13 week pregnant week, pregnant

pepsis2

I just found out I'm pregnant & now feel so helpless.... although my partner is very very supportive & I'm now staying at home as a housewife. The "luxurious" time I get just make me have more time to "thinking too much" .. so afraid ar....

afraid of "PAIN OF BIRTH"
afraid of "FINANCIAL DEPENDANT ON MAN"
afraid of "CAN'T TAKE CARE THE CHILD"
afraid of "MISCARRY & BB BORN WITH DEFEAT"

aii.....

shutterbug

Is this a planned pregnacy?  You don't sound like it is....

You listed 4 things that you fear about.
1) This one you can't avoid and it's too early to think about that now, so save it for later
2) You need to talk to your partner and to get assurance from him, more communication
3) Also too early to think about this, you might want to take a course later and talk to LOTS of moms to get experience
4) This is the most important right now IMO, health is #1 priority!  Find out what you should/can do/eat.  Lots of resources on the web!

good luck!

[ 本帖最後由 shutterbug 於 2008-4-23 10:06 編輯 ]

siumaibb

Congratulations!!

YOU JUST THINK TOO MUCH LA

all you worries are quit unnecessary, I think you should talk to some of your friends or 長輩 that have their own kids...

btw, r u married? how old r u?

low_B

Congratulations!!!
Although I had same questions when I'm pregnant. You can think positively,ok.....
My bb is 3 weeks now.....everythinjgs is ok....I feel happy when she smiles

kaimui22

congrats!! you just found out?? wow..that's already 3 months...so I'm guess you're over your morning sickness!

don't worry too much about the pain and the process of giving birth.....NOTHING can prepare you for it but it will work out just fine. Also, you are already 13 weeks..once you pass 12 weeks, the chances of miscarriage is very low..of course unless it's due to some accident or something. Even though having a baby might seem like it is painful, you will forget the pain once the bb is out. Also...enjoy the alone time you have right now! Being pregnant is the last time you will have alone to yourself in a long time..haha..when bb comes out, you'll be really busy.

I'm guessing the bb is not planned...but hey, sometimes it's 緣份 of the bb and you. just go with the flow and everything will turn out okay.

華美子

welcome on board, being a mom is an exciting experience.

Go take prenatal class and join Pat's mother group.  You need a support group to help you during your pregnancy.  All the best.

Ultraman

My first question is, are you planning to get married with your partner, and what does he think?

Quest

Congrats!

My son is now 14.5mnths and he is the center of our universe..

kaimui22

原帖由 Quest 於 2008/4/24 05:22 PM 發表
Congrats!

My son is now 14.5mnths and he is the center of our universe..

so your son is also born in Feb 2007? Cool~ what day?