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作者: rainbow-davie 時間: 2009-6-14 14:17 標題: 你還愛你的EX嗎?

作者: Hyde 時間: 2009-6-14 16:49

yes... but she hates me

作者: clearance 時間: 2009-6-14 17:51

只愛眼前人, 不再愛舊情人

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2009-6-14 18:11

劍客問楚留香：你還愛你班 EX 嗎？
楚答：先生，你認錯人。小弟坐流香。

作者: 匿名 時間: 2009-6-14 23:26

愛...又可以怎樣....?

每次見佢facebook update同女朋友影既相我都好心痛....

試過用盡辦法忘記佢但都唔成功, 個心不其然諗起佢.....

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-6-14 23:40

So generally, people who are still thinking about the ex are currently single, or have a current bf/gf but just feel like loving the ex more?

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2009-6-14 23:41

心病還須心藥醫。盛惠診金五十大兩。櫃面比。

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-6-14 23:43

愛...又可以怎樣....?

每次見佢facebook update同女朋友影既相我都好心痛....

試過用盡辦法忘記佢但都唔成功, 個心不其然諗起佢.....
Anonymous 發表於 2009-6-14 23:26

He has already moving on for his new life, so as you can move on too. You may delete his facebook account (maybe you don't want to), try not to know his recent activities.

作者: Hyde 時間: 2009-6-15 01:18

i like to show off my current gf(s) to my ex
HAHAHHAAHAHA

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-6-15 01:58

He has already moving on for his new life, so as you can move on too. You may delete his facebook account (maybe you don't want to), try not to know his recent activities.
Ultraman 發表於 2009-6-15 15:43

係law, delete 左佢就一了百了啦~

作者: Caffie 時間: 2009-6-15 02:34

I still love him and I miss him a lot.. it will take some time...

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-6-15 07:54

愛﹐太沉重了。。。想念倒是有的

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-6-15 09:31

of course not. I hardly even think of her since that was like 7-8 years ago...

作者: low_B 時間: 2009-6-15 09:44

愛﹐太沉重了。。。想念倒是有的
Littleprince 發表於 15-6-2009 07:54

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-6-15 09:57

愛﹐太沉重了。。。想念倒是有的
Littleprince 發表於 2009-6-15 07:54

Oops..... I thought you've married wor?!

作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-6-15 10:11

我比較幸運~ 感情算是一帆風順~

作者: shutterbug 時間: 2009-6-15 11:09

i like to show off my current gf(s) to my ex
HAHAHHAAHAHA
Hyde 發表於 2009-6-15 02:18

that's the action of a low self esteem person...LOL

作者: shutterbug 時間: 2009-6-15 11:11

愛...又可以怎樣....?

每次見佢facebook update同女朋友影既相我都好心痛....

試過用盡辦法忘記佢但都唔成功, 個心不其然諗起佢.....
Anonymous 發表於 2009-6-15 00:26

time will ease the pain...move on with your life and get a boyfriend la

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-6-15 11:37

Oops..... I thought you've married wor?!
Ultraman 發表於 2009-6-15 10:57

so? cannot 想念 somebody after married???

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-6-15 11:51

so? cannot 想念 somebody after married???
Littleprince 發表於 2009-6-15 11:37

Tell your husband that you still miss and always think of your ex-bf, see what he would say.

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-6-15 12:00

Tell your husband that you still miss and always think of your ex-bf, see what he would say.
Ultraman 發表於 2009-6-15 12:51

you need to study some more Chinese....

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-6-15 12:01

想念 and 想 are somewhat different.....

Chinese is complicated...

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-6-15 12:08

you need to study some more Chinese....
Littleprince 發表於 2009-6-15 12:00

想念:
1.to cherish the memory of; to miss the presence of

想:
1.to think; to think about; to think of; to think over
2.to suppose; to reckon
3.would like to
4.to remember with longing

I used both "miss" and "think of" for whichever case your situation is already. Maybe it's you who used the wrong Chinese phrase in the first place.

作者: Yui 時間: 2009-6-15 12:37

i like to show off my current gf(s) to my ex
HAHAHHAAHAHA
Hyde 發表於 2009-6-15 02:18

甘無聊? 做你d女朋友真正可憐.

每當我想起我既ex,我會更加慶幸我遇到我老公.

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2009-6-15 15:38

果個超人先生好明顯有啲大男人主意。im not saying that he is bad. without people like him. there will never be families and structure. 一夫一妻制嘛。法律係咁寫嘅。你仲掛住以前果個，留喺我身邊托牙。but then i have my freedom of thought. 如果做你條仔／女，要我洗腦，no way. 挑。諗都有罪咩。又無take action. 不過諗諗吓可能真係會去做。趁後生丫嗎。並非本人立場。

作者: tequila 時間: 2009-6-15 17:00

don't think abt my ex, hate my ex, wish he would disappear in this world and leave me alone!

作者: ACooperFan 時間: 2009-6-15 20:07

愛﹐太沉重了。。。想念倒是有的

x3

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-6-15 20:16

果個超人先生好明顯有啲大男人主意。im not saying that he is bad. without people like him. there will never be families and structure. 一夫一妻制嘛。法律係咁寫嘅。你仲掛住以前果個，留喺我身邊托牙。but t ...
playingtoy 發表於 2009-6-15 15:38

Before you made this comment, maybe I should declare my thought applies to both genders.
Maybe, you are a man/woman who "allows" your wife/husband misses and thinks of other guys/gals and feel no problem. I have absolutely no bias on either gender at all, just according to my own experience and from many of male and female friends I know, they won't be happy with that.

作者: cinderelly 時間: 2009-6-15 22:10

love my bf and only him =D hasn't changed for the past 6+ years <3

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2009-6-15 22:19

6# Ultraman
Can't forget the time when I watched Brigitte Lin's debut movie with my first love,
back in 1972.
Sharing Iced tea and Mini Egg Tartlets in Central, went to the Book Fairs etc. Almost
40 years ago.
I cherish my family, but it is totally different type of love.

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-6-15 22:43

you need to study some more Chinese....
Littleprince 發表於 2009-6-16 04:00

你認罪把啦... 反抗Ultraman係唔會有好結果的...

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2009-6-15 22:52

Before you made this comment, maybe I should declare my thought applies to both genders.
Maybe, you are a man/woman who "allows" your wife/husband misses and thinks of other guys/gals and feel no pr ...
Ultraman 發表於 2009-6-15 21:16

認同。
咁我新黎架嘛。梗係要搵啲超人黎講吓野。我咪講明：並非本人臘腸囉。

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-6-15 22:59

30# somewheretintime & 32# playingtoy
I know there are people who are still missing their ex(es), of course I'm not surprised with that. My thought is, if this "hidden passion" (rather to say it's "hidden love") is deep inside you (a general you), would you be frank to tell your other half about that? If so, and your other half accepts and feel no problem, that's not an issue at all. But if you dare not to tell so, that means you know yourself is doing something wrong inside, just you don't want to admit and face.

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-6-15 23:01

你認罪把啦... 反抗Ultraman係唔會有好結果的...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-6-15 22:43

Oh come on! Do I appear that evil?
Well, maybe people think I'm "scary" cuz my points usually are too strong and valid! Kakaka............

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2009-6-15 23:12

30# somewheretintime & 32# playingtoy
I know there are people who are still missing their ex(es), of course I'm not surprised with that. My thought is, if this "hidden passion" (rather to say it's "hi ...
Ultraman 發表於 2009-6-15 22:59 [url=http://www.loyaukee.com/forum/redirect.php?goage, to=findpost&pid=108414&ptid=8696][/url]

Hey, at my age, it is impossible to claim that I only fell in love once.
Everyone has his or her past, courtship is like a book: I closed one chapter and
start a new one; I do not think it is wrong.
I know my wife's ex-boyfriends, it does not seem to bother me a bit. Maybe I'm
just older and more mature. We are going to celebrate 25th anniversary in January,
we have had fights overtimes, but never with 3rd. party involved.

作者: tofu 時間: 2009-6-15 23:24

愛﹐太沉重了。。。想念倒是有的
x4

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-6-15 23:28

Hey, at my age, it is impossible to claim that I only fell in love once.
Everyone has his or her past, courtship is like a book: I closed one chapter and
start a new one; I do not think it is wrong.
...
somewhereintime 發表於 2009-6-15 23:12

Did you make yourself clear enough?
Of course, I'm not talking about one has no past ex at all. The point is, you have ex, I have ex, but you are still "missing" and "thinking of" your ex, I am not. It's the "missing" and "thinking of" part that might upset your other half, not the history itself.

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-6-15 23:45

Oh come on! Do I appear that evil?
Well, maybe people think I'm "scary" cuz my points usually are too strong and valid! Kakaka............
Ultraman 發表於 2009-6-16 15:01

你唔係唔知道我地呢d 升斗市民, 又點夠Ultraman 大人鬥正氣呢?
唉, 唔好咁緊張d 字眼啦~ 反正小弟覺得你一定明白小王妹佢講緊乜~

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-6-15 23:47

Hey, at my age, it is impossible to claim that I only fell in love once.
Everyone has his or her past, courtship is like a book: I closed one chapter and
start a new one; I do not think it is wrong.
I know my wife's ex-boyfriends, it does not seem to bother me a bit. Maybe I'm
just older and more mature. We are going to celebrate 25th anniversary in January,
we have had fights overtimes, but never with 3rd. party involved.
somewhereintime 發表於 2009-6-16 15:12

25 年係唔係"銀婚"?
小弟衷心預祝somewhereintime 同你太太銀婚快樂! 白頭到老, 永結同心~

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2009-6-15 23:50

39# mcjohnjohn
It takes standing and understanding to make a marriage work.
I wish you the same.

作者: tofu 時間: 2009-6-15 23:55

how often do you guy/girl allow your other half thinking/missing/想念 his/her ex?

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-6-16 00:01

39# mcjohnjohn
It takes standing and understanding to make a marriage work.
I wish you the same.
somewhereintime 發表於 2009-6-16 15:50

somewhereintime, 呢樣小弟真係一d 都唔擔心, 因為我同我老婆都真係好愛對方架~
我只係怕自己冇咁長命乍. 不如你祝下我地長命百歲啦~

(小弟真面皮厚, 要人祝賀我. 呵呵~)

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-6-16 00:01

how often do you guy/girl allow your other half thinking/missing/想念 his/her ex?
tofu 發表於 2009-6-16 15:55

你係唔係問Ultraman呀?

作者: 老友四號 時間: 2009-6-16 00:04

還君明珠双淚垂；恨不相逢未嫁時。

此情可待成追憶；祇是當時已惘然。

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2009-6-16 00:05

how often do you guy/girl allow your other half thinking/missing/想念 his/her ex?
tofu 發表於 2009-6-16 00:55

咁。我可能要買番部測謊機。might as well run a CT scan. see if there are any EX's images in his/her brain.

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-6-16 00:08

還君明珠双淚垂；恨不相逢未嫁時。

此情可待成追憶；祇是當時已惘然。
老友四號發表於 2009-6-16 16:04

好一個痴情老四~

作者: 老友四號 時間: 2009-6-16 00:16

敢問世上鐵漢子；誰沒有傷心往事，

情之為物有誰知；誤盡一生是情痴。

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2009-6-16 00:17

還君明珠双淚垂；恨不相逢未嫁時。

此情可待成追憶；祇是當時已惘然。
老友四號發表於 2009-6-16 00:04

I was a Lowly Restaurant Chef while she was a Master of Commerce.
It was our fate that we would not be a perfect match.

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-6-16 00:18

I was a Lowly Restaurant Chef while she was a Master of Commerce.
It was our fate that we would not be a perfect match.
somewhereintime 發表於 2009-6-16 16:17

唔係woh, 你咁有才華, 我覺得okay 丫~
不過, 都過去左, 小弟應該講"你同佢唔夾架喇!"

作者: 老友四號 時間: 2009-6-16 00:19

I was a Lowly Restaurant Chef while she was a Master of Commerce.
It was our fate that we would not be a perfect match.
somewhereintime 發表於 2009-6-16 01:17

敢問世上鐵漢子；誰沒有傷心往事，

情之為物有誰知；誤盡一生是情痴。

作者: tofu 時間: 2009-6-16 00:21

how often do you guy/girl allow your other half thinking/missing/想念 his/her ex?
tofu 發表於 2009-6-16 15:55
你係唔係問Ultraman呀?

no ar, i just try to ask everyone and get a general idea.
i don't know guys, but girls usually can feel it, if her half is thinking of someone else, no matter he says it out or not.

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2009-6-16 00:53

唉。又係一夫一妻制。我訓覺喇。

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-6-16 01:34

你係唔係問Ultraman呀?
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-6-16 00:01

How come?! If you follow my words clearly, you should know I am the type who don't buy missing and/or thinking of any ex is rightful and loyal to the current other half.

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-6-16 01:36

好一個痴情老四~
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-6-16 00:08

Yeah, he is 痴情. However, not to his current wife but one of his ex!

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-6-16 01:46

Yeah, he is 痴情. However, not to his current wife but one of his ex!
Ultraman 發表於 2009-6-16 17:36

in my understanding, it should be "all of his ex"...

作者: 老友四號 時間: 2009-6-16 07:38

吓！諗吓都唔得呀！？思想拑制！！

咁咪变咗爱情共產党！

抗议！抗议！抗议旡爱情思想自由！！

全世界多情麻甩联合起來进行爱情文化大革命！

多情旡罪，想爱有理！

怀会旧爱更有理！万岁！万岁！万万岁!!!!!!!

作者: sheep 時間: 2009-6-16 09:08

16# 小叻

once?

作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-6-16 09:48

57# sheep
係呀~once...(男友同我一樣) 我地既愛情係平平淡淡~~ 無乜起落~日日都係一齊番工一齊食飯一齊行街一齊打機 (完全無電視劇既劇情) 我諗平凡是福掛~~heeheee.. 我都唔想受D咩刺激~

作者: sheep 時間: 2009-6-16 10:32

58# 小叻

sssssssssssssssssssssssssssweet

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2009-6-16 11:51

59# sheep

Hey Mr. Sheep, you never tell us about yourself

作者: ACooperFan 時間: 2009-6-16 19:59

老友四號真好文采!!

作者: 老友四號 時間: 2009-6-16 21:53

61# ACooperFan

你咁讚老夫！老夫會囂張架！

作者: skaterwaye 時間: 2009-6-17 14:37

Can't say still "love" them, i gusse is more like "miss" them

作者: yomiko088 時間: 2009-6-23 08:18

haven't been here for a long time. let me leave a note too.
I know it hurts when somebody ends a relationship. And many people around says, let's move on, you can find a better one. I have said something similar before. However, human is an emotional animal. How could you forget your ex? He/she was somebody closed to you before... How would you forget the time you spent with your ex? And what will you do when you "miss" him? Even if you drive away your attention, you will eventually think of him/her when your brain is free, or when you suddenly see something that driggers your mind to think about your ex... Pail will heal when time pass.. however, nobody knows how long would it take...

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-6-23 10:00

Base on "love", you have the "right" to "miss" your ex(es), as many as you like, provided that you are still single. If you're still missing someone, always have someone on your mind, don't even try to start a new relationship, that's not fair to the other party, not to say to get married with someone tim la. However, some people get into a relationship or get married not because of love, that's different stories.
(Note: all "you" above is a general "you".)

作者: yayaya 時間: 2009-6-23 10:13

444444444444

作者: sheep 時間: 2009-6-23 10:15

60# somewhereintime

A glass of distiled water

作者: Nam 時間: 2009-6-23 12:11

After I throw away the three thick diary, I'm compleletly disconnect with the previous love life.

I don't miss or love my ex(s) anymore. Depends on the situation or person, I still think of them but not as a lover but as an old friend. Once in a blue moon, I still go out for lunch w/ one of my ex. He apologized to me after so many years, and our friendship rebuilt lor.

After meeting my current bf, I just want to be with him forever and not looking for backup.

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2009-6-23 12:15

本帖最後由 somewhereintime 於 2009-6-23 12:17 編輯

67# sheep
Watson's brand?
C'mon, surely you have lot's stories to tell, if you want to

作者: Bikki 時間: 2009-7-19 22:56

so ur current one is ur 1st one too?

我比較幸運~ 感情算是一帆風順~
小叻發表於 2009-6-15 11:11

作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-7-20 10:15

so ur current one is ur 1st one too?

Bikki 發表於 19-7-2009 22:56

係呀~ I am also my bf's first gf too~

作者: Bikki 時間: 2009-7-21 09:41

such a lucky couple..

係呀~ I am also my bf's first gf too~
小叻發表於 2009-7-20 11:15

作者: Hyde 時間: 2009-7-21 12:17

i still miss my previous ex.... she is just way too cute

but i hate all my other ex lol

作者: CWong 時間: 2009-7-21 12:30

本帖最後由 CWong 於 2009-7-21 12:36 編輯

愛﹐太沉重了。。。想念倒是有的
Littleprince 發表於 15/6/2009 07:54

X4++

作者: CWong 時間: 2009-7-21 12:38

我觉得同超人恋愛会好慘，因为佢不解温柔！

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-7-21 14:38

我觉得同超人恋愛会好慘，因为佢不解温柔！
CWong 發表於 2009-7-21 13:38

超人太理性了。。。電影中的超人好似不是這樣的﹐比較溫柔的喲

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-7-21 14:39

愛...又可以怎樣....?

每次見佢facebook update同女朋友影既相我都好心痛....

試過用盡辦法忘記佢但都唔成功, 個心不其然諗起佢.....
Anonymous 發表於 2009-6-15 00:26

真要忘記﹐就連他的 FB 都不要看呀

作者: J.J. 時間: 2009-7-22 17:16

超人!? Who is Clark??

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-7-22 17:59

超人太理性了。。。電影中的超人好似不是這樣的﹐比較溫柔的喲
Littleprince 發表於 2009-7-22 06:38

電影中的超人? 係唔係著條紅色底褲果個?

LYK"超人"係日本超人呀! 打完怪獸就會默默地飛走的, 一d 都唔覺得佢溫柔.

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-7-22 18:39

電影中的超人? 係唔係著條紅色底褲果個?
LYK"超人"係日本超人呀! 打完怪獸就會默默地飛走的, 一d 都唔覺得佢溫柔.
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-7-22 18:59

係呀﹐我說的是那個靚仔的﹐不是矇住塊面的那位﹐嘻嘻~~~
(慘。。。原來好多超人

)

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-12-26 22:22

I thought Littleprince came back...

作者: samsung 時間: 2009-12-26 23:59

I thought Littleprince came back...
myversa 發表於 2009-12-26 23:22

sigh... so you missed you so badly?

作者: myversa 時間: 2010-5-3 13:25

sigh... so you missed you so badly?
samsung 發表於 2009-12-26 23:59

I missed me?

作者: Guy 時間: 2010-5-3 18:33

My ex's went triumph. me no care

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