Yui

吾係清官難審家庭事咩?

一家人因財失義到呢個地步,確實可悲.

快樂牛郎

錢只係導火線
如果父子本身之間冇問題
咁少錢根本唔會發展到而家呢個地步

sonson411

dude... that guy is 37 year old...
he should be totally independent from parents...

To me, the parents rent out the place to his 37 year old son for a cheaper price is not 老冯...
also, 結了婚仲要日日返屋企食父母的...
no money... then, don't get married and give birth to baby...

[ 本帖最後由 sonson411 於 2008-3-3 18:42 編輯 ]

shutterbug

Going home for dinner not necessasrily mean they have no money geh, some parents do want their kids to go back to see them.

That guy is a professional and has a good job la...he probably makes a lot more than the average!

mcjohnjohn

每月比7500蚊父母, 果度d租都差唔多呢個數... (因為小弟將來結左婚之後就係住o係果度, 所以十分清楚)
換句話說, 呢個仔係一亳子都冇比過屋企. 既然個仔計到咁盡, 老豆同佢計番供佢讀書果一筆都好有情理.

個仔點解唔諗下, 唔係佢父母供佢去讀書, 而家既事業又邊有咁順利丫? d 人都唔識感恩既...

matt72178

MJJ﹐
我就唔係0甘同意。
乜野係一家人﹐血濃於水。呢樣係無野可以代替。
即係話父母供仔女去讀書﹐就當為長線投資? 你乖既就比啖飯你食﹐唔乖既你同我死能開。
做父母唔係0甘做。點解唔可以單方面付出?
0甘當然﹐冰封三尺非一日之寒。可能平時欠缺溝通﹐一個誤會咪爆晒出黎囉。

mcjohnjohn

大隻matt,

正常既case既話, 我覺得你講既野好合理. 尤其係"一家人﹐血濃於水".
但係, 呢一家人好明顯唔係血濃於水. 既然而家打官司要拎番d 錢, 當然要均均真真啦.

身為父母, 當然想比最好既野比仔女. 供左佢讀書, 都應該唔係為回報既. 但小弟覺得點都應該比番d 家用屋企law, 父母大大話話養左自己廿幾三十年, 點都要報答番佢地law.

ricrick

話就話條命係父母比，應該報恩，但父母可能是一時快感種下禍根，子女都不能選擇自己想不想來到這個世界，
所以父母生下了子女，就應該負責任，不能說你生了兒女，他們一定要報答。好似你本來吾想借錢，但有人係咁借錢比你，不得不借，一借要還一世。是不是說不通？你們看看地球上所有動物，有那一隻會回來報恩？

其實這些只不過是人是有感情，有思想的動物，是懂得投資，懂得講回報，人對你好，你對人好是很基本
最後便有孝的思想誕生，因為世上沒有比父母的好。父母也可安心用孝的道德咖鎖其子女，好使晚年有著落
但父母不應抱怨自己的子女對自己不好，因對子女好是父母的天命，有著你自己羅來的成份
到子女長大後當成父母，他們便要向其子女還錢，這是地球上所有動物不變的定律

kaimui22

i think the problems are much deeper than just the money. Maybe the wife didn't get along with the Mother In Law? And maybe methods of taking care of the baby is different and therefore 磨擦 = conflict? There has to be a much deeper reason for the case other than just the rent. Think about it, he's been living with his parents for his entire life..why fight for the money now? it could be the wife or the baby etc etc.

they are only using $$ as a way of conflict because it is tangible and can be won and lost. And when they put money on the table, there's no going back. Money fuel angers and all relationships are harmed.

SAZABI

原帖由 ricrick 於 2008-3-4 01:08 發表
子女都不能選擇自己想不想來到這個世界

唔想既話, 可以自隊