tofu

who is that person?  doesn't sound like a husband

tofu

happen to many chinese families la.  but your situation is kind of worst.
my mum believes guy doesn't know how to do housework and take care himself is normal, since he is a guy.  so i need to do all housework.  as 小叻 mentioned, you need to talk to your mum to have the problem solve.  my mum is much better now, since i educated her for years.
move out is an option.  i moved out before and our relationship started to get better at that time.  at least "no need to see each other everyday ma"