小叻

反映晒男同女對於性既態度~~

rainbow-davie

我想在男仔心目中﹐
一個女仔可以輕易和你上床﹐
之前都不知同過幾多人

他們還有興趣娶這樣的女仔嗎﹖

所以﹐女仔真的應該珍惜青春﹐珍惜自己 ...
Littleprince 發表於 2009-4-30 12:21

所以﹐女仔真的應該珍惜青春﹐珍惜自己...

but why?  What is the reason to 珍惜青春珍惜自己? for what?  for future husband? what if her future husband doesnt' care of this?

and why has to 珍惜? what to 珍惜?  what concept is that?  

is that a social concept of what girl should be?   how about guy?  should guy 珍惜自己 & 珍惜青春?

I'm not critizing you.. I'm just thinking & questioning everyone about this concept.  WHY? and what's the reason for...

rainbow-davie

性當然是美好的。。。

相信只有很極端的人才會像你所說﹐看性是 EVIL的吧。。。

只是﹐
若男女第一步就造愛﹐
他們的關係會變得怎樣呢﹖
男孩子不是喜歡不斷地追求新鮮感﹐更青春更吸引的肉體嗎 ...
Littleprince 發表於 2009-4-30 12:18

does a relationship has to be   love -> dating -> and eventually result in Marriage and without divorce?

Does it mean perfect relationship?  What is it stand for?  what is it mean to the people having so-called social defined perfect relationship?

What about a relationship just build on sex but both are happy? and it ends without any love, dating, marriage.. but both people were happy & satisifed during that period?

again, I'm just raising question.

The society has imposed a lot of concepts or 'direction' of what everyone should be. however, everyone is different and has different needs.  can we use a general rule meansure our thinking & behavior?

Yui

係北美生活,我都擔心第日吾知點教女. 點先可以令拒從小有自我保護和珍惜自己身體的觀念?

我想識唸既男仔都未必會輕易接受開放的女孩,但會否佔左便宜先又另作別論.唉,將來又應該點教仔呢?!

fibbi

12# rainbow-davie

Just wondering, do you mind your gf having lots of sex relationship with other ppl at all?
(not mean the girl is chicken...but like ONS etc.)
Will you mind girl is 濫?

小叻

點解要同一個佢唔愛你既男人上床?? 就算上左床~個男既都未必會一定愛她﹗ why doing sex with him then?? just for one night stand or memory??? this is crazy...

B仔

我想問：
如果條仔要嫌個女仔好未結婚就同人訓，唔知訓過幾多個。。。

咁個D"傳統思想"嘅女仔會唔會嫌個男仔之前搞過好多條女，唔知搞過幾多件，而唔想嫁比佢呀？妳地會唔會想搵青頭仔嚟拍拖結婚生仔呢？

shutterbug

born after 1990..


Well, I actually don't see any problem with Sex before Dating.  
Different ppl have different need.  like the guy, he doesn't need love, he needs sex.. so what? anything wrong wi ...
rainbow-davie 發表於 2009-4-30 12:05

Yes, actually if a guy doesn't need love but just sex, he has big problems...should see a Psychologist asap...LOL or this guy is just a teenager who is starting to explore sex...

for a mature man, he needs both

B仔

點解要同一個佢唔愛你既男人上床?? 就算上左床~個男既都未必會一定愛她﹗ why doing sex with him then?? just for one night stand or memory??? this is crazy...
小叻 發表於 2009-4-30 12:42

好簡單姐。因為個女仔係個一刻覺得值得囉。她覺得係愛他，就係願意為她的愛意做任何野，只要令他開心，滿足，就夠。唔可以話個女仔D乜，因為係佢自己嘅價值觀同你唔同。

B仔

Yes, actually if a guy doesn't need love but just sex, he has big problems...should see a Psychologist asap...LOL or this guy is just a teenager who is starting to explore sex...

for a mature man, h ...
shutterbug 發表於 2009-4-30 12:48

如果佢要SEX，唔代表佢一定要愛個女仔架BOR～ 佢可以鍾意個女仔，亦可以係為利用個女仔。你真係吹佢唔脹。