Should I keep pursuing this girl?

mattb

I will try to make this as concise as possible.

1. Met a girl from a not very close friend 2 weeks ago. Got her #

2. Called her up to hang out. When I called no on picked but she but calls back the next night. Agreed to hang out on Sunday.

3. I hanged out with her last Sunday for lunch then went to play a sport. She said that her friend was visting from seattle at that time so I was suprised she even came out
I took that as a good sign.

4. Called her on tuesday, this time no one answers again.  The next night (tonight), she calls again like clockwork.
This makes feels like shes playing games here. Why would she always call me back the next night and make me wait?
Shes obviously awake when I called her.

5. Blow water a bit then asked if she was free on the weekend. She said she was going clubbing and the night market on fri and sat. I asked if she was available to hang out on Sunday and she probably has to do some house chores.

Right now I take that as a subtle rejection. Obviously, you can schedule your time  around housechores. I guess she just wasn't interested in hanging out?

I have decided to either not contact her again or maybe at least not for a few weeks. What do you guys think?

[ 本帖最後由 mattb 於 2008-8-6 23:54 編輯 ]

puZZle

mind game mind game

ditch her!

siuyudim

if she's interested, she'll call you. but if you don't receive a single text/sms in a week or two... there's your answer. good luck.

shutterbug

too early to say wor...but enjoy this "guessing" period...it's a fun game...

if she doesnt pick up only means she doesnt wanna talk to you, or she's busy. just because she calls back the next night, doesn't mean she is purposely making you wait. you feel like you're waiting because you want to progress with your target.

clubbing and night market dates are pre-scheduled with whoever she's going with. what's wrong if she wants to do some housework to work around her scheduled weekend plans? remember the fact that you are the one who wants to see her asap....doesn't mean your target needs to make time for you and put you into priority. grow up.

mattb

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2008-8-7 11:16 發表
if she doesnt pick up only means she doesnt wanna talk to you, or she's busy. just because she calls back the next night, doesn't mean she is purposely making you wait. you feel like you're waiting be ...

Please learn to read. I never said there was anything "wrong" with her scheduling around her time to do housework. I was simply saying that this action suggests she is probably not interested (or interested enough) and I should no longer pursue her.

By the way, the person who needs to grow up is you.  Acting like a troll in a forum while posting anonymously won't get you far in life. Grow up, buddy.

mattb

原帖由 siuyudim 於 2008-8-7 01:44 發表
if she's interested, she'll call you. but if you don't receive a single text/sms in a week or two... there's your answer. good luck.

Yes that's right.  I think my decision is correct and it looks like most of you agree. (except the anonymous troll who likes to take cheap shots at other people)

siumaibb

or maybe she decided to ditch you because she read your post here.......

Guy

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call her a few times.. more.. and then pause a little bit see
if she call you back and check out on you...if she does ...she is in..

you have to understand this is her ego.....if you consistently call her.. she felt she is needed and locked on.......
when you sudden stop calling ...she will felt .."am i lose his interest?...I gotta find out" then she will start calling you...


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原帖由 mattb 於 2008-8-7 11:44 AM 發表



Please learn to read. I never said there was anything "wrong" with her scheduling around her time to do housework. I was simply saying that this action suggests she is probably not interested (or i ...

if there's nothing "wrong" then howcome you're complaining that you're NOT GETTING IMMEDIATE ATTENTION? face the fact you want her, & it's up to her discretion if you have a shot at it or not. a real man won't vent out over small crap like this online...thats what everyone expects in the progress of pursuing a chick. so obviously, you're either too young, or inexperienced at courtship. if you are so damn cocky about the annoymous thing, why make an ID online to post on a forum? comon dude...everyone on LYK is pretty much on the same boat buddy. if you had the guts, you woulda used your real name & used your own face as an avatar.