Purpleheart

對啊~ 維持一段友誼比結識 朋友更難

以我觀察~ 男仔結識朋友 ( friendship ) 係首先向對方微笑, 然後伸手同人握手~ and then 介紹自己~ 然後講下車, iphone, 電腦.....there u go! 就這樣有個 朋友了!

問題係你願唔願意踏出第一步伸出友誼之手??

mucc1928

Thank you so much for all of your valuable replies.  

I believe i post at the rigth place.  I used to post at Craiglist with similar topic.  One of my replies is a guy sending his nuke pic, saying "I can fill your hole of loneliness".  And people there did not take my topic seriously.

Oh well, I enjoy all the suggestions, especially the hiking group and leadship program.  the bridge topic is also awesome.  Indeed, I am a very open-minded person.  I certainlly know how to approach people, and i constantly do this step everyday.  To start a friendship is not hard for me as I have many backpacking and work stories to tell.  To maintain friendship "fresh" is more difficult.  i don't deny that my talking is as dry as H2O, but i never stop learning and imrpoving myself.

Currenlty I have known most of my friends'friends already, but i guess we just don't mix and i don't fit that circle.  Furthemroe, i had just broke up with my gf, so thats' why i am so desperate to meet more people to turn my focus away.  

So yeah, when you are seraching clubs or groups to join, do you have any good website that list all the clubs available in vancouver?  And yeah, if loyaukee has activity, I would probably join if it doesn't crash with my work time.

heykevin

原帖由 mucc1928 於 2008-9-20 01:13 發表
Thank you so much for all of your valuable replies.  

I believe i post at the rigth place.  I used to post at Craiglist with similar topic.  One of my replies is a guy sending his nuke pic, saying "I can fill your hole of loneliness".  And people there did not take my topic seriously.

Oh well, I enjoy all the suggestions, especially the hiking group and leadship program.  the bridge topic is also awesome.  Indeed, I am a very open-minded person.  I certainlly know how to approach people, and i constantly do this step everyday.  To start a friendship is not hard for me as I have many backpacking and work stories to tell.  To maintain friendship "fresh" is more difficult.  i don't deny that my talking is as dry as H2O, but i never stop learning and imrpoving myself.

Currenlty I have known most of my friends'friends already, but i guess we just don't mix and i don't fit that circle.  Furthemroe, i had just broke up with my gf, so thats' why i am so desperate to meet more people to turn my focus away.  

So yeah, when you are seraching clubs or groups to join, do you have any good website that list all the clubs available in vancouver?  And yeah, if loyaukee has activity, I would probably join if it doesn't crash with my work time.

hey, there is still a lyk activity.
Some of our lyk members play badminton every Friday from 10-12pm.
You can join and play with them.

Caffie

原帖由 heykevin 於 2008-9-20 00:52 發表


hey, there is still a lyk activity.
Some of our lyk members play badminton every Friday from 10-12pm.
You can join and play with them.

yes, you may join us. it's actually from 10pm to midnight. then we go for bubble tea after that~ (I just came home =P)

tiffiant

where bubble tea aar? cutie caffie

Nokia

Maybe just one question:

Do you find it easy or difficult to make friends with your friends' friends and then develop/maintain the friendship (both m & f)?

阿朱

LYK 搞個 Friends Club?

tiffiant

join any clubs,  go success
LYK  meeting is perfect for you, baby

rockypath

i always hear a lot complains from friends that they have difficulty to expand their social circle. most of their friends are people they know in high school + some they met in college. after they start to work, they no longer make new friends or just a few (most of them are workmates).

mucc1928

Thank you for the replies!  But where is the badminton place?  I don't see the location in the reply.