Guy

Okay...
I am not sure if you actually feel comfortable to ask in the first place.
But you need self-esteem and confidence at minimum.

If you are good with that, here is the things you need to look at yourself for you date.

>When you going for dinner, you will need to make conversations. Without an exciting topic, your date can be over as soon as you leave the restaurant.
>When you going for a movie, you will not need to talk much. HOWEVER, movie will often lead to a drink or a meal afterward. But since you went to see a movie, you both have a common topic to make conversation with (So, pay attention to the movie).

as for a place for food....ask your partner ahead (assume you are the guy) and see what she doesn't like. then you can go to sites like chowtimes.com or urbanspoon **look at their reviews** to sort out the places. (note: make up your mind of where to go and bring her when she can't decide)

Bring a checklist of restaurant with you if you have to
she will appreciate you make the effort to the date.


Do not bother to change you personality...it doesn't help.. in this short period of time

Guy

haha I know >.
et1984 發表於 2010-10-19 19:27

Yup.. my high school buddies are in a group alright.
but none of the girls in the group want to go out in any boys in the group.

Guy

Just have confident in yourself. If guy doesn't have confident , how can the girl has confident in y ...
fibbi 發表於 2010-10-21 22:50

Self esteem and confidence.

et1984.. are you ready for it yet?
or you have no target in sight and just daydreaming about it?

Guy

you already had relationships? then why it is so hard for you this time?

you want to know her more than you gotta ask her out..
otherwise you cant know her more.