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原帖由 doraemon1002 於 2008-1-14 14:13 發表

I lost 10 lbs for just a week. Breaking up is really a good way to lose weight!

Do we really need to learn from pain, in order to know how to treasure a relationship?

Sometimes i am just so confuse ...

Maybe your ex does not want to understand/cherish/need a relationship. Maybe their mind is thinking, "Plenty of other fish in the sea, why choose you and burden myself?"... Tell her your situation but let it be her choice to come back because it'd be like someone being obligated to come back.

Move forward... do something that you enjoy.... something that makes you forget the world... There's plenty of hope out there for everyone including you... ride out the bumps, smile through the hardship... if you need help, ask friends... they will be important as to how you can ride out the bumps.

Even I thought there was no hope for me, but out of the blue, a wonderful person came into my life... we share similar backgrounds from how we've come to where we're at, we share both kindness to each other and friends... for us, it's been a really positive synergy that's been created I think... hopefully this will be it.

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原帖由 LOK 於 2008-1-15 10:51 發表
seriously, more $$$ does NOT = happier...  

Agree x9999999999999999999999999999999999

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Find your friend and go out do something where you only laugh

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Doraemon... come on... get your head up high and only look forward. She's behind you... stop looking into the rear view mirror because all you will do if you keep looking the mirror is a big bump to the head as you keep moving forward. She's obviously moved on... so should you.

Life is full of up's and down's ... but it's too short.. I know it's hard to get over it.. you'll feel like crap... but from what I've been through and how I've beaten.. basically at the brink of clinical depression is to keep looking forward, laugh, keep in close contact with friends.. and ask them for their support and get you out of the house doing something... your key to a quick recover I think is your friends and family. I'm sure they'd be more than happy to drag you out and have some good ol' fashion F U N.