chunsh

原帖由 rockypath 於 2008-12-17 12:28 發表
just don't get yourself into this kind of situation. at least take some protective actions. it does not require much effort to prevent things like this happen.

I agree

Ultraman

Yes, it's always super easy to say than work it out, men!
How about you're rich enough or your dad is rich enough and is willing to support you and your wife and your baby for the rest of your lives, would you have a healthy family in the future? Money is just one of the (and the main) reasons/excuses, but other than that, a parent has much more responsibility besides money, or should say, money is really not the main essential element to bring up a good kid. If you and your gf are not well prepared (physically, spiritually, and economically), getting married doesn't mean "you love her"; but on the other hand, you are just "being responsible" to your gf (doesn't necessary means "love"), but not your future baby. Imagine what will influence your baby's grows up, what kind of value and personality he/she will develop, what kind of future he/she will be getting.... ? Having babies is much more complicated and liable than just having sex, or even "simply get married lor". Not getting married in this inappropriate moment doesn't mean you can't/won't marry her later in the near future ga wor. If you really love your gf (future wife) and your future baby(ies), you should think twice what you should do.

shutterbug

原帖由 chunsh 於 2008-12-17 12:22 發表

tell me why there were/are so many people got executed (e.g. drowned in pig cage or being thrown stones upon them) by their own society because of having "illegal sex" in their society while they alr ...

simply because some people just follow their desires

definitely less % people doing this in the old days than it is now...

shutterbug

原帖由 Ultraman 於 2008-12-17 12:55 發表
Yes, it's always super easy to say than work it out, men!
How about you're rich enough or your dad is rich enough and is willing to support you and your wife and your baby for the rest of your lives, ...

You had unprotected sex with your gf and she's pregnant.  Now you're saying you don't love her and just being "responsible"?  That's garbage!  People think with their butts or what?  They don't know the consequence before they did it?

There are many parents who are just 14-18 years old in this world, so they are unqualified for being good parents?  I believe the most important thing a baby needs is love and a safe growing environment.  Are these that hard to achieve and requires a lot of money?  I don't think so.  The timing might not be the most ideal, but you're not going to have an abortion because of this right?  The path might not be smooth but don't be a coward, just face the problem!

chunsh

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 13:00 發表

simply because some people just follow their desires

definitely less % people doing this in the old days than it is now...

face the truth
while technologies changes and keep changing, human...or I should say, animal, nature doesn't

Hyde

原帖由 Ultraman 於 2008-12-17 12:55 發表
Yes, it's always super easy to say than work it out, men!
How about you're rich enough or your dad is rich enough and is willing to support you and your wife and your baby for the rest of your lives, ...

LOLOL
Money is THE only reason to worry.  They panic becuz they can't even afford themselves, how do you think they can afford to have a baby?  When you have money, do you really need to worry about bringing food on the table for the wife and baby?  There are better things to worry about then struggling to pay the bills.
like finding better schools for the kids etc etc.

shutterbug

face the truth
while technologies changes and keep changing, human...or I should say, animal, nature doesn't

well, those who can't control their desires, you can call them....animal...LOL

but there are still tons of humans in this world lor...

[ 本帖最後由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 13:52 編輯 ]

shutterbug

原帖由 Hyde 於 2008-12-17 13:44 發表


LOLOL
Money is THE only reason to worry.  They panic becuz they can't even afford themselves, how do you think they can afford to have a baby?  When you have money, do you really need to worry about ...

there are way more things than just money when bringing up a kid...don't be naive

chunsh

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-17 13:44 發表
well, those who can't control their desires, you can call them....animal...LOL

but there are still tons of humans in this world lor...

human never be able to control desire, we just good at suppressing and hiding them. If we can put all of our desire under CONTROL, why do we need government and police?

don't get me wrong though, I never say men have no responsibilities in such issues. Instead, we have. I just want to point out that it is very easy to say some heroic comments (I call it invincible speech ) here which most girls like to hear from their bf, but it would another story when this situation happen on them.

just like we always found some members in forums talk about their story that their bf/gf has another affair with another guy/woman and ask if he/she should leave his bf/gf. We can see that many other member who give replies would suggest that the poster should break up and found a new gf/bf. WELL, yeah, because its not their stories

Catpiano

I hvn't read all the replies ..  but when u said 伱女朋友有0左BB ..  does it mean she has SOMEONE else's baby?  and that bother you, and you dont know what to do??

Or you mean ..  you MADE the baby ..  ??