回復 20# daimo
Yes, peer pressure. Actually, at a wedding, it's more like parents pressure. Just like with other things such as using chinese style or wester wedding or using rounds or long tables, we don't often have a saying on...
Parents, even they support your decision not to eat shark fins, they will have to face their family friends/guests' questioning and possibily be the talk for many years to come! So i totally understand for most traditional chinese families how hard it is to give up this tradition....
Maybe another decade ba? |