Hyde

原帖由 Ultraman 於 2008-12-17 12:55 發表
Yes, it's always super easy to say than work it out, men!
How about you're rich enough or your dad is rich enough and is willing to support you and your wife and your baby for the rest of your lives, ...

LOLOL
Money is THE only reason to worry.  They panic becuz they can't even afford themselves, how do you think they can afford to have a baby?  When you have money, do you really need to worry about bringing food on the table for the wife and baby?  There are better things to worry about then struggling to pay the bills.
like finding better schools for the kids etc etc.

Hyde

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 13:51 發表

there are way more things than just money when bringing up a kid...don't be naive

welcome to reality, without it... good luck
LOL

in case you forgot, everything cost money, shelter, food, education, health.

Hyde

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 13:13 發表
I believe the most important thing a baby needs is love and a safe growing environment.  Are these that hard to achieve and requires a lot of money?  I don't think so.

where are your baby going to find love when the young parents are working 2 jobs a day trying to bring money in the family to feed the baby?  
how can you even have a safe growing environment when you can't afford houses?  living on the streets or ghetto areas is sure safe.

Hyde

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 15:33 發表


what the heck are you talking about?  without what?  good luck to what?

money is just one thing in the equation, there are tons of other things in the same equation...do your math properly...don't  ...

WTF do you think we are talking about?  you can't even understand a simple conversation. I quoted you for a reason.  Learn to read, and digest what you are reading.

Hyde

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 15:58 發表

read what? you only have a couple of words for me to read, and they don't make any sense, come back when you can write proper sentences

i got straight to the point and you can't understand it.... if u wern't retarded, maybe you'd get it.

Hyde

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 15:44 發表

many parents are working full time, still lots of them share lots of love with their kids, have you seen the family on yahoo blog?

Did the original poster said he's living off the street right now?  ...

the OP didn't even say she is pregnant, what's your point?  but what I know is that she's worry that she doesn't even have enough financially to support the family.

you are right when there are more things to worry about then money, but before you worry about other things, you better worry about money first.   so before they have money, they should start worrying that kind of extra activities their kids should learn, or what private school they should go to?  

have you see those poor ppl thats on welfare and live in public housing post family photo in yahoo blog?  the only time i see their family photo is when the parents kill the kids and themselves becuz they are too fcuking poor on the headline news.

Hyde

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 17:35 發表
if you said so...go right down to a point that only you can understand on this planet...LOL

I knew people living in public housing and they're very happy wor...what's posting pics on blogs have to do with happiness?

aham...I thought you said the ONLY important thing is money, when did you change your mind?  I hate quoting people but this is for you only "Money is THE only reason to worry" (post #26).  I think there's a difference between "first" and "only".

you were the one pointing out and connecting happiness with people with families posting their family pictures on blogs and  yahoo albums.

First and Only is the same thing for the poor ppl.  if they can only worry about the first thing, do you think they should even worry about the second thing?

Like I said, you do not even understand I say or anything the real world works.  Let me rephrase it so a retarded guy like you can understand.   Do you think a poor family with only enough money for their daily expense will be worrying where they should take their kids to go learn swimming, taekwondo, piano, drawing?? FYI, all of those cost money, do you think when the parents don't have enough money do all that?  and what's gonna happen?  the kid just hangs out on the street everyday with the wrong crowd while their parents are at work struggling to bring food on the table.  

Money can't solve all problem, but without money, you can't solve any problem.

Hyde

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 18:59 發表
chunsh & hyde,

You guys always like to bring out extreme cases huh?  If cases are that extreme, then I guess it should be assessed in a case per case basis.  I'm talking about people in general.  Plu ...

people in general are those that have kids already have a stable income.

we are talking about having a baby early. BEFORE someone is financially stable, no people in general. you are just moving the topic somewhere else.

Hyde

My bro had his 1st son when he was 20,  but then he's not an good example since we have money.  Financially was never a problem to begin with and he and his wife had no trouble taking care of the kids, actually, they don't even need to take care of the kids, we have maids to do that...  all they do is play with the kids and spend time with them.  no, only his wife spend times with the kids, my bro hardly even see them.  same with my sis, her husband hardly see their kid.

Hell, my bro and sister don't even treat their kids as children, they treat them like adults, they don't give them advantage of being a child.  they inch them a lot, they let them do whatever they want and buy whatever they want make them learn from their own mistake.  they are not regular parents, but their kids are sure a lot smarter then other kids their age.

Hyde

i think my girl is on pills....