If you have to pick between your dream job and your love of a life time, which would you pick? why?
i know a lot of people will say it's not mandatory to pick between the two, but in some cases what if you really have to? e.g. if you have a job that gives u weird hour and you have a bf/gf that cannot tolerate your weird work hours... but that's your dream job and also the love of your life... how would u pick??
I think it's one way or the other too. Of course you could have both but when the time comes to you have to pick one of them, that's the question is about.
your wife is so lucky~! you are one of the 2% population!
a lot of ppl expect their wife to contribute a substantial amount of $$ to the family..
the math is simple:
let income from husband be h, and income from wife be w,
family income = h + w.
to guys, h is pretty much fixed (assume they'll try their best),
the way to get a higher family income would be to get a greater W!
after all these years, i have come to realize that guys actually care about the girl's career.
so i'd choose career first..
i think a girl is putting herself in a vulnerable position if she doesn't have her own career.
most guys are very practical! - so bay~