chunsh

yes..human has LUST.. and you will betray your loved one in the future..and have sex with another girl..becoz u cannot resist the LUST??? you think about it? If your future wife has LUST..and seduced  ...
小叻 發表於 2009-4-30 13:04

thats a different case for married couple or couples
and in our thread, we just talking, or I am just talking about if one-night-stand is ok for single teens or if people mind the sex experiences before a couple crash together

please dont try to drive away the topic, or misslead people

I have lust, and I am happy with satisfying my lust with my lover so I think I am ok
for those teen, as long as they did not marry, whats wrong with satisfying their lust with condoms?

chunsh

fibbi 問得好好囉。。。
若只是拍拖無上過床就 OK

thats a girl's/woman's dream of miracle about men

rainbow-davie

This can also be a side effect of immaturity which this article talks about...doing things on impulse and haven't think it through well enough.

Question of the concept of "why 珍惜自己" was raised.  ...
shutterbug 發表於 2009-4-30 12:57

immaturity & mature - what is your definition sin?  don't tell me over 18 is mature.  

珍惜自己 I know what ppl think in this way. but what is the benefit for the girl to 珍惜自己?  at last, it is just for MAN.   not for the girl.

chunsh

at last, it is just for MAN.   not for the girl.

clap clap clap clap

rainbow-davie

fibbi 問得好好囉。。。
rainbow-davie 我識得好多男仔﹐就算之前搞過幾多個﹐最後都還是想娶一個處女﹐我都唔明點解窩。。。
甘呢樣野能否支持“珍惜自己”呢個概念呢﹖

B 仔﹕平心而論﹐我會介意男友 ...
Littleprince 發表於 2009-4-30 13:04

"我識得好多男仔﹐就算之前搞過幾多個﹐最後都還是想娶一個處女" - I agree. Because guys are selfish.   They want to own something that is new. just like new car.    But then, after a while, they will think the new car is not new anymore, and need to get the newest model.   
So, should Girl so-called politically correct 珍惜自己  just for having a guy or husband like that?  I feel so pitty for all girls.     Should girl have the same chance of exploring sex, love & relationship as guy do?

shutterbug

如果個人需要性多過愛，就係IMMATURITY，憑乜去JUSTIFY？
impulse = lust
lust = 不該嗎？人人都有LUST，或唔同目標嘅LUST。

真惜自己？係你嘅眼中，個女仔唔真惜自己。係個女仔嘅眼仲，佢係真惜佢嘅機會，真惜佢 ...
B仔 發表於 2009-4-30 13:03

I agree with you that humans have lusts.

However, one's action should not be driven by lusts alone, especially on sex.  I said should not doesn't mean it will never happen.  We've seen numerous cases of rapes right?  I think animals are lust driven, they do not think or reason.  However, humans are different.

I did not judge whether or not the girl "真惜自己".  She might already know it's a gamble on the guy to satify him frist, but she still went for it.  What do you think the outcome of this will be in general?  The guy eventually dumps her right?  OK, if that's the case, will you call this girl 真惜自己?  She 真惜 the oppourtunity, but did she 真惜自己?

rainbow-davie

fibbi 問得好好囉。。。
rainbow-davie 我識得好多男仔﹐就算之前搞過幾多個﹐最後都還是想娶一個處女﹐我都唔明點解窩。。。
甘呢樣野能否支持“珍惜自己”呢個概念呢﹖

B 仔﹕平心而論﹐我會介意男友 ...
Littleprince 發表於 2009-4-30 13:04

使唔使為“濫人”先下定義呢﹖
what about 一齊來 make 定義啊﹖

Well,, according to LYK previous poll, there are so many LYK has sex, many sex.. or even cheating..etc etc etc   so, I don't thyink you can find any green head boi.

B仔

講真，就算比你地DATE D青頭仔。就算你們嫁的男人／拍拖嘅男人，雙方都係生命中唯一嘅SEX PARTNER都好。。。你地大部分女人如果搵到你嘅男人睇AV，都會瀰埋喊啦。佢冇出去滾喎，咁點解你地會唔開心會嬲？

你地係咪完全冇需要？如果有，你地點搞掂？睇AV？DIY？急CALL你個男人返嚟？定係傳統嘅女人係冇需要的？如果你話比你個男人聽你想要，佢地會唔會覺得你地好有LUST而唔開心？？

公平D啦～

fibbi

乜你哋唔認為sex係base on love嘅咩？係因為了解一個人，愛一個人，先至想同佢有親蜜關係嗟。講到明make LOVE 喎。拍拖有sex唔出奇，但係好似個artical咁講有sex先有love就唔好啦，同ONS 又有咩分別？ONS 蝕底果個咪又係女仔，一個唔覺意整咗個BB出嚟，男仔就可以拍拍個patpat走咗去，個女點呢？生出嚟？定係落咗佢？雖然我講得extreme咗，唔係唔會發生個喎。

shutterbug

immaturity & mature - what is your definition sin?  don't tell me over 18 is mature.  

珍惜自己 I know what ppl think in this way. but what is the benefit for the girl to 珍惜自己?  at last, it is  ...
rainbow-davie 發表於 2009-4-30 13:13

sex for a female is not only physical (not to mention the chances of getting pregnant, higher possiblity of "woman" sicknesses), but also emotional...I guess you don't understand girls that much...