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I am not really taking sides but I think unless you really experience it, it's hard to judge. I am not agreeing or disagreeing with how OP handles her family issues. It's just a way she choose to do. It may work for her this way and not for yourself in similar situation.

同埋每個家庭都一定有＂難頂＂嘅成員，正所謂家家有本難唸的經，但係我相信性格改變命運。當你包容到身邊嘅人，用心去對佢哋又唔係要有回報的話，人心肉做，我覺得冇嘢話解決唔到。你重唔重視佢哋，有冇出盡力想佢哋好，日子係可以證明。

I thought this only happen in HK TV drama. LOL

relationship is hard to be built one way. If the other side refused to accept your fav, it's pretty frustrating.
Some ppl are more lucky, some aren't so.