Alcoholic

things that i did so far:

- not eating (well, no appetite anyways)
- binge eating
- venting out with excessive swearing
- o爹
- massive chocolate intake
- sleep (that didn't go too well)
- shopping. but no mood to buy even though the dress looks hot on
- 扮靚 (didn't go well either cus i look & feel like sh!t)
- i wanna play my UO to continue decorate my house, but my pc is too slow
- act happy
- try to keep myself occupied

Alcoholic

原帖由 Littleprince 於 2008-3-28 07:57 PM 發表

你講起這種感覺我都試過﹐我發覺係響一個強壯的臂灣內就會找到自己內裡的小女人。。。

我一向扮剛強﹐死都唔響人面前哭。。。響加拿大第一份工﹐都係成日要服務客人﹐有時難免比客人罵﹐我不夠膽回罵﹐但一定死頂唔會哭出來 ...

唔係假唔假既問題，只係我o係越陌生既人面前，我會越剛強. 因為我唔會想比人睇到底牌。
老公令我覺得有安全感，可以依靠，可以信賴。
雖然黎單係 a much bigger problem/unhappiness than 我上次燒親自己頭髮。。。但係反而我只有無聲地喊左一次，冇好似燒親頭髮個次咁大大聲喊左成粒鍾o爹老公。唔知點解

matt72178

你可以試下拎返以前/細個D 相黎睇﹐或者可以睇返你HK 朋友寄俾你既信或生日卡/聖誕卡。你會勾返起好多暫時遺忘既開心回憶﹐心情自然可以平復。

utopia

Twin,

what happened??? You should have called me ~~~~~

Depends on what kind of situation.

If someone dump me, I would torture myself by listening love songssss
Cry all I want until I'm tired and calm. Then, tell myself I'm still good and strong, life still goes on and I should never lose.

If it's about my worklife, I'm very choked and pissed. I would swear all I want, either to my  close friends or even alone in the car. I figure swear can let go of stresses sometimes If it doesn't help, then I will start thinking how good my life is, and how screw up she/he is, and I have much better life to live instead of ruining my day for him/her.

If it's about familiy, I try to be optimistic and try to think for a better excuse for them or remember the good old days. Then I will try to solve/find out what went on.

If it's about friendship, pretty much same with family .


p.s. TWIN, called me tomorow passed afternoon, and let me know what happened, ok?
You make me worry. Sorrie, I have final tomorrow morning ........still digging my textbook and notes.......

Intelstan

My way is to sit in a relaxing chair and listen to music and/or go to sleep.

yungfourfour

What I'd usually do is to talk it out, at least let all ppl around me know what happened, even those event might be embarrassing.... I jsut don't like people talking behind my back.  I'd rather tell them what happened to me no matter what... and in time when I repeat telling ppl the hard feeling started to fade lor

Don't carry your bad feeling to the weekend! be happy

shinnrhyme

just think... ull be feeling much better in x amount of hours hahaha

Alcoholic

matt:
all my childhood goofy pics with my siblings are at my mom's place
i have no friends in hk either
during my time trying to keep myself occupied, i try my best to have positive thinking, try to think of some 自我反省 etc... this morning i feel so 空虛. but by now, i just feel numb. like.... i don't feel anything   in a way, it is still 平復心情?

Twin,
after my long long email. now you know what happened lah. *sigh* sorry i didn't check LYK earlier, i didn't know you replied. or else i would have waited until tomorrow afternoon sin sms you lah... sorry baby~ good luck on your exam tomorrow. even though i'll be sleeping (hopefully), i'll still pray & wish you the best luck

yung44,
i did.... i did vent. maybe that's why my heart don't feel that "rock" 頂住anymore, which leaves me feeling numb. although in a way it did make me better, but i felt bad for being bummed out about it for 2 days, & ranting on & on.
but i am glad that my familiy & friends are very supportive & understanding.... at least i'm comfortable with ranting to them sin lah. that i'm very grateful to those people that have heard me spill the story ( i here thanks Twin & Sazabi )

superberry

1. Pray to God
2. Talk to a trustable person that is not related to the situation
3. Eat a lot of chocolate (and coffee if I get stress out)
4. Go shopping. In extreme situation when I am super unhappy, I'll buy myself a LV and ignore the credit card payment for awhile.

Mini

how about watching those super funny stupid low b movies which don't need you to think but just laugh?  (like there's something about mary, stephen chow's old movies, wong jing's or TV shows like eric tsang's 獎門人).  reading funny comics like ranma 1/2.  i found that some of the mcdull comics and most of the 草日 貓貓系列 can make me laugh my head off.