Oh.... not really 高見, hehe. But my pov is, why "識做人" is different from 上一代 to 現今世代? Don't think that "識做人" means use money to buy relationship wor! In fact, it doesn't necessary related to money issues. For example, show your friendliness to all rank of your co-workers including your boss (but not to polish his/her shoes), your supervisors, your same ranks, your lower ranks, and even lowest ranks. But on the other hand "識做人" doesn't mean you have to 蝕抵 too much! For example, you don't need to make someone happy so you try to do extra work that not belongs to your own duty every time. Just like, you need to know when to say yes and when to say no. Remember, people don't value much for hard working cows but smart monkeys! Another rule is, try to keep good relationship with almost everyone but don't get one person jealous. (yeah I know, it's easy to say than do.) Cuz you never know where your better opportunity will come from.
原帖由 akshea 於 2008-5-12 12:02 發表
High EQ lead to connections .. and connections lead to opportunites..
I think EQ is very important.
wah...drifted a bit far wor...if high EQ -> more connections, how about living in West End -> go to private schools -> go to a famous "brand" university -> get to know sons/daughters of billionares??? In fact, I think some people are going this route lei