mcjohnjohn

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mcjohnjohn

原帖由 KY+NY 於 2008-12-17 16:01 發表
係唔係0既? 定係講下啊? 霖真D喔..經濟基礎..生活基礎..有咩?!點養BB點擔起頭家啊?!

(純粹個人觀點)
25歲既時候, 應該已經好清楚自己條路會點行. 可能呢個時候唔係搵到好多錢, 但應該會知道將來自己條路點走.
經濟基礎呢樣野, 兩公婆一齊共患難, 總會有同享福既一日呢~
小弟25歲既時候都應該可以養得起一個BB的.

mcjohnjohn

原帖由 字典仔 於 2008-12-17 16:11 發表

well..如果你負唔起果個責任, 算唔算係抵死? 冇咁大個頭就唔好戴咁大頂帽...戴套啦
如果真係未夠十八(especially女仔), 梗加玩唔起呢d火, 媽咪冇教你say no咩? ...

字典仔果然係一個有責任既男人, 小弟好尊敬你~
其實同女仔上得床, 你就要預左有可能有BB. 就算戴左套, 個套都有機會會漏既, 而任何避孕方法都唔會100%有效的.

mcjohnjohn

點都好啦, 總之我就一定唔會叫女朋友落左佢啦.
唔落左佢, 就唯有生左佢出黎啦. 既然要生佢出黎, 點都要比番個名份女朋友卦. (除非女朋友要仔唔要公啦)

窮, 都可以養到小朋友的. 細個既時候我屋企都好窮, 而家都可以好地地咁啦. 最緊要係父母識唔識教, 同個小朋友品質優唔優良之麻.

mcjohnjohn

Yep, the first and second consequences (eating the forbidden fruit, and become pregnant) might not able to be avoided, but the following consequences can! That's why I believe getting married in an inappropriate time is no no.

why can't the first and second consequences be avoided?

Take a look on my previous brainstorm example again, how if the parents don't have all the essential elements/factors I stated but only money, or even lots of money, what likely their kid(s) would be brought up?

my brother and I grew up nicely.

mcjohnjohn

原帖由 kabuki 於 2008-12-18 10:54 發表
Let’s do a case study.  

Sex is a basic human need. They are both 20 yrs old + and finished school, make under 15k (HKD) each, DID use contraception, the guy and his family is ok if not supportive of having the kid.... but the girl hate kids and is not mature enough for rising a baby. Even though the girl’s family won’t force her to have an abortion, her family would not be supportive at all. What would u guys do?

They should not have sex in the first time. Sex is a basic human needs, but you need to achieve something in order to have this gift from nature. YOU NEED TO KNOW THAT YOU WILL HAVE CHANCE TO GET A BB EVEN IF YOU DO ALL THE CONTRACEPTION METHODS. You should know whether you can take the risk before doing something.

If you have sex, you should take that risk and that's all.

mcjohnjohn

原帖由 kabuki 於 2008-12-18 11:25 發表
well first of all that was not the question...
second of all there is always an option of abortion...
and finally, are you saying that if a woman hate kids, she should not have sex at all even if they are married?

if a woman hate kids, she should use some better contraception methods, e.g. 結紮.
if her man doesn't want kids too, he should also go to 結紮.

the risk of having a BB should be very low with the above conditions.

mcjohnjohn

they have higher curiosity in sex and thus very easy and normal to taste the forbidden fruit. (doesn't mean "all" kids will do)

that's the problem of those kids. ppl should think first before act.

Haha.. do you mean you're brought up from a family that lacks of money, good personality, correct and positive value of life, knowledge, ....etc, but you and your brother still grew up nicely? Even so, how can you be sure if your family got everything, you and your brother could be a lot better than now?

hahahaha, how can you be sure if my family got everything, my and my brother could be a lot better than now? well, would I be Obama?

(You may say you and your brother think you two are good enough and are pretty satisfied with the current stage. However, this is only from your pov, the society might be longing for a better person.)

yes, it is my point of view only. were you talking with Obama's pov? you are so great~

mcjohnjohn

原帖由 Hyde 於 2008-12-18 11:33 發表
i think my girl is on pills....

pills are better than condom, however, your girl should take the pills regularly to make it effective.

mcjohnjohn

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-18 11:45 發表

oh wait...but pills won't stop spreading your STD??? LOL

I think that Hyde should be as clean as a piece of paper...