13 week pregnant week, pregnant

pepsis2

I just found out I'm pregnant & now feel so helpless.... although my partner is very very supportive & I'm now staying at home as a housewife. The "luxurious" time I get just make me have more time to "thinking too much" .. so afraid ar....

afraid of "PAIN OF BIRTH"
afraid of "FINANCIAL DEPENDANT ON MAN"
afraid of "CAN'T TAKE CARE THE CHILD"
afraid of "MISCARRY & BB BORN WITH DEFEAT"

aii.....

pepsis2

oh... i'm in my mid 20's & prepared to get married w/ my partner who looks after me all the time...  we have been living together for 2 years now & just bought our own house.....i know he's a good husband & will be a good father.. it's just the matter of fact that this prenancy is not expected.... so SHOOOOOCKING! since we have no "長輩"  in the city we're living..  we only depend on each other for all things...

sometimes I feel like I'm gonna break out soon...

pepsis2

thx alot for all of your advices... I really appreciate your help
I'm now less worried... Just need some cheer up from others

thx thx thx ^*^

pepsis2

Oh Thx! I'm now 17 weeks & I can feel the baby's heartbeat! it's soooo cute! I also got married last week with my hun... I feel so lucky to marry him & have the baby soon (well, the end of October is still 5 months to go)...

For all the moms & moms to be, let me show you some awesome pix of baby in the womb:

http://www.pregnancy.org/pregnancy/fetaldevelopment2.php

pepsis2

Mom may come for the "sitting month" (dunno how to translate)...
Hun probably will take 2 weeks off if possible (coz his position is tough to replace... his boss pays him to come all the way from Van to Tor to do this... u can imagine)... but since he starts working very early in the morning so comes home early.. so it should be fine...

actually i really try my best to stay positive.. since now only my hun is working (although he makes enough $ to support family), I'm always worried about $$$ .. esp after BB is born .. dunno how much it will cost to raise a infant...

Anyone knows how much approximately??? if u don't mind, would u guys break down the cost like diapers, formula (i will breastfeed but ppl say it's hard to breastfeed all the time.. so u need formula stand by), or just buying things for BB nursary room... which items are neccessary & which items are just for FUN?

THX in advance if anyone can provide me some info!

pepsis2

wow! thx for all of your sharing...
Just wonder anyone use cloth diapers for their baby? my mom really wants me to use cloth diapers.. more eco friendly bor (if u dun use the dryer to dry them)

pepsis2

wow... sound lots of works..  i'm not keen on doing the cloth diaper thing exclusively... i think i'll use the disposable one for the first month.. wait after a pattern is more stable (for BB)..then try to use it when i know BB won't poo poo on that... i mean.. i can wash pee pee one.. not the poo poo one...