See one thing I don't understand is by discussing such topics, you are automatically "lowering" yourself. Really don't understand why ppl would want to do that unless they are still very immature?
I don't know the reason, but I have experienced that. At once, I went to a party. A couple left early, then one guy start talking about the girl who used to be his ex. Things like "死魚" "飛機場". Then other people call them "襟兄弟". It is not the kind of gloating you are talking about, but you get the picture. If words circle back to the bf, I would think the effect to be the same.
Seriously, I don't know. I think the act of gloating is not necessary even the girl was an escort before. Again, escort may deserve less respect, but he/she is still a human being. I would think good people should just be more classy and show some respect.
Why do you think people(ie gossipers) will gloat when your wife is your client's ex?
I am not saying you are wrong but I just want to hear your reason why.
I agree with you that escorting in general is less respected by other people.
However, I would disagree with you on the senario you described. I would see both client or ex being a gossiper and would lost respect from me right away and I would not join the gloat. But in general, people don't do this kind of thing (at least the people i know in my circle). So I don't think there is any potential issue with both situations.
If your client finds out that your wife was a whore, it is likely he will gloat at you and tell them to his friends. (potentially other clients) They will lose respect for you.
On the other hand, if your wife was your client's ex, it's a big difference. There is nothing negative being an ex of someboy, since most people have had more than one relationship before they get married. If your client decides to talk trash behind you because your wife was your ex. he will be the person who loses respect from others because he is a gossiper.
Note here I am not arguing whether prostitutes should be respected. Whether, I am pointing out that this profession is infamous and not respected by most people.
LOL
You used comprehend in the wrong context here and you want to criticize my comprehension? What ...
biggie 發表於 2010-12-9 13:45
pfft... my bad, I must have been thinking sth else while typing that.
Hmm... By no problem, I meant, no problem will arise from the 2 situations. Whether the relationship itseft is acceptable or not, it depends on the person dealing with it.
If you don't agree that there should not be a problem with the escort situation. Can you describe specifically what kind of problem would arise?
發表於 2010-12-7 00:23
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