ushush

support 大C姐!!
same here! I married young, also 貪威, 貪吃﹐貪玩﹐貪方便, me and my wife making decent income, not a lot, but more than enough to just support ourself.
but whenever we went shopping (no matter what we bought), to my MIL is 嘥錢
we eat out only in the weekend, to her also is 嘥錢
and when we went for a trip, wa.... 大件事law, like we are spending our whole 身家!!! lol

however, to be fair, the way we grow up are different than 上一代, I believe most of us grown up with at least 三餐溫飽, 有書讀, don't have to worry too much of living, never experience war, never experience the "poorness" of 上一代, so, to them,  living and saving is far more important than enjoyment of life, like 大C姐 said "呢D人無論幾多錢都唔會感到安全" so, we have to understand why they act like that lor... to them, living always = 錢 and 享受 always = 嘥錢

大C姐

所以呢﹐我由細到大最尊敬就係果D"孤寒自己﹐闊佬人哋"嘅人。你慳你市賄你閂埋房門慳爆佢﹐但係對外真係唔好做到錢字大個天﹐有時做人闊佬D真係為自己積福積德。呢個世界邊有人想同"度叔"打交道?

當然﹐我家C父出面都唔算孤寒﹐但係最困擾係圍內自己人有時真係唔好成日講錢。唔識我哋一家嘅人聽到我哋對話真係以為我哋生活好困難。慘過住喺貧窮線以下。

我覺得"有錢"係無定意﹐我渣住1萬蚊一個月又有1萬蚊生活﹐5萬又有5萬蚊生活﹐過十萬又有過十萬生活。就算偶然真係呻窮﹐物價貴也好﹐只要退而求其次﹐其實生活都過得去。用不著每個禮拜都驚自己疊樓貶值﹐D股票跌﹐份工唔穩定... 人生你要巢嘢嚟煩﹐一定俾你揾到。但係都係想講一句﹐香港人放鬆D啦﹗


-- 放鬆都好堅挺嘅大咪姐

habitrailspace

It is true, but more and more 窮得只剩下錢 people in China now ...

Well, better then before, the ...
Catpiano 發表於 2010-8-7 06:46

his father??

hium

近期佳作! 講中咗我嘅心聲出嚟～ support!

prickly_rose

好認同...支持！

大C姐

support 大C姐!!
same here! I married young, also 貪威, 貪吃﹐貪玩﹐貪方便, me and my wife making dec ...
ushush 發表於 2010-8-7 06:54

    就講翻"上一代"同"呢一代"嘅心態呀﹐其實我覺得都唔係黑白分明。好多而家做人父母呢代都係baby boomers﹐戰後出世﹐當然經歷過窮困嘅日子。但係唔好忘記﹐呢一批人後生果陣都經歷過70/80年代﹐經濟起飛﹐聲色犬馬嘅日子。當年都好捨得去旅行﹐大宴親朋﹐買"勞"買benz﹐都算真係風光過。雖然係窮過﹐但係都曾經闊佬過。所以我唔覺得完全係受40-50年代戰後影響。根本好多人老老吓就越嚟越縮﹐好無安全感﹐對社會好唔信任。

My gf's father side parent always talks about money.
every time on the phone is... how much are you going to transfer, and when?... or.. it's about time to transfer money...and how many cousin is needing a laptop each from you when you come back.

if you do, they keep calling.
if you refuse, they dun even bothering calling you.


you should summit this to hk newspaper's editorial

Very well put, Miss Big C. I just wish more people could come to realize the same thing.

窮得只剩下 ...
Lik 發表於 2010-8-6 22:45

Idiot! Talk is cheap! Ask your Taiwanese girls if they will date you if you are poor la

忍唔住都要出聲﹐你地呢班虛偽的人﹐看見你們好嘔心啊~
說永遠比做容易﹐有錢執看你們執唔執先啦

Lik

有種、夠薑嘅話就唔能好匿名啦，羚羊！又要學人威，又要帶頭盔！

-力