SAZABI

So... what happens when you girls grow old and start to lose hair?
Poor Alcol hubby... gonna hear those "blah blah blah" all day...

Alcoholic

when we grow old
we will learn like the old grannys lor....
電髮，make it volumous, high & puffy

myversa

I can understand girls treasure their hair preciously.

My wife has some kind of hair problem and every night I have to put on some lotion.  I always put on gently and comfort her that it will be solved.

If the same thing happened to my wife, she would cry too because it takes her 20 something years to grow those hairs.

big_tooth

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-19 09:17 發表

噢~ 原來你做過問卷調查我唔知
真搞笑。

知道既男性朋友個個都話唔係大問題,係咪遲早都要剪頭髮
知道既女性朋友個個都話如果係佢，一定好似我咁喊。我有朋友similar case, but her hair got caught inside blow drye ...

Look back at your own words.  Have you done a survey to show men don't understand?  Your male friends don't think it's a big problem doesn't mean they don't understand why you think it is.  And secondly, your male friends don't represent the majority of men, let alone ALL men.

How am I being self-centered?  Because I have an opinion?  That I'm implying that there are many men out there that do understand?  What?

SAZABI

原帖由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-19 10:30 發表


Look back at your own words.  Have you done a survey to show men don't understand?  Your male friends don't think it's a big problem doesn't mean they don't understand why you think it is.  And secondly, your male friends don't represent the majority of men, let alone ALL men.

How am I being self-centered?  Because I have an opinion?  That I'm implying that there are many men out there that do understand?  What?

I think it is pretty common that women claim men don't understand them.  And, I would like to point out that there is a difference between knowing and understanding.  e.g. I know girls love shopping, but I don't understand why.  I know girls care about hair, but I don't understand why to a degree they need to cry like a baby.

So, based on your opinion, all survey out there must be crap as they can never survey all the samples available, or that you can always question about the sample selected.  Well... that's ok, people have choice to believe what they believe.  However, I don't think the "All men" quoted from Alcohol is inappropriate, as All men in her circle don't understand.  So what do you expect?  Expect her to believe that there are still LOTS or MAJORITY of men out there who would understand like some other girls who come from la la land? LOL

I don't know if you are self-centered, but picking minor details or "holes" in some statement to debate like she is trying to publish a thesis to conclude "All men don't understand women" is just simply lame.

big_tooth

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-19 10:48 發表


I think it is pretty common that women claim men don't understand them.  And, I would like to point out that there is a difference between knowing and understanding.  e.g. I know girls love shopping ...

You're putting words in my mouth.  I'm not suggesting surveys are useless.  It depends on the sample size.  If you are to say my friends are this way and therefore people are this way, then I would say that "survey" is crap.

Having said that, I do think it is lame to start all these survey talk.

SAZABI

原帖由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-19 11:23 發表


You're putting words in my mouth.  I'm not suggesting surveys are useless.  It depends on the sample size.  If you are to say my friends are this way and therefore people are this way, then I would  ...

When your friends or the people you know are this way.  It is hard to make yourself to believe the majority of the people are not this way.

Alcoholic

so funny
so what's YOUR opinion sin? you "understand" or "not understand" sin.
so what's the purpose of you generalization that "husband doesn't understand" VS "men don't understand" when you didn't even make an opinion related to our discussion, 咁叉隻腳埋黎做乜先? 你咪仲lame.

一個女人，唔開心，問下身邊D朋友，講下故仔，真係咁岩所有男既答同一個答案，所有女既有同感。

在線上輕鬆討論下搞笑痛苦經歷，無啦啦又D人以先撩者賤既姿態大搖大擺。你唔需要鑊鑊gam硬apply你既理論落別人身上，要既，麻煩你慢慢apply落你屋企個件。

SAZABI

b/c according to the lamer, before you make such conclusion, you must do a survey with every man on this planet (or at least a decenct sample size) to convince him so that he won't pop out some worthless reply

utopia

Perhaps, someone really have a boring life and his/her only fun is try to make an argument with my twin. Since Alc can go on and on and on and on with her endlessly, heheehhe, Hey, not everybody have this strenght to gather a good "debate".

But seriously, I don't see this topic worthed to debate anyways.

I brought up this thread because I find twin's blog entries is very funny and worth to share with everybody here to have a good laugh or smile. Not to launch a debate lor