女, 我做乜要幫人教女呢~ rite~
作者: Quest 時間: 2013-1-7 20:33
回復 reyes
寫佢條命咩~ 讀5年都畢唔到業~
做part time 就嫌辛苦, 暑假一定要返HK, 唔返唔得, 好似要拿 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-7 18:36
In that case: let her rot ....
Q.
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-7 21:28
回復 reyes
寫佢條命咩~ 讀5年都畢唔到業~
做part time 就嫌辛苦, 暑假一定要返HK, 唔返唔得, 好似要拿 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-7 18:36
comp sci 已經好易啵
咁有錢人既仔女都係咁架啦
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-7 21:31
回復 BiscottiGelato
咁又係呀~ 又唔係我個女, 我做乜要幫人教女呢~ rite~
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-7 20:11
做大嫂都可以整幾句俾佢聽
作者: BiscottiGelato 時間: 2013-1-7 23:17
回復 BiscottiGelato
咁又係呀~ 又唔係我個女, 我做乜要幫人教女呢~ rite~
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-7 20:11
I guess my response was kind of ambiguous. I meant it's an individual case, can't say it's indicative of the entire generation.
I personally am more concerned that I won't be able to keep up once the next wave of social change hits and no longer can stay on top of the game. Even some of these web 2.0 monetization concepts sometimes already escapes me. Not as concerned that the next generation won't be able to handle themselves. In every generation there are ones who excel and ones who perish, I suppose the coming up generations will be the same. Holding the laggers from the next generation criticize it might make the prior generations looks smarter, but in reality, it's just a self comforting exercise.
That said, I do hope that our future generations will be better than ours and the past ones. In modern history, rarely does that fail tho.
作者: ricrick 時間: 2013-1-8 00:44
社會是弱肉強食，你吾得就自然死，無選擇，你要叻過人，識野多過人。但有d人是受保護的，吾洗做，做廢人，我就覺得好幸福law。佢講句，你吹啊，就可KO你。
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-8 18:19
回復 17# reyes
算把啦~ 佢老豆老母都唔識教女, 關我鬼事咩~ 我唔會幫人教女, 呢D吃力不討好嘅事, 我係唔會做架! 係佢同佢老豆老母俾人笑無家教咋嘛, 又唔係我, 話知佢啦~ 道不同不相為謀, 大家唔同路架! 
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-8 18:22
回復 16# reyes
no la~ 佢老豆一D都唔係有$$, 仲要係同有錢有一大段好大嘅距離添~ 但就成日同人(香港D親戚)吹噓自己好有錢囉~
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-8 18:46
回復 reyes
算把啦~ 佢老豆老母都唔識教女, 關我鬼事咩~ 我唔會幫人教女, 呢D吃力不討好嘅事, 我係唔會 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-8 18:19
而家好多家長都係咁架啦, 見怪不怪
我大學時不知幾想我老豆係咁"沖"大頭鬼買靚車俾我揸
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-8 19:40
回復 22# reyes
咁我就要恭喜你parents 喇, 至少佢地生左個有用嘅仔, 唔係生左件廢柴垃圾呀~
作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2013-1-8 19:47
回復 reyes
咁我就要恭喜你parents 喇, 至少佢地生左個有用嘅仔, 唔係生左件廢柴垃圾呀~ ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-9 11:40
垃圾總會有一天覺悟, 痛改前非的~
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-8 20:00
回復 24# mcjohnjohn
我以為垃圾只會俾人送去堆填區架咋啵..... 
作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2013-1-8 20:08
回復 mcjohnjohn
我以為垃圾只會俾人送去堆填區架咋啵.....
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-9 12:00
而家環保D 好, 垃圾應該盡量拎去循環再用.
好似我呢舊垃圾咁, 循環多幾轉都話唔定有機會變成有用的東西~
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-8 21:07
回復 26# mcjohnjohn
我都知道reduce, reuse, recycle, 但.... 有D野係醫番都sai 藥費架!
作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2013-1-8 21:23
你地講既廢青我公司有個, 一係唔做野, 做野打爛野, 成日扮醒目, 吹水唔抹嘴, 以為自己乜都識自動請纓, 結果做錯野又要幫佢執手尾, 佢仲覺得人地幫佢係應份, 唔該都冇句, 話佢就躲埋一邊喊, 覺得全世界欠佢針對佢, 話俾佢知做錯野佢就全日黑口黑面, 最好一日二十四小時都係讚佢奉承佢
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-8 21:45
回復 reyes
咁我就要恭喜你parents 喇, 至少佢地生左個有用嘅仔, 唔係生左件廢柴垃圾呀~ ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-8 19:40
我都幾冇用架, 搵又搵唔到, 沖又沖唔到
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-8 21:46
回復 mcjohnjohn
我都知道reduce, reuse, recycle, 但.... 有D野係醫番都sai 藥費架!
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-8 21:07
睇黎你同佢有D因怨喎
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-8 21:48
你地講既廢青我公司有個, 一係唔做野, 做野打爛野, 成日扮醒目, 吹水唔抹嘴, 以為自己乜都識自動請纓, 結果 ...
Purpleheart 發表於 2013-1-8 21:23
呢D係90後既特徵
作者: lo_pak 時間: 2013-1-8 22:16
本帖最後由 lo_pak 於 2013-1-8 22:18 編輯
回復 30# reyes
我覺得佢地似情敵多啲喎……
好明顯愛屋及烏並不會出現響jiujiujiu 嘅字典入面……
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-9 17:02
回復 30# reyes
yup, long story, 但.... 我同佢地成家都無2句架~ 咁當然除左我老公啦! 我從來都唔否認我唔妥我老公全家架! 而我亦無諗過改變呢個關係.... they do not exist in my world, and I will never b in their small well! (無錯, 係well 唔係world) 
作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-1-9 17:48
回復 reyes
yup, long story, 但.... 我同佢地成家都無2句架~ 咁當然除左我老公啦! 我從來都唔否認我唔 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-9 17:02
women nowaday hate their husband's family......
作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2013-1-9 18:35
回復 reyes
yup, long story, 但.... 我同佢地成家都無2句架~ 咁當然除左我老公啦! 我從來都唔否認我唔 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-10 09:02
咁你老公呢個夾心人唔係咁易做呢~
你老公當年娶你, 係唔係排除萬難, 同屋企人反晒面, 又或者係走佬私奔?
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-9 18:47
咁你老公呢個夾心人唔係咁易做呢~
你老公當年娶你, 係唔係排除萬難, 同屋企人反晒面, 又或者係走佬私奔? ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2013-1-9 18:35
電影情節
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-9 18:48
women nowaday hate their husband's family......
chunsh 發表於 2013-1-9 17:48
4x-5x 個D都差唔多
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-9 18:50
回復 reyes
yup, long story, 但.... 我同佢地成家都無2句架~ 咁當然除左我老公啦! 我從來都唔否認我唔 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-9 17:02
多兄弟姊妹個D屋企多數同家嫂都唔太夾
作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2013-1-9 19:38
多兄弟姊妹個D屋企多數同家嫂都唔太夾
reyes 發表於 2013-1-10 10:50
可能覺得家嫂搶走左個仔, 所以懷恨在心. 
作者: Nam 時間: 2013-1-10 07:57
每一個generation都會被人話架啦，我哋個代咪又係曾經被人話溫室，話我哋只識打機同睇公仔書！到無得揀要面對現實時，我哋依㗎個個咪又上哂岸！只不過新一代家長拉長咗溫室嗰段時間，每一個時代都會有人生存到，有人唔掂，我澳門個表弟都攞晒獎，25歲就開電腦公司，黃之鋒咪又係將國教推倒，反事都唔可以一蓋而論嘅....
作者: stevoo 時間: 2013-1-10 09:13
回復 mcjohnjohn
我都知道reduce, reuse, recycle, 但.... 有D野係醫番都sai 藥費架!
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-8 21:07
係呀, 有D垃圾連垃圾站都吾願要係要俾錢佢地至要!
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-10 18:21
回復 34# chunsh
人不犯我, 我不犯人, 我係一個唔識嬲人嘅人, 而佢老豆可以令我一生一世都唔會考慮去原諒佢老豆, 咁你就知道我同佢老豆嘅恩恩怨怨唔係一朝一夕嘅事, 牙齒印係深到難以形容啦~ 
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-10 18:39
回復 35# mcjohnjohn
當年發生左D事, which, 佢全個家族都知道我好委屈, 我當初應承我老公讓步, 等佢唔好難做個陣, 我就講到明, 我以後唔會同佢老豆講野, 如果佢老豆有乜野講左我唔o岩聽, 我就堂前即片唔會俾面架喇~ 所以, 我一係唔開口, 一開口, 我就make sure佢老豆連反駁能力都無! 每個家庭都要有個黑面架啦, 佢地無人敢駁佢老豆, 我又橫掂同佢關係唔多好架啦, 咪等我做囉~ 有次返HK, 咁o岩佢老豆老母同廢柴細妹都返晒HK, 有一個function, 佢全個家族出晒黎, 佢老豆無啦啦發爛渣, 其他人個個都O晒嘴呆鬼晒, 係我夠膽死一句dud埋去"shut up" 然後趕佢出VIP房, 叫佢發完癲先好入返來, 咪鬼失禮我地影衰我地, 我老公D姑姐阿叔即刻話, 終於明白乜叫一物治一物囉~
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-10 18:49
本帖最後由 jiujiujiu 於 2013-1-10 18:50 編輯
回復 39# mcjohnjohn
nope, 只係當年我地結婚, 係佢個仔話明唔搞, 旅行結婚就算, 咁佢老豆無得叉隻腳落黎, 搵千千萬萬個爛excuse 黎唔俾我地結婚咋嘛~ 連"我今年犯太歲, 所以你地2個唔結得婚!" 咁爛嘅excuse 都用埋, 當堂俾佢吹到bear bear 聲啦! 我當初死都唔制架, 但為免我老公難做, 咪唔結住囉~ 不過, 我都唔係好好野架咋, 我响下一年, 一過年初7就飛去Vegas 同我老公結婚啦! 仲要係臨結前唔夠一個月先知會佢老豆咋嘛~ 擺明唔俾面架啦!
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-10 19:23
回復 44# jiujiujiu
出奇喎, 男方好多都係阿媽出聲話結婚一定要搞, 好少老豆出聲 (我老豆已經講左叫我旅行結婚算)
俾我我會結完先通知佢地
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-10 20:04
回復 45# reyes
總之, 佢老豆就超麻煩啦! 男人老狗仲衰過D女人, hup 個老婆hup 到癡肺, 乜都有佢講無人講, 佢遇著我呢個新抱, 佢真係唔好彩喇~ 擺明咬住佢唔放架我!
作者: sheep 時間: 2013-1-10 21:41
回復 mcjohnjohn
nope, 只係當年我地結婚, 係佢個仔話明唔搞, 旅行結婚就算, 咁佢老豆無得叉隻腳落黎, ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-10 18:49
係唔係出咗絕招
作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2013-1-10 21:56
回復 mcjohnjohn
當年發生左D事, which, 佢全個家族都知道我好委屈, 我當初應承我老公讓步, 等佢唔好難 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-11 10:39
好耐冇試過o係 LYK 見到呢D 咁LYK 既對話, 好感恩~
有兩句野好啱, 就係"一家唔知一家事" 同 "家家有本難念的經".
講真, 最重要係你兩老婆真心相愛, 咁就夫妻同心, 其利斷金了~
作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2013-1-10 21:57
係唔係出咗絕招
sheep 發表於 2013-1-11 13:41
龜波氣功?
作者: sheep 時間: 2013-1-10 22:01
龜波氣功?
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2013-1-10 21:57
no
作者: satil 時間: 2013-1-10 23:13
回復 50# sheep
絶招....?? 奉子成婚? 
作者: sheep 時間: 2013-1-10 23:14
回復 51# satil
英雄所見
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-11 20:53
回復 47# sheep
咩絕招先.....
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-11 20:56
回復 48# mcjohnjohn
都係個句, 到現在個老公仲係訓响自己身邊, 就即係我贏啦! 就係如此這般簡單!
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-11 20:57
回復 47# sheep
我有乜絕招, 咪就係教到連我老公個阿媽都識得點對付我老公個老豆! 夠絕無?!~
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-11 21:47
回復 reyes
總之, 佢老豆就超麻煩啦! 男人老狗仲衰過D女人, hup 個老婆hup 到癡肺, 乜都有佢講無人講, ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-10 20:04
佢老婆係邊到搵架?
hup 到癡肺都唔走?
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-11 21:50
回復 mcjohnjohn
都係個句, 到現在個老公仲係訓响自己身邊, 就即係我贏啦! 就係如此這般簡單! ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-11 20:56
咁好多時仔女都唔會聽老豆阿媽既說話
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-11 22:29
回復 56# reyes
一個無謀生能力, 讀書唔多, 唔識英文, 唔曉開車, 乜都靠老公嘅女人.... 簡單講句, 就係"一腳牛屎配無知婦孺"囉~
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-11 22:32
回復 57# reyes
就咁, 如果合理, 點解唔聽呢, 相反, 如果唔合理, 打橫黎講, 有佢講無人講, 咁又點可能會聽呢.....
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-11 22:40
回復 52# sheep
奉子成婚? 我唔會用呢招啦一定!
我老公個老豆老媽子都發神經架, 佢地話wor, 趁我老豆阿娘仲後生, 可以幫我湊, 佢地2個年紀大wor~ 但就叫我生個B俾佢地2個玩wor! 聽講, 我老豆係細過佢老豆, 一年咁多囉~ 但佢老媽子好似細我阿娘幾年囉~
嘩~ 咁不負責任嘅說話都講得出! 生個B出黎俾佢地玩! 玩? 唔是呀~ 而且, 佢地就玩, 但就話要我老豆阿娘湊~ 呢D係咪人講嘅說話黎架!
作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-1-12 00:09
回復 sheep
奉子成婚? 我唔會用呢招啦一定!
我老公個老豆老媽子都發神經架, 佢地話wor, 趁我老豆阿娘 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-11 22:40
欲加之罪....
有無想過其實人地係講下笑...
之前仲話教到人地呀媽都識對付人地老豆
哇﹐巧威威呀。分化到人地成家孤立人地老豆。
你贏o西啦
一句忠告﹐大部份中國傳統男人係唔會中意一個太過好勝o既女人
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-12 12:46
回復 61# chunsh
人家講真講笑我唔會唔知道, 如果我咁容易分化到佢屋企, 咁應該係我問題定佢地問題呢.....
如果佢老豆當初對我好, 我又點會咁.... 你估真係淨係結婚單野就可以搞到咁? 唔好天真啦~
人人都有阿媽生, 我屋企人點對我老公同我老公個老豆點對我, 我老公自己知道, 連佢阿媽都知道, 針唔吉到肉係唔知痛架!
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-12 14:06
回復 reyes
一個無謀生能力, 讀書唔多, 唔識英文, 唔曉開車, 乜都靠老公嘅女人.... 簡單講句, 就係"一腳 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-11 22:29
呢D老婆好多男人都鐘意喎, 夠聽話
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-12 14:08
回復 reyes
就咁, 如果合理, 點解唔聽呢, 相反, 如果唔合理, 打橫黎講, 有佢講無人講, 咁又點可能會聽 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-11 22:32
打橫黎講係一般長老既權利
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-12 14:09
回復 chunsh
人家講真講笑我唔會唔知道, 如果我咁容易分化到佢屋企, 咁應該係我問題定佢地問題呢..... ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-12 12:46
要唔要講句真係難為了蕉蕉
作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-1-12 14:13
回復 chunsh
人家講真講笑我唔會唔知道, 如果我咁容易分化到佢屋企, 咁應該係我問題定佢地問題呢..... ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-12 12:46
actually can u just ignore your husband's dad?
佢老豆對你唔好﹐咪唔好Q採佢o羅. 有你無佢﹐有佢無你
始終係人地老豆﹐對左幾十年﹐供書教學....
作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-1-12 14:15
呢D老婆好多男人都鐘意喎, 夠聽話
reyes 發表於 2013-1-12 14:06
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作者: lo_pak 時間: 2013-1-12 21:27
本帖最後由 lo_pak 於 2013-1-12 21:29 編輯
回復 63# reyes
對老公唯唯諾諾，呢啲老婆通常都教唔好仔女…大部份仔女都會變叉燒……
作者: sheep 時間: 2013-1-12 23:01
回復 sheep
奉子成婚? 我唔會用呢招啦一定!
我老公個老豆老媽子都發神經架, 佢地話wor, 趁我老豆阿娘 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-11 22:40
你用佢個仔去玩佢
佢咪要你俾番你個仔佢玩下囉
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-13 01:24
回復 reyes
對老公唯唯諾諾，呢啲老婆通常都教唔好仔女…大部份仔女都會變叉燒…… ...
lo_pak 發表於 2013-1-12 21:27
教唔教好仔女對某D男黎講唔緊要, 最緊要夠聽話, 咁先可以對班friend 有面
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-13 02:25
回復 66# chunsh
不如問你一個問題吖，如果你帶個女朋友第一次返屋企食飯，你阿媽筆湯過你老豆，但唔覺意筆得滿咗DD，跟住你老豆就算有外人(你女友)响度，居然用粗口片你阿媽，仲要片足成餐飯，但原來你阿媽有冇做錯嘢都好 ，响街定喺屋企，總之唔feel like 就揾粗口片你阿媽，你覺得你老豆會對你女友(或者老婆)可以有幾好呢！
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-13 02:35
回復 65# reyes
咁又唔算難為，我從來都係遇强越强㗎啦！道理在我手，我怕咩呀！我仲可以笑住同佢食飯，幾憎佢幾唔妥佢幾睇佢唔起我都唔會no show，我唔會俾任何把柄佢揸手嘅！
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-13 02:42
回復 66# chunsh
咁又唔得噃！我唔會令自己老公難做，咁咪即係揾自己笨同自己過唔去！而且，咁就唔會有把柄俾佢老豆揸手，佢老豆就點都入唔到我啦！我唔係好醒，但同佢老豆玩心理戰，我都綽綽有餘！
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-13 03:07
回復 chunsh
不如問你一個問題吖，如果你帶個女朋友第一次返屋企食飯，你阿媽筆湯過你老豆，但唔覺意 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-13 02:25
咁有D老豆對家人一個樣, 外人(女朋友)又一個樣, 所以入門後就對你(老婆)好似對家人就既樣
佢可以話, 我當你自己人先表露真我, 俾你warm up 下
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-13 03:09
回復 reyes
咁又唔算難為，我從來都係遇强越强㗎啦！道理在我手，我怕咩呀！我仲可以笑住同佢食飯，幾 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-13 02:35
夠guts呀, 有冇好似你性格既女子介紹下
作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-1-13 03:15
回復 chunsh
不如問你一個問題吖，如果你帶個女朋友第一次返屋企食飯，你阿媽筆湯過你老豆，但唔覺意 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-13 02:25
佢用粗口鬧你?
作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-1-13 03:17
回復 chunsh
咁又唔得噃！我唔會令自己老公難做，咁咪即係揾自己笨同自己過唔去！而且，咁就唔會有把 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-13 02:42
你認為令到你奶奶都幫你對付佢老公﹐ 你老公會唔難做?
作者: lo_pak 時間: 2013-1-13 11:35
回復 75# reyes
Reyes 兄，馴悍記唔係人人都啱，make sure 你個心臟可以長期頂得順……
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-13 17:55
回復 76# chunsh
我有幾辣佢領教過架喇~ 我呢D讀過書嘅人, 點會俾D咁嘅人咁容易開到口鬧我吖~
我可以調教到我老公咁貼貼服服, 佢都知道我唔容易對付啦!
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-13 18:03
回復 77# chunsh
查實好簡單咋嘛, 係人都曉啦!
D人係咁用粗口片人, 其實係想draw 所有人嘅attention 咋嘛, (well, at least 我老公個老豆係啦!) 你只要全部人行開, 擰歪面, 唔show 佢, 佢好快就收聲啦! 對佢真係萬試萬寧架! 駛乜同佢一般見識, 大大聲响度互片呀~ 呢D自己拿來丟架嘅事我係唔會做架! 要丟臉要肉酸就等佢自己一個人丟飽佢囉~ 响街遇到佢發神經, 我立刻彈開扮唔識架! 不過, 我都好少同佢地個家人一齊去街....
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-13 18:04
回復 74# reyes
如果我老豆咁樣片我阿娘, 我一腳伸死佢都似! 不過, 我一定唔會! 因為我老豆係個有家教嘅小朋友黎嘅!
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-13 18:06
回復 75# reyes
你唔好添呀~ 我呢D人, 肯定激死你!
哈哈哈哈哈~ 
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-13 18:13
回復 78# lo_pak
哈哈~
即係咁, 一樣米養百樣人, 你估人人都係咁野蠻, 有佢講無人講, 大大聲就代表一定佢o岩晒, 認為所有女人都係要俾男人騎住來hub 咩~
所以...... 當我唔好彩, 亦當我老公個老豆比我更唔好彩囉~ 遇著我呢個新抱....
哈哈哈哈哈~
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-13 18:51
回復 reyes
Reyes 兄，馴悍記唔係人人都啱，make sure 你個心臟可以長期頂得順…… ...
lo_pak 發表於 2013-1-13 11:35
大前提係2個都冧大家, 好多女士對家公/婆唔好但對佢老公又唔錯
唔一齊住可能會少D心臟刺激
作者: reyes 時間: 2013-1-13 19:02
回復 reyes
你唔好添呀~ 我呢D人, 肯定激死你!
哈哈哈哈哈~
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-13 18:06
我家兩個有家教既年青人, 應該唔會郁d都粗口四飛
作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2013-1-13 21:15
回復 chunsh
人家講真講笑我唔會唔知道, 如果我咁容易分化到佢屋企, 咁應該係我問題定佢地問題呢..... ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-13 04:46
家家有本難念的經, 蕉蕉蕉, 小弟支持你~
作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2013-1-13 21:21
回復 reyes
咁又唔算難為，我從來都係遇强越强㗎啦！道理在我手，我怕咩呀！我仲可以笑住同佢食飯，幾 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-13 18:35
做人做到咁大壓力仲乜鬼丫...
皮笑肉不笑? 同親人食飯都好似搞辦公室政治咁, 太辛苦, 唔適合小弟既STYLE.
我同外母都間唔中有兩句, 但爆完之後大家都會化干戈為玉帛架~
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-13 22:24
回復 86# mcjohnjohn
感謝你呀~ 莊莊兄~ 
作者: jiujiujiu 時間: 2013-1-13 22:25
回復 87# mcjohnjohn
所以, 如非必要, 大家都唔會見面架!
作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-1-13 23:09
[youtube]HRQBpi8YaWw[/youtube]
作者: chobit 時間: 2013-1-14 09:09
Same thing here wor!!
做人做到咁大壓力仲乜鬼丫...
皮笑肉不笑? 同親人食飯都好似搞辦公室政治咁, 太辛苦, 唔適合小弟既STYL ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2013-1-13 21:21
作者: chobit 時間: 2013-1-14 10:37
I really like this =D
chunsh 發表於 2013-1-13 23:09
作者: fibbi 時間: 2013-1-14 11:47
回復 90# chunsh
Great standup comedy.
相處之道，不外乎你就下我，我就下你。女仔講嘢溫柔啲婉轉啲無錯，不過啲男仔都唔可以take it for granted。
作者: fibbi 時間: 2013-1-14 11:51
回復 chunsh
不如問你一個問題吖，如果你帶個女朋友第一次返屋企食飯，你阿媽筆湯過你老豆，但唔覺意 ...
jiujiujiu 發表於 2013-1-13 02:25
難為了蕉蕉。。。
如果係我，我會覺得少見為妙。。。同埋認真睇吓個男友會唔會遺傳到呢啲性格。始終喺個咁嘅家庭長大，唔知會唔會有影響。
作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-1-14 13:47
回復 chunsh
Great standup comedy.
相處之道，不外乎你就下我，我就下你。女仔講嘢溫柔啲婉轉啲 ...
fibbi 發表於 2013-1-14 11:47
yes, of course I know. but BASED ON WHAT WE KNOW here, sounds like she is trying to play politics or small circles on her husband's family after she married to her husband.
You know, no matter how bad his parents are, those are the ones who gave birth and raise her husband. More importantly, no matter how bad manner does her father in-law has, thats the way THEIR family go for all the years. What right does she has to try to change other people's family culture to hers.
Damn, "princess" nowadays only get along with their own parents and dislike/lookdown to their hubby/bf families. Just wtf wrong with them? (go reading the section of those hk forums about marriage problem, u can see many cases)
I think, if she doesn't like her father-in-law, just explain to her husband, and avoid her father-in-law as best as possible, not "intrude" other people's family
作者: fibbi 時間: 2013-1-14 14:15
回復 95# chunsh
Well, from what I sense from her posts, she may encounter some situation where FIL kinda confront/offend her directly? (not that she see FIL is bad to MIL then she reacts).
And yes I would agree if it's just their family business I wouldn't react unless FIL directly insults or do something bad to ME. Other than that just stay out (or not meet) as much as possible.
作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-1-14 14:20
回復 chunsh
Well, from what I sense from her posts, she may encounter some situation where F ...
fibbi 發表於 2013-1-14 14:15
yes, if in case she got direct insult verbally or something, doing it in the old school way: if possible, let both of their parents handle it, not starting a fight in her hubby's family. cos trying to starting this family politics in your other half family will do no good to ANYONE.
or, if her FIL insult her verbally, she should tell her FIL, in a mature way, that this offended her and ask her FIL to stop. If her FIL refuse, avoiding all family parties is actually an appropriate choice.
Again, we dont know the whole story, so....
作者: fibbi 時間: 2013-1-14 14:25
家家有本難念的經啦。
But for the "old school" way you mention that involved both side parents, I'd rather not trouble my own parents la...
Imagine, then my parents will be mad about my husband (so as their parents, and then upset about me marrying to such a "family"...) I'd rather handle it within us(me+husband).
作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-1-14 14:28
家家有本難念的經啦。
But for the "old school" way you mention that involved both side parents, I'd r ...
fibbi 發表於 2013-1-14 14:25
second thought....you are right
作者: fibbi 時間: 2013-1-14 14:31
回復 99# chunsh
again, if the in-law family did something "bad" to me, I do expect husband to kinda "protect" me on the spot or do something, at least not completely quiet.
Then later on just avoid family gathering.
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