Ultraman

Then, may I ask how old are you, Traum? (You sounds like you're at 60's or something?! Preaching a little grand daughter.....haha) Don't young people deserve to have their feeling and expression? And no need to have bias on youngsters (or people younger than you), do you know some mid-age people (like 40's) still under control of their parents? We just don't know each individual family matter la.

Ultraman

To escape is always seem the easiest and simplest way to do in the first place. Yet, if I were you, Blue, I would ask: why all these happen on me like that? Why my mom (seems like) loves my brother more than me (provided that both of you are flowing the same blood)? Why my bro treats me like that but not as normal brother-sisterly love as others do? Is that all my fault, then what did I do to make them so mad at me? Or it's their problem that I don't understand? If you can't find out the answers today probably all the questions would become forever mystery for the rest of your life!

Yep, you can just move out this crap and live by yourself or with some friends. Would you be really happy with that? But when more and more friends leave you, eventually you'll feel lonely. Cuz motherly and brotherly love can't be replaced by friends! All you need is your mother and brother's love! Go find out the reason behind. It's not only about one birthday party, it's about your whole life!

Ultraman

Yes, I agree 有時有D 野真係無得解釋. But 或者係 favoritism, 又或者係重男輕女, 又或者係XXX...... . That mean we are only guessing (including Blue herself)! My point is, go find out the clear answer before to make any unsure, more hurtful, misunderstanding move lor! That only makes things worse and more miscommunicated. If the true answer is "favoritism" or "重男輕女", at least you know there is something unlikely to be changed. But how if there are some other possibly solvable reasons behind? Would you regret?