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18# 小叻


小叻唔係小叻，係好好叻

布小熊

小叻 is amazing.
I don't think I could stay home if my parents are like that. They do fav my bro... but not to that extreme.

Littleprince

小叻leeD女人去別度揾
habitrailspace 發表於 2009-7-24 10:52

可惜人地已經名花有主了喔

habitrailspace

可惜人地已經名花有主了喔
Littleprince 發表於 2009-7-24 17:46

欣賞一個人係唔須要擁有佢

tofu

happen to many chinese families la.  but your situation is kind of worst.
my mum believes guy doesn't know how to do housework and take care himself is normal, since he is a guy.  so i need to do all housework.  as 小叻 mentioned, you need to talk to your mum to have the problem solve.  my mum is much better now, since i educated her for years.
move out is an option.  i moved out before and our relationship started to get better at that time.  at least "no need to see each other everyday ma"

meowmeowmeow

My mom believe that a girl need to know how to do all housework, including: assembling furnitures, moving heavy stuffs, shuffling the snow, changing light bulbs, etc... In the same time, a girl should keep up with her appearance - stay pretty to keep her man.

And a man should concentrate on making money and bring money home.

As a result, my bro didn't need to do any housework, and complain about my housework is not done prefectly.

But for some reason, I still have to bring money home, even I am doing housework. And I would send money home even during the time I was not living at home.

Don't get me wrong, my mom loves me alot. She is kinda 重男輕女, or I should say more traditional. I cannot say she is wrong, nor get mad at her. It is because that's what she expect herself too...

meowmeowmeow

小叻係好叻gar... I would definitely fight back... I am not as patient as she is..

CWong

小叻嘅婚姻一定会過得非常幸福！

fibbi

小叻 really 冇得頂!
I would move out definitely.

小叻

Thanks everyone~~
I am not that strong la~ I am just lucky that I got someone to support me during my difficult time ^^ heheee