chunsh

I sort of similar to that guy like around 8-9 yrs ago so i think I understand his 心理
luckily I could stop myself once I got into university. Not that I made a gf right after I got into university. On the contrary, I spent a few months being alone and thought back and found out what where wrong

chunsh

based on my previous perseonal exp,
that guy is SERIOUSLY lack of self-esteem, that made his brain doesnt work.

chunsh

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-11 11:32 發表
chunsh:
i thought you will say the guy over confidence, & lack security of being single tim. but i agree that his brain doesnt function properly. so....can you give mama-Alc some suggestions to put hi ...

I was so much similar to him before
lust is one of the reasons, can't deny
lonely is another, I believe

but I was like I just so eagerly want to get a female human being

how to cure?
I dunno, as I remember, I knew people talkng/laughing behind me like u guys doing, but I didnt awake until I achieve my goal at that time---got into univesity. so the only one who can cure this situation is him, I think.

In other words, problem will be solved if he can get a life

I dunno, man, I lack of confidence before since I thougth I have no $, can't get in unversity, no cool sport cars or bm,...but that was before I was getting to 21, so I am suprised that he is 20 something....

but u said that his family own a resturant? is he a rich guy? maybe he is over-confidence and like "waiting for ****ting after the full meal", hhaha

gee, I am sort of relief that I was not alone

[ 本帖最後由 chunsh 於 2008-3-11 12:07 編輯 ]

chunsh

guys and girls, let me throw some bucket of "iced watter" to this thread
watch out for the wordings, I think all of us has seen too much newspaper headlines about someone killed the others becos they got insulted too seriously (either they deserved the insults or not).

this issue sounds funny at the beginning; however, if u really want to solve the problem, then I think u should tell him DIRECTLY with friendly tone and use the careful wordings.

[ 本帖最後由 chunsh 於 2008-3-12 11:54 編輯 ]

chunsh

原帖由 Serenade 於 2008-3-12 17:03 發表
Hey I got an idea!
How about... inviting a whole bunch of guys next time to the party and ask him specifically for tickets or even anonymous guestlist...
Now, just tell him that you are bringing a lot ...

this "algorithm" is so informative and detailed
u must be a com-sci students or some kinds of engineers LOL

chunsh

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-13 09:05 發表
Puzzle,
i don't know! but seriously... who would invite an overseas friend over, but knowing that you have no time for your friend? AND have no plans to have somebody else entertain your friend!? AND  ...

short conclusion: He is still a kid/teenagers in high school

[ 本帖最後由 chunsh 於 2008-3-13 11:11 編輯 ]