離婚問題

小叻

如父母離婚﹐有2個小孩﹐做父親的不想負責任﹐唔想俾膽養費。母親一人難以負擔供樓﹐還債﹐沒有工作經驗而且要照顧2個小孩。是否可以向法庭控訴丈夫? 如政府判決父親要俾膽養費﹐但佢賤格到唔上班羅Welfare﹐或潛水番香港並取消加國國籍? 應該點樣處理呢?

Nam

原帖由 小叻 於 2009-2-12 12:00 發表
如父母離婚﹐有2個小孩﹐做父親的不想負責任﹐唔想俾膽養費。母親一人難以負擔供樓﹐還債﹐沒有工作經驗而且要照顧2個小孩。是否可以向法庭控訴丈夫? 如政府判決父親要俾膽養費﹐但佢賤格到唔上班羅Welfare﹐或潛水番香港並取消加 ...

Don't let the father get away.  The mom can sue him....
Don't follow my bf's mom path... she let him get away and that a$$hole never pay a penny after he left and he took all $$$ away from the family.....

By law, the father supposed to pay & take care of the kids until the kid turn 18. I think... if not, one more important thing is, don't let the kid work before finishing education.   My bf's dad get away because my bf works hard in school and work.... so since he is CAPABLE to support himself through university.  His dad can get away....

Nam

And also watch out he will make up some excuses that he cannot work due to sickness.

My bf 's a$$ hole dad used that excuse to get away.  He claimed he has sore back and he cannot work... and he has his "own" family too...
so he "doesn't" work and "the wife" (the new woman) has enough saving... so he can be exempt.

This type of things has to handle fast.. Once you miss the chance, you can hardly sue him again....

B仔

小叻，
嘩。。。咁狗嘅？！
SORRY冇經驗，比唔度你咩意見。。。

fibbi

Isn't the couple need to share the property half and half at divorce time?

siumaibb

唉，兩夫婦結婚時山盟海誓，點解而家會搞成咁？

小叻

OMG!! Your bf’s dad is just similar to my a$$hole dad… now my parents are talking about divorce.. coz that jerk wants to go back to HK to have his 花花世界!! (He is in his late 40’s) But he is unwillingly to pay any.. and he wants FACE.. so that’s y they are not divorced yet! I went to the family law website and understand that he is REQUIRED to pay the child support.. and I told him that he needs to pay.. but he retorted back and asked what if he has no money to pay.. what if he got no job and getting welfare..and what if he went back to HK and cancel the Canadian Citizenship.. You can’t imagine a man can be a cheap jerk like this!!!!  He made the KIDS!!! And he dun want the burdens!!  Both kids are now ( 8 and 10) I am sure that he can’t get away with it!!

And those excuses.. he already keep saying now.. he said his back hurt and can’t work.. reduced workload etc…  and he is in his late 40’s ONLY.. wow.. I wonder how bad his health is lor!

Even if he left.. not a problem.. but the damn prob is he doesn’t want to pay back the family debts!!  (he lend $$ for buying stocks.. buy new cars…go for vacations.. fixing cars…etc..and our family debts are at least 40K) The house is still in mortgage..
And what he wants now is: move to HK.. live by himself.. free from debts.. earning to live and have fun.. and then want to maintain the family but not divorce..just living separately..so that after few yrs..when he gets another bunch of debts..he can come back and ask for help!
So we dun want him to get away from it..but what if he really skip back to HK and remove Canadian Citizenship..we got no way to sue for $$

小叻

原帖由 siumaibb 於 12-2-2009 11:18 發表
唉，兩夫婦結婚時山盟海誓，點解而家會搞成咁？

年少搞大個肚已結婚時lor !!

Nam

You better hurry up and contact lawyer.
Even if your mom or you don't have enough $$$ to hire a laywer, I think you can get help from government.  From what I heard from my bf, they went to government to seek help.  And court order his dad to support their living (since he took all $$ and change the $$ from asset to real cash, so he has NO $$ ) , then he got scared and "tum" his mom don't waste $$ on lawyer.

They will do it on their own.... and his mom "soft heart" and believe what he say...........and ever since she went back to Vancouver (he went to Toronto...) , no way to sue him.........

and that's not the end of it... I think last year, my bf made a phone call and asked that a$$hole to pay for his tuition.  He only wire 3000 to my bf and THINK he has the right to be his dad.  And start lecturing my bf being does not respect him blah blah blah....and he keep making up excuses like, I have my own family to support too......and I don't have control over the $$ , it's the woman who does has control....

AND, yes, he has no money, but he has money to support that WOMAN's daughter to study university and buy expensive piano etc etc....TO support OTHERS kid not his own kid..... WTF

Nam

So my bf wire back the $$ back to his dad via his "ai ya sister"...
and never pick up his dad phone again....