fibbi

回復 26# Nam


    做人幾時都有取捨架啦。今時今刻希望事業上打拼，但係到你第日想有嘅時候又會唔會太遲呢？有時唔係想有就有加嘛。當然，而家好多人四十歲都有得生，但係點都會擔心啲囉。生係一件事，湊又係一件事，年紀大咗真係無咁有體力去照顧BB。

仲有，三十五歲後BB有先天缺陷嘅比率真係大好多。當然啦，好多人遲生都無事，但係舵BB嘅時候點都會驚啲。

fibbi

回復 28# lo_pak


用口語寫都係想多啲親切感嗟。

我認為四十歲生無問題，如果係"李嘉欣"嘅話。有＄俾你去保身，又唔洗工作，生完有幾個工人陪月湊，生唔到就人工，真係無乜問題。

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回復  fibbi

How come it is "無問題"? Haven't you count the time you are with your kid, haven't you count the time you are with your grand kid...?
lo_pak 發表於 2011-7-29 14:07

我又點可以肯定我啲仔女一定會結婚生仔？作為父母要照顧培育下一代，仲要諗埋仔女嘅下一代？I don't think it's my concern...

就算四十歲生，個仔女大學畢業都係六十幾歲，現今醫學咁發達，六十幾歲都唔算好老。
當然，我唔係鼓勵人四十歲先生育，始終個大前提係要擺時間去湊個細路。

唔係話有＄就大哂，物質上縱容個小朋友，而係可以嘅話媽媽不用工作就有多一點時間去照顧屋企同埋小朋友，始終對個家庭都係好啲。

fibbi

回復 37# sko


    But as I mention, I don't really care about time spending with my "grand kid"...don't even know whether will have one or not right...

Also, I don't think there is big difference whether one is 30 or 40....if we are talking about travel time, or watch TV together...

fibbi

回復 39# sko


    My parents also had me around that age...but I don't really "think" we have generation gap...and I never expect parents to do any sport with me (perhaps just because I don't do much sports too...I guess I'll ask friends to do sport with me than parents) But still we are close...

fibbi

回復 42# Nam


    我從來都無期望養兒防老，仔大仔世界，佢哋自己顧掂自己就好好啦。
我靜係覺得一個家庭無兒女嘅話好似缺少啲咩咁，無咁完滿，純粹個人觀感。