Should I keep pursuing this girl?

mattb

I will try to make this as concise as possible.

1. Met a girl from a not very close friend 2 weeks ago. Got her #

2. Called her up to hang out. When I called no on picked but she but calls back the next night. Agreed to hang out on Sunday.

3. I hanged out with her last Sunday for lunch then went to play a sport. She said that her friend was visting from seattle at that time so I was suprised she even came out
I took that as a good sign.

4. Called her on tuesday, this time no one answers again.  The next night (tonight), she calls again like clockwork.
This makes feels like shes playing games here. Why would she always call me back the next night and make me wait?
Shes obviously awake when I called her.

5. Blow water a bit then asked if she was free on the weekend. She said she was going clubbing and the night market on fri and sat. I asked if she was available to hang out on Sunday and she probably has to do some house chores.

Right now I take that as a subtle rejection. Obviously, you can schedule your time  around housechores. I guess she just wasn't interested in hanging out?

I have decided to either not contact her again or maybe at least not for a few weeks. What do you guys think?

[ 本帖最後由 mattb 於 2008-8-6 23:54 編輯 ]

mcjohnjohn

樓主, 你係男人黎架!
想追就追, 佢接受你就最好啦, 唔接受你就閃啦.

so simple.

pkphilip

If you are scared to get rejected, then you might as well stay home.

Understand the rules before you come out and play.

Philip

news

coz he is too scared getting rejected

Hyde

why do u care if she got a bf or not?

puZZle

so how'd the story go?

i get laid everynight....and it's pretty obvious that YOU'RE not getting laid right now~ lol

besides, which man will need to go online to ask random people for opinion on whether or not to chase a girl? haha

mattb

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2008-8-15 12:50 發表
If I'm a banned member, then I can choose not to annoymous my ID because I will then infact have a new ID that's unfamiliar to active LYKs

It's simple, so skip the BS: the conclusion that every ...

Its kinda hard to be as 7 as you to have to post anonymously so that you won't get your ass kicked for trolling.  Obviously, you knew you were gonna get flamed for doing that, so go as low as posting anonymously.
Pretty sad, no?

And I don't need to meet you in person because I do know how 7 you look like. That's why i'm an annoymous.

No, I assure you that I don't know you, and am not one of your many imaginary friends.

I love to see you get all worked up then get chickenshvt and refuse to come out. Are you one of those typical honger 毒男 who weighs 120 pounds that loves to talk trash online?
I can probably shoulder press your weight.

get a life, and good luck trying to get laid with your so called relationship insights

[ 本帖最後由 mattb 於 2008-8-16 00:02 編輯 ]

If I'm a banned member, then I can choose not to annoymous my ID because I will then infact have a new ID that's unfamiliar to active LYKs

It's simple, so skip the BS: the conclusion that everyone is telling you in your face here is the fact that you're being too IMPATIENT, that's why you need an opinion to decide if you should keep on pursuing or not.

And I don't need to meet you in person because I do know how 7 you look like. That's why i'm an annoymous. Of course you think you're all pimping because the guys that you know are hermits and cannot approach a girl directly as you can "pulled it off"... but wait. That's not something impressive because that is the PROPER approach with the normal standards. Of course you're more superior when you compare yourself to low grading guys....

[ 本帖最後由 匿名 於 2008-8-15 11:51 編輯 ]

nameless

so this girl is korean? Japanese? caucasian ?