港女成日被狠批...港男質素又如何？ character, 女, features, Chinese, comment

大C姐

I rather be lonely for life than married a Chinese girl. If they are CBC, they dwell on hubris of the Anglo-American melting pot of mediocrity. If they are from HK, they lack in bodily features. If they are from China, they lack character and moral obligation.  Most leftovers are dragonladies who doesn't have a feminine side.

Obviously there are exceptions, but that is the attitude revolving around Chino Chicas these days.

(from Ovaltine http://www.loyaukee.com/forum/viewthread.php?tid=27311&extra=page%3D1&page=6)

之前見到Ovaltine個comment，其實已經好想開呢個topic，事關我覺得香港女性成日被男士／傳媒批評，同其它地方嘅佳麗比較，總係講到啲香港女性一文不值...冇樣冇温柔冇身材冇內涵等等。

當然，我都有講過有部份女孩子確實唔多抵爭，但係我想反過嚟問，你哋嘅心目中香港男士質數又如何？

先講外型，我覺得平均香港女性都算presentable，但係男仔真係好參差。近年叫做多咗少少人做gym，但係平均大部份港男都冇樣冇身材。你睇班A&F model佔領中環令所有女性幾hot?　近排令女性瘋狂並非新手袋，而係一班靚仔奥運體操運動員。以上例子證明，樣靚身材正嘅男性喺香港一樣決乏。

講近啲，港男冇泰仔鋼條身型，唔夠北方人咁高大，亦不及韓男大隻...當然那話兒更加冇得同西人相題並論...　尤此可見，有比較之下，香港男一樣給比下去。

如果你話香港女性冇應有嘅body figure，我真心想問，難道你覺得香港男士們有男人應有嘅體型咩？

大C姐

we hk men are no good at all too, feminine gay pussies, living with parents until the age of 40 is t ...
Ovaltine 發表於 2012-9-4 22:11

    有好多女性朋友都話，依家啲香港男士真係好少主動追求女性。就算落到夜場，眼望望同借啲意抽水就多，正正經經approach你問你攞number都少。有啲錢甚至只會開晒啲酒放檯面等女仔行埋嚟。

所以好多女仔都話，對上一次俾人追，對手都係西人。

大C姐

回復  Ovaltine


    Not all Western people are that "free". I know Italian are quite family orient ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-9-4 21:39

    好多西人就算唔係同屋企人住都可能有roommates，所以都唔一定可以帶返屋企玩。

其實呢度已經好好，香港居住環境又細，出到街都冇咩私人空間甚至好易撞到熟人！

大C姐

Interesting topic..my parents always try to introduce me to family friends or try very hard to find  ...
Ovaltine 發表於 2012-9-4 21:35

    我想問Ovaltine你幾歳先？

如果你已經３０幾，我諗你屋企人都會開始急，都唔會理你同咩人拍拖啦。

同埋你自己有冇能力自己搬出去先？如果同屋企人住係難啲，但係都唔係完全唔可以date。我覺得睇對方配唔配合倒啦。

Ovaltine

we hk men are no good at all too, feminine gay pussies, living with parents until the age of 40 is the social norm for hong kong guys. hair slighting thinning from the frequent of brothels or watching japanese av. talk about fly cars all the time.

thats one of the few, more to add ladies?

Ovaltine

回復 36# fibbi


    perhaps based on past family history, i find it to be a burden to my individual soverignty. i actually like girls who are family oriented, but i myself is not..what a paradox.

fibbi

回復 35# Ovaltine


    Not all Western people are that "free". I know Italian are quite family oriented as well.

Ovaltine

Interesting topic..my parents always try to introduce me to family friends or try very hard to find someone for me. to the point they probably think i am gay...i let them think that way, because personally am happy without a relationship. I mean if I live in Vancouver, i live with my parents, dating game means i would have to dating including my family members, and also the other family members. not a viable option. ****ing around and flings is good enough, holiday romance is awesome too.

if you don't live in a family, then u really need someone to take care of you, but i hate how chinese family they need family approval for a girlfriend or a boyfriend. we don't really have freedom of choice.

thats is probably why asian are lowest of the dating food chain, family come into picture, u see western people are usually self-sufficient, they live alone, freedom lifestyle. but we have to take care of family, and usually family becomes a burden.

大C姐

我自己有時都覺得香港女（唔想用＂港女＂呢個字眼）有啲唔抵爭。

除咗典型港女難頂之外，有幾個常見嘅type都幾沒趣...

＂乖乖女型＂－冇事業心，冇特別技能，冇咩興趣，冇乜壞習慣，滴酒不沾，唔吹唔蒲，唔算花枝招展，但係又未必係一個識家頭細務嘅賢妻良母。驟眼覺得呢類女仔冇咩唔好，但係相處之後男仔會嫌冇情趣，甚至覺得冇挑戰而打入冷宮。一個字，悶！

＂事業型＂－有好多女仔讀得書多賺到錢未必真係睇唔起人但係就唔會化妝打扮去討好男性。難得有空凈係會同同事／女性朋友去happy hour同旅行。講嘅話題同常係職場是非，買樓同點搵錢。呢類通常好少甚至冇拍過拖，完全冇俾機會自己識男仔／俾男仔追。

另外仲有＂怨婦型＂同＂有錢女型＂都非常常見，下次再講。

講開有錢人，不禁想講返我之前提過嘅中女問題。

＂有錢女型＂－就係一啲女仔come from有錢／中產以上嘅家庭，由細到大都習慣咗享受，對所有嘢都有要求。當然老豆老母又會推波助瀾，想個女對異性眼角高啲啦。形成呢班女仔有意冇意對所有人都比較挑剔。當佢哋站喺一個＂品味高地＂，好難叫佢哋投入一段感情，因為meet到standard嘅男仔唔多，有亦未必要揀＂有錢女＂。

另外＂怨婦型＂係指一啲有過去的女人。呢啲女人可以有錢有事業有智慧，但係就係放唔低一啲過去嘅感情。成日開口埋口講自己唔洗靠男人，＂我為我生存＂，要＂活得比你好＂。而且會慫恿身邊啲姊妹撇男友，經常數男人／前度嘅不是。但係其實如果唔係孤單寂寞，又點會咁bitter?

大C姐

我覺得，就算上一代嘅人有媽姐，工人，始終家庭都係男主外，女主內，媽媽就算唔做家務唔洗做嘢都留 ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-9-4 09:06

    呢個point我buy！因爲以前大家族就算有工人，家教都會相對嚴。相反，上一代草根階層啲細佬冇王管，可能自生自滅又會培養出一份承擔同耐力。