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回復 37# 大C姐


    but what's so bad about showing baby pic...? we are not talking about the 3D ultrasound pic here...

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回復 43# 大C姐


    That's true. It's a great sacrifice to have baby...at least the first two/three years...no more personal time, no entertainment, and yes...less hang out time with friends...( i need to rush back home at 9-ish...)

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回復 48# mcjohnjohn


    咁我同我老公有同bb去朋友屋企食飯，不過9點左右就要趕返屋企。所以都好少去啦。

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回復 54# jiujiujiu


    絕對同意！未ready真係唔好生。如果唔係會好辛苦。我只係驚太大年紀生會生啲白癡仔（的確機會大好多）所以先至生。邊個唔想自由自在多幾年。

fibbi

即係好似fibbi，mcJJ，如果當日for whatever reason生唔到，可能真係試過都唔得，到今日都冇小朋友都唔代表生活會唔開心唔滿足，可能又lead to另一個生活方式同態度。
大C姐 發表於 2012-10-25 09:40

    始終有無仔女都係緣份啦。我覺得有仔女係會有另一種人生樂趣。有得必有失，就係呢幾年失咗啲自由囉。成世人流流長，玩少十年八年都無問題嗟。但係我唔想到咗五十歲先想要bb又無得要。呢一刻試咗有就有，如果試過而無嘅話就即係無緣啦，我都唔會刻意去追求。

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我覺得人生有好多個title嘅，你可能係一個好爸爸同好老豆，但係你未必係一個好盡責嘅朋友／死黨囉。 ...
大C姐 發表於 2012-10-24 15:49

我唔係好同意呢個觀點。
如果係死黨嘅話，就會體諒朋友因為有bb而少咗出嚟吃喝玩樂，至於話如果有咩嘢想講，其實都可以sms，email之類. 個friend之後都會覆返你啦。其實都係開頭嗰兩三年辛苦啲囉，個仔女越大就越會多番啲私人時間啦。

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又話加拿大出生率低，昨日去lansdowne mall嗰度trick or treat，成個mall都係人！水洩不通！就算平時都成日見到好多BB車。上次去海港飲茶連high chair都話無哂！好彩我自己有帶。連去產前班都係full架。我都唔係去中國人嘅班都咁多人！

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回復 77# 大C姐


    始終名校啲校風應該好啲。至於師資，要有心理準備係精英班先係最好嘅老師，其他班就。。。我唔會話求其，總之就係最好嘅嘢留哂俾最好嗰班。
如果留喺精英班，就好大competition，可能會好大壓力。個小朋友要受得先好。