pkphilip

Too early to tell. As many suggested to ask her out formally on a date, then if she says no, you get your answer. Try to put yourself in her shoe, maybe you will understand something.

I get the feeling that you are somehow desperate to find out a definite answer, that I think itself could scare her away. I think if you are really interested in that girl, you should spend some time to understand her (not neccessary have to go out), spend some time on the phone, see how comfortable you both talking to each other.

I am one of those who has awkward work schedule, that doesn't prevent me from dating/chasing girls. My golden rule of dating is to understand who I am dating, what am I up against. Then try to see if there is a possibility for development. Being a guy, I treat "eat lemon" like rice.

There are many ways to find out if the other person is interested in you, simply by starting a conversation and see if she is willing to engage in your conversation. If her responses are simple and lame answer, chances are she is not that interested.

Philip

mattb

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2008-8-7 22:53 發表

if there's nothing "wrong" then howcome you're complaining that you're NOT GETTING IMMEDIATE ATTENTION? face the fact you want her, & it's up to her discretion if you have a shot at it or not. a real man won't vent out over small crap like this online...thats what everyone expects in the progress of pursuing a chick. so obviously, you're either too young, or inexperienced at courtship. if you are so damn cocky about the annoymous thing, why make an ID online to post on a forum? comon dude...everyone on LYK is pretty much on the same boat buddy. if you had the guts, you woulda used your real name & used your own face as an avatar.

boy oh boy you really need to learn how to read..

Let me refute your arguments, point by point
"if there's nothing "wrong" then howcome you're complaining that you're NOT GETTING IMMEDIATE ATTENTION? face the fact you want her"
1. Read my post again. I wasn't complaining. Whether I was asking people here whether they agreed with my action. Oh , and right after I said I will not call her anymore, you still insist I wan her?

２。"it's up to her discretion if you have a shot at it or not. a real man won't vent out over small crap like this online...thats what everyone expects in the progress of pursuing a chick. so obviously, you're either too young, or inexperienced at courtship.〞
Ａ real man won't post anonymously and talk trash. Wait, I guess I am such a "noob" in relationship that I managed to get a girl's number the first time I met her, asked her out to hang out 1v1 with me, and gave her a back massage on our first meeting? Wow, I don't know too many guys who could pull that off. As for not continue to pursue her, its not really a big loss to me consider I have OTHER OPTIONS. If you think asking others opinion on whether they agree with my action is considered to be "venting" or "complaining", you have serious problems.

3. ". if you are so damn cocky about the annoymous thing, why make an ID online to post on a forum? comon dude...everyone on LYK is pretty much on the same boat buddy. if you had the guts, you woulda used your real name & used your own face as an avatar."

No you are not even making any sense.  I made an ID cus I need to post one on a forum? How else do I post. If you know any alternatives, please enlighten me.
Guts? Theres no requirement here to have to use your real picture and real name here right? Its pretty sad that you are refusing to even use to show your login id, as you are fully aware that by talking trash, you will be flamed by others (and that is exactly what happened here.)   How low can you possibly get when you even chicken out from using your account? I have seen my share of losers/chickenshvt, but you are definitely cream of the crop.

So pathetic, so naive..

btw, if you want to meet me in person, feel free to pm me

[ 本帖最後由 mattb 於 2008-8-15 02:03 編輯 ]

mattb

原帖由 cllo 於 2008-8-8 08:43 發表
interesting topic here.  why are we allowing posting anonymously.  there is ppl who know who's who here.  that way post wont go too far.

maybe Mr. 匿名 is trying to chase the same girl as you, mattb. ...

The girl is not Chinese, and she is alot more mature than 匿名.

In fact, 匿名 reminds me of a user who was recently banned from lyk. I can tell from his diction and writing style
But I can't confirm yet so I won't say who it is.

nameless

so this girl is korean? Japanese? caucasian ?

If I'm a banned member, then I can choose not to annoymous my ID because I will then infact have a new ID that's unfamiliar to active LYKs

It's simple, so skip the BS: the conclusion that everyone is telling you in your face here is the fact that you're being too IMPATIENT, that's why you need an opinion to decide if you should keep on pursuing or not.

And I don't need to meet you in person because I do know how 7 you look like. That's why i'm an annoymous. Of course you think you're all pimping because the guys that you know are hermits and cannot approach a girl directly as you can "pulled it off"... but wait. That's not something impressive because that is the PROPER approach with the normal standards. Of course you're more superior when you compare yourself to low grading guys....

[ 本帖最後由 匿名 於 2008-8-15 11:51 編輯 ]

mattb

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2008-8-15 12:50 發表
If I'm a banned member, then I can choose not to annoymous my ID because I will then infact have a new ID that's unfamiliar to active LYKs

It's simple, so skip the BS: the conclusion that every ...

Its kinda hard to be as 7 as you to have to post anonymously so that you won't get your ass kicked for trolling.  Obviously, you knew you were gonna get flamed for doing that, so go as low as posting anonymously.
Pretty sad, no?

And I don't need to meet you in person because I do know how 7 you look like. That's why i'm an annoymous.

No, I assure you that I don't know you, and am not one of your many imaginary friends.

I love to see you get all worked up then get chickenshvt and refuse to come out. Are you one of those typical honger 毒男 who weighs 120 pounds that loves to talk trash online?
I can probably shoulder press your weight.

get a life, and good luck trying to get laid with your so called relationship insights

[ 本帖最後由 mattb 於 2008-8-16 00:02 編輯 ]

i get laid everynight....and it's pretty obvious that YOU'RE not getting laid right now~ lol

besides, which man will need to go online to ask random people for opinion on whether or not to chase a girl? haha

puZZle

so how'd the story go?

Hyde

why do u care if she got a bf or not?

news

coz he is too scared getting rejected