kaimui22

alc:

ha..we planned to have the baby because i want to have my kids while i'm still young...the earlier I have my kids, the earlier my "life' will begin after they grow up. Since the 40s is the new 20s nowadays, I'm thinking by the time I turn 50, it'll be hip to be old..haha. And by the time I turn 50, my son will be 25..haha..I want to be a young grandma! Also I figure it's easier to relate to the kids if the age gap isn't TOO big.  As for the fit mama you work with..she's only 32 and her kid is in grade 8?? Wow..that means she had her kid when she was 18/19? Not a lot of chinese have kids that early nowadays...having a kid at that age is such a huge responsibility too. Can't imagine how she went thru 3 kids so quickly..but think about it, she'll have her life back in 10-15 years and she'll still be in her 40s!

As for the tummy part..yes, even if you lose all the fat, the extra skin will always be there...that is unless you do a tummy tuck...and even if you do a tummy tuck, you'll still have those terrible stretch marks..@_@. Ha..I know it sounds scary but it's all worth it when you see your own baby!

So how many kids do you want?