chunsh

原帖由 字典仔 於 2008-12-17 01:11 發表


well..如果你負唔起果個責任, 算唔算係抵死? 冇咁大個頭就唔好戴咁大頂帽...戴套啦



如果真係未夠十八(especially女仔), 梗加玩唔起呢d火, 媽咪冇教你say no咩? ...

講﹐就真係人人都識講
但係如果做人下下都o甘理性&呀媽教就一定有用既﹐個的未婚媽媽組織我想都可以
close西佢啦

當兩個人都撻著西既時候﹐o個兩個人(not only man)既大腦logic係已經function唔
到

chunsh

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 11:34 發表

this is just an excuse...if you're under age...dont' even be 撻著 lor...know your bottomline

tell me why there were/are so many people got executed (e.g. drowned in pig cage or being thrown stones upon them) by their own society because of having "illegal sex" in their society while they already know the rules are there

chunsh

原帖由 rockypath 於 2008-12-17 12:28 發表
just don't get yourself into this kind of situation. at least take some protective actions. it does not require much effort to prevent things like this happen.

I agree

chunsh

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 13:00 發表

simply because some people just follow their desires

definitely less % people doing this in the old days than it is now...

face the truth
while technologies changes and keep changing, human...or I should say, animal, nature doesn't

chunsh

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 13:44 發表
well, those who can't control their desires, you can call them....animal...LOL

but there are still tons of humans in this world lor...

human never be able to control desire, we just good at suppressing and hiding them. If we can put all of our desire under CONTROL, why do we need government and police?

don't get me wrong though, I never say men have no responsibilities in such issues. Instead, we have. I just want to point out that it is very easy to say some heroic comments (I call it invincible speech ) here which most girls like to hear from their bf, but it would another story when this situation happen on them.

just like we always found some members in forums talk about their story that their bf/gf has another affair with another guy/woman and ask if he/she should leave his bf/gf. We can see that many other member who give replies would suggest that the poster should break up and found a new gf/bf. WELL, yeah, because its not their stories

chunsh

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 15:25 發表

What kind of desires are you talking about?  I'm just talking about sexual desires.  People have tons of different kinds of desires, and of course one way or another, we have failed.  On issues as cr ...

what you said can be achieved in an ideal world
too bad, our world is not ideal that everyone is rational in ALL cases before we had sex. On the contrary, the moment right before having sex is one of the moments for people who be irrational.

again, I didnt say I agree that we have no responsibilities for that

chunsh

原帖由 fibbi 於 2008-12-17 15:03 發表
There are quite a lot of people got married before 25 years old too. They can't have kids??
say 22, or 23 years old, already graduated from college/university and probably start working already. What' ...

did u ever hear news reports/stories about young parents(normally < 23) leaving their babies at home and then going to club/dance/drink/one night stand/etc.... and then their babies/children got injured by themselves at home??

people under 25 at this generation dont know even take care of themselves like the generations 20 years ago with the same age

chunsh

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 17:35 發表
if you said so...go right down to a point that only you can understand on this planet...LOL

I knew people living in public housing and they're very happy wor...what's posting pics on blogs have to do ...

what else is more important than having a stable financial background for the couple to raise a child? without money, parents need to work like a slave (not just a dog!) to gain money. So u think they still have time to be with the child, play with them, go to picnic with them, get a DS for them?

so u think the child will be happy while his/her parents always "disappear" because they need to go to work? Now comes the problem of "problematic teens"


well, if the couple's parents are rich, thats another story

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chunsh

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 18:59 發表
chunsh & hyde,
Go do some research, street kids/trouble teens don't become that way because their parents are low income.

邊__個話街童一定係來自低收入家庭呀
我係話﹐如果一對couple要日做夜做先可以support個小朋友﹐甘點會有時間陪小朋友同埋小朋友學校以外既知識呀?

個的有錢老豆老母"pag"底個仔女自己去做生意/美容/打麻將個的並唔係呢個topic既話題呀

我唔係話男人可以有膽上床之後唔駛負責。不過我覺得大家都係係度吹水唔抹嘴o羅
講者碼﹐邊個唔識呀。講完﹐logout左/close左個browser就唔駛負責

chunsh

原帖由 mcjohnjohn 於 2008-12-17 19:37 發表
點都好啦, 總之我就一定唔會叫女朋友落左佢啦.
唔落左佢, 就唯有生左佢出黎啦. 既然要生佢出黎, 點都要比番個名份女朋友卦. (除非女朋友要仔唔要公啦)

窮, 都可以養到小朋友的. 細個既時候我屋企都好窮, 而家都可以 ...

actually this topic is about moral view of lives and moral views that each of us has are closely related to religions