Should I keep pursuing this girl?

mattb

I will try to make this as concise as possible.

1. Met a girl from a not very close friend 2 weeks ago. Got her #

2. Called her up to hang out. When I called no on picked but she but calls back the next night. Agreed to hang out on Sunday.

3. I hanged out with her last Sunday for lunch then went to play a sport. She said that her friend was visting from seattle at that time so I was suprised she even came out
I took that as a good sign.

4. Called her on tuesday, this time no one answers again.  The next night (tonight), she calls again like clockwork.
This makes feels like shes playing games here. Why would she always call me back the next night and make me wait?
Shes obviously awake when I called her.

5. Blow water a bit then asked if she was free on the weekend. She said she was going clubbing and the night market on fri and sat. I asked if she was available to hang out on Sunday and she probably has to do some house chores.

Right now I take that as a subtle rejection. Obviously, you can schedule your time  around housechores. I guess she just wasn't interested in hanging out?

I have decided to either not contact her again or maybe at least not for a few weeks. What do you guys think?

[ 本帖最後由 mattb 於 2008-8-6 23:54 編輯 ]

mattb

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2008-8-7 11:16 發表
if she doesnt pick up only means she doesnt wanna talk to you, or she's busy. just because she calls back the next night, doesn't mean she is purposely making you wait. you feel like you're waiting be ...

Please learn to read. I never said there was anything "wrong" with her scheduling around her time to do housework. I was simply saying that this action suggests she is probably not interested (or interested enough) and I should no longer pursue her.

By the way, the person who needs to grow up is you.  Acting like a troll in a forum while posting anonymously won't get you far in life. Grow up, buddy.

mattb

原帖由 siuyudim 於 2008-8-7 01:44 發表
if she's interested, she'll call you. but if you don't receive a single text/sms in a week or two... there's your answer. good luck.

Yes that's right.  I think my decision is correct and it looks like most of you agree. (except the anonymous troll who likes to take cheap shots at other people)

mattb

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2008-8-7 22:53 發表

if there's nothing "wrong" then howcome you're complaining that you're NOT GETTING IMMEDIATE ATTENTION? face the fact you want her, & it's up to her discretion if you have a shot at it or not. a real man won't vent out over small crap like this online...thats what everyone expects in the progress of pursuing a chick. so obviously, you're either too young, or inexperienced at courtship. if you are so damn cocky about the annoymous thing, why make an ID online to post on a forum? comon dude...everyone on LYK is pretty much on the same boat buddy. if you had the guts, you woulda used your real name & used your own face as an avatar.

boy oh boy you really need to learn how to read..

Let me refute your arguments, point by point
"if there's nothing "wrong" then howcome you're complaining that you're NOT GETTING IMMEDIATE ATTENTION? face the fact you want her"
1. Read my post again. I wasn't complaining. Whether I was asking people here whether they agreed with my action. Oh , and right after I said I will not call her anymore, you still insist I wan her?

２。"it's up to her discretion if you have a shot at it or not. a real man won't vent out over small crap like this online...thats what everyone expects in the progress of pursuing a chick. so obviously, you're either too young, or inexperienced at courtship.〞
Ａ real man won't post anonymously and talk trash. Wait, I guess I am such a "noob" in relationship that I managed to get a girl's number the first time I met her, asked her out to hang out 1v1 with me, and gave her a back massage on our first meeting? Wow, I don't know too many guys who could pull that off. As for not continue to pursue her, its not really a big loss to me consider I have OTHER OPTIONS. If you think asking others opinion on whether they agree with my action is considered to be "venting" or "complaining", you have serious problems.

3. ". if you are so damn cocky about the annoymous thing, why make an ID online to post on a forum? comon dude...everyone on LYK is pretty much on the same boat buddy. if you had the guts, you woulda used your real name & used your own face as an avatar."

No you are not even making any sense.  I made an ID cus I need to post one on a forum? How else do I post. If you know any alternatives, please enlighten me.
Guts? Theres no requirement here to have to use your real picture and real name here right? Its pretty sad that you are refusing to even use to show your login id, as you are fully aware that by talking trash, you will be flamed by others (and that is exactly what happened here.)   How low can you possibly get when you even chicken out from using your account? I have seen my share of losers/chickenshvt, but you are definitely cream of the crop.

So pathetic, so naive..

btw, if you want to meet me in person, feel free to pm me

[ 本帖最後由 mattb 於 2008-8-15 02:03 編輯 ]

mattb

原帖由 cllo 於 2008-8-8 08:43 發表
interesting topic here.  why are we allowing posting anonymously.  there is ppl who know who's who here.  that way post wont go too far.

maybe Mr. 匿名 is trying to chase the same girl as you, mattb. ...

The girl is not Chinese, and she is alot more mature than 匿名.

In fact, 匿名 reminds me of a user who was recently banned from lyk. I can tell from his diction and writing style
But I can't confirm yet so I won't say who it is.

mattb

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2008-8-15 12:50 發表
If I'm a banned member, then I can choose not to annoymous my ID because I will then infact have a new ID that's unfamiliar to active LYKs

It's simple, so skip the BS: the conclusion that every ...

Its kinda hard to be as 7 as you to have to post anonymously so that you won't get your ass kicked for trolling.  Obviously, you knew you were gonna get flamed for doing that, so go as low as posting anonymously.
Pretty sad, no?

And I don't need to meet you in person because I do know how 7 you look like. That's why i'm an annoymous.

No, I assure you that I don't know you, and am not one of your many imaginary friends.

I love to see you get all worked up then get chickenshvt and refuse to come out. Are you one of those typical honger 毒男 who weighs 120 pounds that loves to talk trash online?
I can probably shoulder press your weight.

get a life, and good luck trying to get laid with your so called relationship insights

[ 本帖最後由 mattb 於 2008-8-16 00:02 編輯 ]