原帖由 blueprint 於 2008-1-25 21:58 發表
It was a really pathetic debate where the real questions are not really answered at all. Can't believe it takes 25 pages and still the misunderstandings. Oh well.... perhaps there is no way to debate ...
thanks
well, I was pissed off at first but then I am ok, since .... I dunno, normally a loser (in forum) would do this kind of insulting to other members when they can't win....I am just curious that if those 2 members who were trying to insult my gf are friends/couples with those 3 girls who were debating with me. Especially as I remember I never argued with them in LYK before, so......weird...anyways, I also have had enough to repeat my point again and again and again and again and still have someone to miss them
I was trying to look at that post this morning, but it just went down before I even get to see what the responses were.
Oh, MoiRhapsody, thanks for the comfort, really appreciate it.
But again, I really hope people can just response to critical/crucial debates instead of picking a fight with unrelated attacks.
I know there are some people here are just trying to play the "good guy" role and be nice to a certain few female members, and I really don't blame them for playing their acts as a so called 護花使者, but it really is plain dumb when they protect or retaliate with the wrong methods... aai...
原帖由 Serenade 於 2008-1-26 06:14 發表
I was trying to look at that post this morning, but it just went down before I even get to see what the responses were.
Oh, MoiRhapsody, thanks for the comfort, really appreciate it.
But again, I rea ...
well, too bad that the most popular thread of LYK in this week is closed
1st, I don't have any relationship with the people in that thread. 2nd, I said already that I did not intend to insult you or your gf initially. 3rd, I was considered as Littleprince enemy in the old LYK forum; so I would not defend her.
When I said "May be a PC gf", I was trying to bring up a possible reason for girls who don't mind doing AA. For example, if a guy is driving a lot of "nice" cars, we may come up with the reason that "may be the father's gf is rich". In a negative way, if a guy is not able to afford a car, I would say "may be the family is poor". So that is bringing the family in and insult the family? In that thread, we were not even talking about your gf willing to do AA. Well, if what you posted are specifically talking about you and your gf, I would understand why you link my comment to your gf right away.
Of course, I don't 100% agree with this reason that a girl willing to do AA because she is ugly. That's why I said "May be". However, it is very common and reasonable that some girls would lower their dating standard when their appearence is not attractive enough to compete with other girls. They simply find other ways to attract the male. e.g. paying dating expense, picking a loser as bf, showing their intelligence... etc. Therefore, I don't see anything wrong for me to bring that up in an open dicussion as a possible reason.
Ok. I think I have state this clear that "may be a PC gf" comment is not aiming at your gf. If you still take it as an insult, that's too bad and so be it.
Oh, and please don't even try to assume that people are related when they have similar opinion and thinking. I would not think that Chunsh and Serenade are 斷背 buddies.
發表於 2008-1-25 22:06
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