fibbi

當然，打工仔都可以攞少少人工又被老細洽；既然做雞又會被客洽，打工仔都係被老細洽，不如做雞多勞多得。但係有無諗過，你會唔會敢同其他人講你嘅職業？敢唔敢大大聲聲講你嘅過去比你嘅男友老公聽？又有幾多個男人真係唔會介意？口講唔介意嘅心裏面又點諗？

fibbi

回復 62# MSN04


    I think it is different. 唔通一般男仔接受唔到個女朋友有好多ex？

fibbi

回復 61# fy789


    瞞得一時，未必瞞得一世。

fibbi

我諗有十個ex唔出奇，一百個就誇咗啲，計埋ONS嗰啲咩。當然，你未必會特登講ex嘅嘢比現任知，但係就算佢知道有十個ex都唔會有咩大不了嗟係唔係？
個問題係如果男仔知道個女仔做過雞仲會唔會係＜無咩大不了＞？就算個男仔唔介意，個男仔嘅屋企人會點諗？如果識着個有＄嘅，佢帶你出嚟social，分分鐘佢啲生意partner做過你啲客，個男仔會點？

fibbi

回復 70# MSN04

"正如你所講. "當然，你未必會特登講ex嘅嘢比現任知".  咁即係唔會大大聲聲同老公/男友講啦?
你話做雞既唔會.  我係想話你知, 唔係做雞既都唔會."
But the point is, there is no problem, no big deal when your other half knows about your ex.
But there would be HUGE problem when other half knows that you (not you, I mean in general) being an escort before.


    同一個人做十次，同十個唔同嘅人每人做一次點會無分別。

得一個ex唔會有人話濫，五十個ex又點呢？

同其他人拍過拖，唔出奇，喺啲social場合見到個ex有咩問題？個現任bf會有咩問題？

fibbi

回復  fibbi

幾多個 ex 先開始叫濫?
MSN04 發表於 2010-12-8 16:53

    咁就要睇吓個time frame啦，如果喺十年裏面有十個ex，都唔出奇喎，但係一個月裏面有十個ex就濫啲啦係唔係？

fibbi

回復 77# fy789


    我認為喺一段關係裏面唔應該有瞞騙，呢啲唔係尊重對方嘅行為。就算關係因為有小朋友而維繫，都沒有意思。
如果你認為對方真係咁愛自己，對方應能包容，更加不用隱瞞。如果不能包容，證明愛又有多深？

fibbi

回復  fibbi

咁生意上既 partner 係條女以前既客又有咩問題? (我就係諗唔到有咩問題我先至用同一個 situation)
MSN04 發表於 2010-12-8 16:53

If you think it's fine then fine.

I don't think it's the same.

fibbi

不過現今社會啲觀念咁開放，我都唔排除有人為咗物質享受而做，又或者，真係會有人覺得enjoy。

fibbi

雖則family＞money，但係邊個唔想為家人爭取好啲嘅生活質數？可能喺加拿大，揾多5k after tax都唔係好多，可能冇咁多incentive去做啦。